My wife and I aren't in a truly mutual gaining situation, though we both are gaining. I'm being deliberate and she is already obese. I know she must notice my weight gain, but has said nothing. She know I like her heavy and I have always been a subtle encourager as well. My ultimate fantasy is that she will become a FFA and really start pushing me to become obese as well. This is a nice thread, thank you for starting it.

I really like the thought of mutual gaining, two people just encouraging each other to gorge themselves and admire their increasing girth.

I do too get turned on thinking about gaining, getting lazy, greedily eating whatever and how much I want to eat. I think that just adds to the fantasy. I sometimes go out deliberately sticking out my belly and waddling a bit.

I think the turn on for my is how much bigger I get. To see my belly bigger and softer is the real reward for gaining.

No, I'm forty-three inches around my butt. I'm forty-four around my waist. So, you are nice and healthy!

My growing belly! Though I do appreciate how fat my butt has become as well. On my wife, I just love the way everything jiggles!

I didn't gain during my wife's two pregnancies, though she did. I have been gaining lately. I have written some WG stories with pregnancy/sympathy weight as part of the plot. They are on my DA account.

I had a thought. Posting videos of your favorite body part jiggling. I mean, if it jiggles enough to be featured in a video, then obviously it jiggles! I have posted my fat rear and my belly. (rear is better, more jiggle!)

I admire your courage and resolve! I too am gaining but at slower rate. I have not confided to my wife that I'm deliberately gaining, but it is obvious that I'm putting on weight. She has become a subtle encourager asking "do you want seconds?" etc. My wife is a BBW. I have noticed though that she hasn't been as watchful of her weight, as in the past. Which is great. Good luck, and stay hungry my friend.

I agree with beerbelly, tell him! If it were me I would want to know my SO was into her gain. Try a belly bump, who knows, it could be a major turn on!