Imtryingstuff:
Just curious to see/ hear why some people will go out to meet someone for a date but won't do it if it has this kink involved?

I've seen it constantly "i don't do meet ups" "I'll meet after we do some online stuff". Why go out on a date but not a date/ do something with this kink?

I personally don't do any online stuff because of scammers.

Eleanorrigby:
i would imagine it's pretty similar to not wanting to be physically intimate too soon. they probably want to form an emotional connection and see how you would work on that level before delving into the kink and any possible sexual relations

Feedmesqueezeme:
The most absolutely unhinged message I have ever received on my tumblr was a guy asking if he could live up my ass and eat the literal s**t after constantly stuffing.

Other than that monstrosity of a message, I've had a few feeders just not know the normal amount of calories. I've been asked to "just have a stuffing session and eat 25k calories"

CelticBlimp:
In two different occasions, two different feeders wanted me to gain through either 1) drinking daily a mix of heavy cream, molten butter and boost and 2) using prescription drugs for psychosis/schizophrenia just because it helped with hunger and gaining. The first one I find absolutely disgusting, and the second one was just extreme and so dangerous. He once paid for a meal, and his full name showed up on the transfer, so I looked him up and he was a psychiatrist. Quite the horror setup.

Gainingdream:
heavy cream with melted butter? was that recommended?

Munchies:
Good luck choking that down. All you'll do is give yourself an unscheduled an workout from vomiting.

Feeders really be recommending the most vile shit all on the name of gaining a few pounds.

Tightercollars:
i had some "feeder" dm me to say he wanted to butt plug and give me an enema before going to a buffet, stuffing me, then go to the bathroom to release the water. Then stuffing with more food. Then going back to the bathroom to refill the enema.

its very out of touch shit of what seems like men who have never interacted with another womans body.

FF Team:
Hi,

Thanks for your suggestion! We completely understand how frustrating message leaks can be, and really appreciate you taking the time to share your thoughts with us.

The good news is that we’re working on improving the chat system, and aim to fix the root cause of this issue. While adding a workaround like a message might seem like a quick solution, it’s actually a bit more complex than it appears and would slow down progress on a permanent fix.

Thanks for bearing with us while we work on this. We know this has been an ongoing issue for some time but our work schedule for this year priorities the chat system and we hope to have these issues fixed soon.

c00kie
FF Team

Munchies:
Since you are capacity training with food, it's best to make the eating experience something to look forward to. Maybe a specific kind of food you enjoy, or explore foods you've never had.

Bigandbloated:
I had to think about this since its been a while since I really enjoyed a meal. Now I realised it's probably because I really enjoy mostly Asian cuisine and live in a small town where most of the local cuisine is pub food. Now I'm really craving some Korean BBQ & spicy Szechuan food, though I'll probably have to dedicate a day to it since it's a 2hr trip to the nearest big city.

AskDrFeeder:
It seems to me that people who become extremely obese must have challenges when it comes to holding down a job.

How do they do it?

Or do they not have a job? Are they supported by their families or spouses or...? Or are they independently wealthy?

Any stories about dealing with this about yourself or others you know would be interesting.

AskDrFeeder:
It seems to me that people who become extremely obese must have challenges when it comes to holding down a job.

How do they do it?

Or do they not have a job? Are they supported by their families or spouses or...? Or are they independently wealthy?

Any stories about how you or people you know have dealt with this would be appreciated.

Lillyraesmith49:
I’ve known I liked fat guys for a really long time but every time I get with one I always feel the need to keep it on the dl because my friends always make fun of the guy or tease me about it. For example a few years ago I was really into this bigger guy and ngl he wasnt even that big but I was so scared to bring him around my friends and parents because I was scared of how they would react and that it would hurt his feelings and stuff even tho I thought he was literally perfect. so I only hung out at his house and I kept it secret even tho I was hanging out with him nearly everyday because I loved spending time with him. not only was he insanely hot imo but when we ran into eachother at a party and my friends were with me and they asked who he was and I explained he was the guy I really liked and they all started making fun of me and him so I ended up ghosting him which I still regret to this day. Since I have a very large social circle and alot of connections and friends, its really hard to keep things quiet. I just recently started being more open with my friends about my preferences but I feel like most of them dont really care but some of them especially my conventionally attractive guy friends like to make fun of me for it. Another issue is finding a guy who’s my age, tall, and both overweight, and attractive facially. I am into fat guys, not ugly guys but finding someone who checks all of the boxes and also isn’t actively trying to lose weight is nearly impossible and whenever I do find someone and build up the courage to talk to them they think I’m pranking them or something even tho I’m not.

Enas:
Im curious, why is the statistic higher for men? O.o

Curiousv:
If it's just fat fetish and it counts both enjoying being fat and being attracted to fat partners, then the explanation is relatively easy.

Usually the fetish in men is being a FA, and the fetish in women is being a feedee. Of course there are exceptions, but this does indeed seem to be a general trend, we can even notice this by a casual glance on profiles and forums on this very site.

So the question might as well be why are there more FAs than feedees. I have many guesses for this, one of them is that it's easier to be attracted to someone who is very fat, than to actually take the health and mobility and social risks of becoming extremely fat.

Enas:
Im curious, why is the statistic higher for men? O.o