Nope...we haven't talked about the encounter...and I am sure sure probably thought "wow...he just broke the chair. It has fabric all around and I think it was a splinter type crack on the back, in the frame with lots of padding around it. The crack isn't visible and structurally still if fine but it makes a bit more creaking noise now.....it might only be a matter of time before it really cracks.

When I was very young I knew I liked Fat. I happened to be very skinny and could never gain weight....even when I was in Hugh school. But the crazy thing is I liked fat on girls/women and I liked more and more of it as I got older.

Just curious how many girls & guy's were really skinny themselves and liked Fat and heavier guy's or girls?

It seems there are a bunch of really skinny or thin women on this site and others that are feeders. But also I was curious if this is a pattern that many of us were skinny and very thin when we were younger but loved the opposite in our mate.

I was actually skinny like this unitl I was 23 or 24 yrs. old....then in a blink I became bulky...and then many years later bulkier with a big gut. So my body totally changed but I don't think it was me manifesting weight gain on myself subconsciously until the last 4-5 years when I was intentionally gaining (which may be a product of such sites).

I have tightened my new desk chair at the office to the tightest recline and yet my weight when relaxing and leaning back still makes it bottom out .

A recliner that I have been sitting on for several years at the house has been making some creeks and squeeks lately and the other night sitting in it with my wife by me on the couch....I moved slightly while adjusting my weight and there was a crack...almost as if the frame has a slight break now. My wife said nothing but I am sure a few thoughts went through her mind. Not to mention mine.

Great points....I plan to try bringing it up in a playful way when she is slightly intoxicated.

I never really knew or expected my wife to be the type that would act the opposite to hide something....but you may be dead on. She may have always had a hidden desire and liked Fat, not necessarily on her but have a kink for it on others but felt ashamed so to not draw attention would act the opposite.

You know what they say when you are a member of FF....300 Lbs. is the new 200 Lbs.

I definitely hear you....I don't even view myself as that big at all. That is until I weigh myself at the gym after a few moments after another guy I saw get off the slide scale from across the Gym...as I step on I see he left the slides and just stepped off showing his weight of 174 Lbs. and I move the slides to measure my weight and it shows 253 Lbs. and I could have sworn we looked the same size. Ha Ha ha

Yea...I hear you! My wife has always said...."I don't need someone telling me that I have gained weight....I know when I am getting Fat".

She has mentioned before a friend of hers that even when my wife would gain 5-10 lbs. would make round about comments....like "What's different about you?" or "Did you do something different with your hair?" or the reverse psychology one ..."You look healthy, have you been eating real good?" My wife would always comment No, no, no... to all her questions never giving an in to the conversation. The funniest was when my wife happened to see her after delivering our last baby at least a year prior and I don't think my wife had seen this friend for a long time......now my wife was at her all time highest weight and this friend said "Wow, you certainly are taking off some of that pregnancy weight!" I think the "Wow" was a little shock for this friend when she saw her and it kind of slipped out and she didn't know what else to say after.....especially after my wife said...."well, I delivered my daughter over a year ago and actually I have gained an extra 25 Lbs. after delivery....so NO I'm just getting fatter and fatter." My wife said the so called friend was in total shock especially when my wife grabbed another plate of cake and started eating it right after she said that to her at the Birthday party.

So to your point maybe she is extending me that courtesy.....but I can't help but think with all her extra fattening cooking after she saw me gain so much already....it seemed like she was enjoying me getting fatter. It's hard to understand because I see so many things from my own eyes and most people don't have the same feelings centered around Fat, weight gain and this fetish.

Yes ....this also!

Well you are still body building....just trying to build a big Fat gut instead. It becomes pretty addictive....huh? Having turned on you will keep you horny 24/7 where as before you were horny from it watching heavier women or seeing a woman who has gained weight.

I have heard of several people who were trainers who had this same weight gain fetish.

I have always liked both! Early and still today I have always been interested and excited seeing someone weigh themselves or know someones weight. With that said.... what someone weighs can be really deceiving based on appearance.

I have always felt that I always weigh a lot more on the scale compared to how I look. Maybe I am still in my "skinny guy" mindset. My wife on the other hand always look's heavier to me than she actually weigh's on the scale....and for both instances I think most people would totally agree with this. I have even compared my wife to pictures of other women who are of same height and build where my wife look's much heavier, shaplier and fatter but weighs a good 10-20 Lbs less. I love that she look's so soft, sexy and Fat but when I find out what she weigh's (which rarely happens) after she has gained is always a shocker and kind of a let down....I guess it's the old scale weight mentality that is so intriguing. I guess al in all I would rather have my wife look way fatter than she she actually weighs anyway.

Thanks for all your great points! Yea...I guess it's easy to ask or talk about it with her....."But not really"...she is the kind where talking about this stuff kind of fees taboo and it's better left not discussing....I would rather get it out of her in some sort of role play so she doesn't have to fess up in a way...if you know what I mean. I almost feel that she likes Fat... sometimes maybe 30% of the time and 70% she doesn't....if that can be an actual situation. Where as I love Fat 100% of the time.

Interesting point about your husband after a few drinks wanting to play with your belly. I think my wife is fairly similar... the only time she mentioned my 45 Lb. belly gain was when she was slightly intoxicated and she was very affectionate but teasing like when touching and playing with my belly and newly discovered moobs. When she has gained and I have also she seems so much more relaxed and really allows herself to pig out....almost a comfort if we are both Fat. When she used to gain and I didn't have a big Gut yet she would always try to slim down.

I think she has definitely changed from years ago with being more accepting of Fat and weight .....and doesn't let societal pressures influence her as much....but even though times like above where I think she was clearly fascinated by this Guy's massive belly bouncing and jiggling and sticking so far out in front of him there are other times where I can almost envision her saying negative thing's about Fat and weight with a somewhat disgusted look on her face. She gives a lot of mixed signals.

Then there is, after she clearly noticed how Fat I got where she would continually feed me massively huge Fattening dinners and load up 2nds without me even asking, followed by some obnoxiously huge fattening deserts every night...it totally seemed like she was getting major satisfaction in trying to make me fatter and fatter. I almost think she has a slight feeder side when she see's the results....who know's how many variations there are to this fetish?