Fantasy Feeder

The sensation of gaining.

Miss Tiramisu:
Well whatever it is. I have only been feeling it since I started taking gaining seriously.
Its usually the day after I stuff myself. Especially after some really fatty desserts.
I feel it in my lower belly.

Whether water retention or weight gain I really enjoy it!

If you are feeling it in your lower belly, there's also a high chance your are feeling digested food slowly moving through you.

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The sensation of gaining.

Miss Tiramisu:
Has anyone else here experienced the actual feeling of fat filling into your body?
That sort of tingly pressure that you feel in the spots you are gaining?
I just felt that for the first time, and I'm not going to lie, it really turns me on...

That's not what you're feeling. You are feeling fluid retention. This is common after a binge if you eat a lot of salt. This normally goes down after a bit.

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Do you have kinks that are unrelated to weight, food, or bdsm ?

Quiver:
I have an assortment that aren’t really related to fat admiration, but for me they kind of tie in, because the fantasy still always involves at least one big person/one person growing like crazy.

Like someone else said, tentacles, ovipositing, alien pregnancies, those all drive me bananas. I love the idea of swelling up because of a bunch of alien eggs growing inside me. Breeding and breast-milking, which is often accompanied by pig or cow transformations during sex. I consider inflation and extreme bloating to be extremely closely-related to rapid weight gain, and they scratch the same itch for me for watching someone grow. And then the weirdest shit that I can’t get enough of is like, slime stuff and unbirth. There’s also vore, but that one in particular is HEAVILY dominated by men who ignore my “no flirt” boundary and get pushy about rp-ing. Not sure why. I’d love to have some female friends who are into it.
The occasional vampire play or navel play is also tons of fun, and I’ve found that ears are a great erogenous zone too (although I wouldn’t consider that a “kink”).

Skeets:
breast-milking drives me absolutely wild. scenarios where i or a partner is fattening me with their milk or vice versa? 🥵😮‍💨 can’t get enough, and wish their was more content around this particular kink

Quiver:
I haven’t written or drawn anything on this theme in a bit, but it’s very much in my wheelhouse for it to turn up at random at some point. It’s just so much fun, it’s shocking to me that it’s not more popular in spaces like FF.

Skeets:
I couldn’t agree. I kept expecting it to be added to the kinks section of the “other feedism site,” but alas. we’re out here and we’re waiting to be recognized!

Have you checked out Fetlife? They have a lot of kink communities on there that you might enjoy.

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How to deal with weak guts

Chonkolate:
Usually try to stuff on weekends but how does one do it without destroying the ass or vomiting all night .-. I was so proud of myself for managing 6000 kcal highscore and now mourning over lost effort

I should maybe shoot for consistent 4k instead when im ready again...

Stop going balls to the walls insane and focus on what is reasonable for you. You can work up to 6k over time.

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How to fatten up your partner

MrCuddles:
As of right now I’m done with school and she only as one more year and we currently split the cost for everything. She also has a side gig where the content she makes she sells which is how we’re paying for the food she eats. And I do see myself being with her for a long time so I don’t have a problem being the provider. As for the future you are right I’ve haven’t thought about all of that stuff yet but I’m glad you mentioned it because it will be something we have to think about

Yeah, it's super important to think about that. Not having a plan will put huge amounts of stress on your relationship. For now, I'd limit her gains to the outer edge of her comfort zone. It's cool that she has a side gig where she sells fetish content, but most fetish models only do that for a few years before tapping out. So, I'd figure out something more sustainable in the long term.

Can you two see her doing this in the next 5, 10 years? Will she have enough income from that to keep up with her food costs? The bigger she gets, the more she'll need to keep eating. Speaking as an extreme feeder, the food costs alone add up really fat after a certain point.

If you see yourself with her for decades to come, then there isn't a rush. Take the time to sort things out. Plus, if you go too fast or hard, she'll get sick and tap out. I see this happen a lot with extreme gainers and rapid gainers. They keep chugging along until around the 350 - 600 lbs range when everything starts to go wrong. Sometimes, they even have to completely give up because of the damage they've done to their body.

If you want to reach immobility, you need to focus on sustainability and not speed. Plus, there's a non-zero chance she might change her mind. I've met a lot of people who wanted to be immobile in real life, but at some point, they realized they preferred fantasy to reality. Most of them settle for being very fat with limited mobility. Only a small handful follow through because once you are immobile, there's essentially no going back.

Again, I'm not kink-shaming. I'm only saying this so that you and your partner achieve whatever outcome makes you two happy.

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Lap dogs - how much of your legs does your belly cover?

Sterlingdf:
My belly is gradually taking over my lap. I have 8 inches of leg showing from my kneecap to my belly.

How many inches of leg are you showing under your belly while sitting down?

I'm not sure that the feedback and suggestions section is the best place for this question.

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How to fatten up your partner

MrCuddles:
So far she’s gained 30 pounds since we’ve been together and she wants to hit 250 and go from there. She wants to gain till immobility as quick as possible is what she as told me. I’ve have been trying to keep her on a somewhat safe gain that way she doesn’t over do it and loses interest in it. But she’s more submissive in this relationship

Hm. I wouldn't do it if I were you.

To be clear, I'm not kink-shaming. I honestly do not care. But I don't think you two are ready for that.

Your profile says you are 22. I don't know anything about you, but the average 22-year-old is usually in college with little money. Gaining til immobility is a huge commitment. You need to be able to afford food, clothing, medical care, and mobility aids at high weights.

I don't know if you are the sole provider or if you guys are splitting expenses, but there will be a time when she will heavily rely on you for all her needs, such as feeding, toileting, bathing, etc. She might be able to get a fully remote job, but that's not a guarantee.

Feeding someone to immobility is akin to marriage in a way. Can you see yourself spending the rest of your life with this person? If not, then maybe you want to shoot for a lower weight. If so, then take your time and focus on getting yourself to a point where this arrangement won't burden either of you.

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How to fatten up your partner

MrCuddles:
We are doing stuffings though out the week and adding a little extra to each meal

Nice! What's your dynamic? Are you guys into extreme weight gain? What's her limit and comfort zone? How much has she gained thus far?

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Maintaining mobility while gaining.

Miss Tiramisu:
I have dealt with eating disorders before, but they are usually emotionally linked. So the more stable I am, the more stable they are.
I hope that you still find joy in being able to eat and gain!

I want to add that while you can safely gain without triggering your ED, it's imperative that your feeder(s) give you the proper support. They need to give you space to enjoy yourself while stepping in as needed.

What that looks like varies from relationship to relationship (even if it's just a feedist relationship). For some, that might mean mixing healthy food with junk food, encouraging light exercise, or occasionally taking breaks.

You seem to be interested in extreme feedism. It's the riskiest kind of feedism, so safeguards are extra important. A good feeder will always keep your well-being in mind, but you also need to advocate for your needs.

I bring this up because it's really common to get lost in hedonism or for one person (often the feeder) to ignore limits.

I'm not saying this to rain on your parade. I hope you get very fat and enjoy yourself. I want you to enjoy your fatness for many years to come.

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How to fatten up your partner

MrCuddles:
I’m looking for tips on how to increase my feedees weight. I have already talked with her about the situation and she is on board. Just wondering if there’s anyway to make her weight gain go faster or any tips that will help the gain go smoother

Well, what are you guys already doing?

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