What made you decide to get fat?

Ditzy:
The first time I gained was a pay back for my husband cheating on me with a very fat girl.
I couldn't be fat according to him it would look bad for him to have a fat wife.
I was so pissed I stopped caring about how I dressed or looked stopped taking care of my skin and hair.
Looked really bad for about 2 years.
Gained 60 lbs the first year and added 20 lbs the following year.
We split up and divorced and I lost the weight well most of it.
Two years went by and I missed having a belly so I asked my BF at the time if he would mind me gaining weight.
He said if it makes you happy then go ahead.


Aw, ❤️ Happy you found a guy who loves you at whatever weight!
3 years

50lbs and 40lbs up and curious to hear others' experiences

Ditzy:
Sounds like an intelligent way of looking at things heidirayson.
Your comments about things being harder when you put on weight are so true.
Personal hygiene being one of the many things that get harder as the pounds add up.
Even at 425 lbs I was OCD about that.
I am 5'4" and at 425 it was just too hard for me to do simple things like climb stairs, put on shoes and socks and getting in my car was an ordeal.
I lost weight and got down to 330 lbs and currently 350 ish but I am content at that weight.
I love being fat and don't see myself ever losing weight.


I can relate :-) Even at only 200, I have trouble putting on socks and shoes. Flip-flops or just going barefoot indoors is so much easier :-) My wife is is about 320, so walking around a lot in a store or something can take its toll. Neither one of us figures to ever be thin again, though :-)
3 years

Usual fast food order and what resturant?

Bacon double cheeseburger from Sonic with tots and a Coke. I also vary it up with spicy chicken sandwich from Popeyes with either fries or Mac-n-cheese.
4 years

Holiday gain (month-long holiday)

HappyBigBelly:
We all enjoy packing it on this time of year :-) I’m back above 200 after battling a cold for a while. Wifey is probably up a few, to about 320 :-)

H203:
320 is good going. Must be a big wifey- is she tall?


Nah, she’s short. Just 5-2. We enjoy each other’s figures immensely, though :-)
4 years

Holiday gain (month-long holiday)

We all enjoy packing it on this time of year :-) I’m back above 200 after battling a cold for a while. Wifey is probably up a few, to about 320 :-)
4 years

Favorite things to do

Phenomenal_ssbbw:
What do you enjoy doing during the holidays


Eating, of course :-)
4 years

What is your why?

bigdj1977:
I have always liked and appreciated fat on other people. I also love food, love to eat and be full.

GingerGiant:
You know what actively in the fetish or not...

Always eating lots of GOOD food (none of this fast/frozen/ in a box food stuff)...

I'm talking a scratch Sunday supper with all the trimmings and a few types of dessert!

Feedee/ gainer or not; not many IRL will deny enjoying that moment of over indulgence 😁 and count me in!


I’m with you on the “good food” part :-) Cooking in is best!
4 years

What have you "gained" from bringing fat appreciation into your life?

It’s helped me help my wife become confident and comfortable in her size :-) 5-2, 315 pounds and all woman :-)
4 years

I gained weight during quarantine and i like it

Ditzy:
I lost some weight by mid 2020 and gained it back and wasn't trying to.
Lost a bit this year and down to 345 ish.
Still officially fat tho'.


Still a beautiful figure, though :-)
4 years