I agree make the decision thats best for you.
I went thru all the same issues as I was gaining but it was something I wanted for myself and no ones opinion swayed me not to gain.
Sure I had times where I wondered if it was the right decision but in the long run I was very happy being with my decision to gain weight.

Welcome to FF.
Lots of people feel like you do so you are not alone.
I know about family being mean and giving you a hard time my Mom still does that to me and calls me fat.
There used to be a member here that said when he got urges to be fat he would pad himself to appear fat and that seemed to help him thru the rough times where his urges hit.

Food and clothes are expensive but if you can't afford it in the first place don't beg others to pay for it.

I agree with you comments John about pack mindset there are too many people that don't think for themselves and follow like sheep.
Just for the record I am no MAGA or Trump fan.
I hope you didn't think I was trolling because I don't do that kind of thing.

I am not allowed to voice an opinion on here?
Sorry you didn't like what I said.
I never said there wasn't racism and yes I have suffered racism personally so I do know what it feels like.
I am not here to argue with people like you.

Ebb and flow happens all the time its been that way on here for the 10 years or so I have been here.
I doubt its a race thing John and I certainly would not blame Trump for it.

I agree with Zora.
It takes many months of effort and commitment on your part to make it happen.

I did say have fun and enjoy your gaming so I wasn't putting you down.

I play with real guns for a hobby.
If you like gaming thats cool have fun and enjoy yourself.