I do too get turned on thinking about gaining, getting lazy, greedily eating whatever and how much I want to eat. I think that just adds to the fantasy. I sometimes go out deliberately sticking out my belly and waddling a bit.

I think the turn on for my is how much bigger I get. To see my belly bigger and softer is the real reward for gaining.

No, I'm forty-three inches around my butt. I'm forty-four around my waist. So, you are nice and healthy!

My growing belly! Though I do appreciate how fat my butt has become as well. On my wife, I just love the way everything jiggles!

I didn't gain during my wife's two pregnancies, though she did. I have been gaining lately. I have written some WG stories with pregnancy/sympathy weight as part of the plot. They are on my DA account.

I had a thought. Posting videos of your favorite body part jiggling. I mean, if it jiggles enough to be featured in a video, then obviously it jiggles! I have posted my fat rear and my belly. (rear is better, more jiggle!)

I admire your courage and resolve! I too am gaining but at slower rate. I have not confided to my wife that I'm deliberately gaining, but it is obvious that I'm putting on weight. She has become a subtle encourager asking "do you want seconds?" etc. My wife is a BBW. I have noticed though that she hasn't been as watchful of her weight, as in the past. Which is great. Good luck, and stay hungry my friend.

I agree with beerbelly, tell him! If it were me I would want to know my SO was into her gain. Try a belly bump, who knows, it could be a major turn on!

I was heavy as an adolescent and teen, gained in college as well. I remember being teased a bit about my weight, but I don't really recall feeling shame. Not that I was really fat, just overweight. Even back then I "tingles" (for lack of a better term) for the fetish of wanting to gain and be fat. Today, as I deliberately gain, but fairly slowly and do worry about "what people will say". Though it is obvious that I have put on weight, my wife has said nothing and in fact seems to have become a subtle encourager, which I have been, as she is a BBW. My age (>60) also becomes an excuse to gain as well, as older people tend to be heavier than younger ones, at least that's the way I feel. Take heart, don't be ashamed of your body, no matter skinny or obese.

Yes I have padded as well. I have gone out in public, but it has been a long time. I padded my butt, and belly, but down low just below the waist of my jeans. It felt pretty good. I think I looked maybe fifteen to twenty pounds heavier. I haven't padded in quite a while, mainly because I have gained weight and haven't felt the need to pad much anymore.