Women who want to lose weight are a turn off to me. Not only because they will be getting smaller (in the short term), but because they say so many negative things about weight and large people.
10 years
In 2000 and 2001 we got 8 cats for various reasons. Sadly, we are just down to 3 now.
10 years
lush:
Ive been with my hb since I was 17. I was very slim then. Over the years, as you can see, ive gained a lot! Hes never ever complained but is not an FA. Hes never touched my belly, or fed me apart from the occasional ice cream...but ive lived all these years suppressing my needs. We have a great relationship but talking about being fat and being fed just doesn't come easy even after all this time. I have lived a life of pretending to want to lose weight. Even doing so once or twice and pretending that I wasnt into all this any more.
But now im bigger and more mature (llol) I find im more comfortable with my size and belly, but still cannot admit my desires. So I search for 'rrelief' an outlet on sites like these... w which can be dangerous...
I guess it is the same thing for the admirers. My wife is a BBW but hates it. So I go to sites like these and chat and read the stories,etc.
10 years
Whatever happened to enjoying a big bowl of ice cream or a box of cookies?
10 years
I think the only way I would be embarrassed is if she was a web model. People asks her what she does for work, and she says she collects money from men who watch her eat. Then they ask if she does anything else. Then she says she goes to men's houses and sits on their face.
10 years
Just tell her that you've been gaining weight, and say you hope it doesn't bother her if you've been a bad influence.
10 years
They list the side effects for medicine, but not all people get all side effects, and some get them more so than others.
10 years
May I suggest getting an email address, phone number, text number or something you can use to locate him if he drops FF again.
10 years
I can't imagine mutual gaining, because one person should be thin enough to take care of the other. Plus it is more fun to concentrate on one person gaining weight. I know others have other opinions.
10 years
It sounds like there are too many things going on here. As someone pointed out, feminism is about equality, not about bad hygiene. Beauty is always in the eye of the beholder. For example, on this site, gaining weight makes someone more attractive, not less. Women are free to cut their hair short, not shave their legs, dress in men's clothes, etc. But men (or whoever) are free not to find them attractive and not make advances towards them. And some men probably prefer women who are not traditional. As fas as "ugly," there are some things that can be fixed, and some that can't be fixed easily. A woman with a big nose is not the same thing as a woman who doesn't shave her legs. Beauty is what first attracts someone, but there are a lot more factors that keep people together. But I also know some older women who no longer take pride in their looks and then criticizes men who like younger women. Women are free to spend less time on their looks, but men are free to be attracted to women who try to look their best.
10 years
