Over the first couple of years when my wife....girlfriend at the time were together she spoke of not liking guy's to have big belly's and even said she despised it if a guy had a huge butt. Now to what degree I am not sure but I was pretty into lifting weight and still am and as I got pretty big muscularly I tended to have a big appetite and developed a decent size little gut. At the time she brought it up when we were talking about related things and said she wouldn't mind if I wasn't as muscular and big but more slender and cut up. I always in the back of my mind thought to myself ...Ok she doesn't like me with a belly and she doesn't like big belly / big assed guy's.

Fast forward almost 15 years later and as I was intentionally gaining without her knowing.....and ended up gaining some 45 Lbs. with most of it showing on my now Huge Gut. During this time she was much heavier than she used to be (30+ lbs. Very much to my liking) as well....but she only mentioned my new Fat belly when she was intoxicated in a teasing yet endearing way. Not to mention she would serve me huge amounts for meals when I was sitting there with a beach ball belly sitting out on my lap looking 9 months pregnant. So I wasn't sure if she changed er tune or she was accepting of her new Fat Husband.

Fast forward again to last weekend. We were away for the weekend in Arizona and laying out by the pool at the hotel when a guy struck up a conversation with the both of us. He mentioned he was a builder and was building these custom homes right by the resort and a strip mall. He was standing in front of us with his board shorts on and no shirt while we were laying in our chairs talking to him. He was probably 5' 10" and had to be 350-400 Lbs. sturdy with the biggest fattest belly that stuck out far with a natural hang. I was impressed he stood there talking to us for so long with that massive belly out on display and with the slightest of movement he made...be it adjusting his leg stance or a slight step his massive belly would jiggle and bounce. Now the crazy thing is I thought my wife would be kind of short in the discussion and be kind of grossed out....but she actually kept the conversation going and actually giggled a bit in the conversation. When he finally said bye and left....I thought for sure she was going to make some comment like "wow, did you see how Fat of a Gut that guy had" or "He might want to slow down on his eating". But actually all she said was "He was nice". Now this was totally out of character from what I thought she was going to say.

I started thinking that maybe I should have asked her right then..."would you like it if I got that Fat, honey?" But I chickened out!!!

Could it be that my wife secretly likes big Fat Gutted Guy's now....and would love for me to get that big? Do women change with their liking's or maybe she has had a hidden desire all along to have a Fat guy?

What I have noticed with my wife:

My wife didn't work for many many years while the kids were young and growing up. Now that they are teenagers she decided to work part time. When she is working it has her barely going to the gym to workout. Not to mention she tends to eat a little worse for lunch and snack a bit more. Followed by coming home and putting her feet up watching TV and eating a bag of chips.

With my wife when she is stressed either from work or whatever she tends to gain weight. Also, I have noticed the best thing for her to really gain weight is to build up her appetite. Once that happens the flood gates open....even if she works out she eats so much more that she still gains weight.

As most have said being sedentary. Which my wife gets after working.

Also, eliminating exercise and workouts. But with my wife she sometimes needs that in order not to diet or to feel good about herself....and if her appetite increases she still gains while working out a couple times a week. And when she gets pretty heavy her workouts fade away or become 20 minutes vs. her normal hour usually followed by an extra huge meal and snacks.

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I definitely can see that....although myself being into this fetish in the same scenario my wanders and thinks....wow that woman must really like Fat men!

Also, I forgot to get to your point about.....(you wanting to gain to 300 Lbs. and guy's who have got there tell you what it's like.) I to am interested in hearing but I know size and the way everyone carries weight is slightly different.

I know for me my gain was pretty fast about 5 months ......so I know it made me feel a little more different with all the new extra weight than someone that has accumulated it over many years and got used to it...not to mention my stamina declined real fast and I felt so out of shape which was scary and exciting all at once but I guess that is to be expected when stuffing all the time and gaining so quick. When I was intentionally gaining and got to 260 I felt so much bigger than I do now even though I am still at 250 Lbs. but I feel so much smaller and lighter than just those 10 extra Lbs. than when I was 260. I do know my eating was totally out of control and I felt like I could get to 280 or even 300 pretty quickly if I kept it up.....my appetite increased so much I used to dream of food and wow did I eat it. I think if I would have kept going back then I would have felt HUGE....but once again that's because I was eating so much and gaining so quick. I literally was eating 8,000-10,000 calories daily without really trying ...not to mention it went way up when I was trying to eat more I could do 15,000+ calories.

Yea...that's a good point!

If you see a Handsome big Fat Gut guy obviously you take a second look to admire and get a bit excited with what you see!

But have you ever been out with any of your girlfriends with a similar sighting and think maybe they like or are turned on by Fat guy's also but have never admitted it?

I am just wondering because there seem's to be variances in what people like obviously but I think there are a lot of guy's out there that are turned on by heavier women than admit it. Also, I guess some like thin and heavy where as most of us like heavy.....but I have run into this with several of my friends and kind of wondered about this.

I like double chins on women as it is a sign of them gaining and being fatter. Although I don't like when I get a double chin.

I think it is kind of a thing that the individual is more critical on themselves typically

For your knee - Try icing it for 15-20 minutes several times a day along with plenty of advil. It may not seem like there is inflammation if it physically doesn't look swollen but there is definitely inflammation. Next, be diligent about riding a stationary cycle daily if possible, don't worry you probably won't lose any weight with how much you have got used to eating and probably it will even increase your appetite with this exercise. Also, the amount of calories burned is less than 50 for each 5-10 minute cycling, which you can easily make that up I assume. of some sort at the gym etc. the motion is the key to blood flow and creating oxygen to help heal the knee.

As far as your description with your gain being so noticeable physically as well as aesthetically now, I understand exactly what you mean. I myself went from 215 Lbs. up to 260 Lbs. and wow did I not only see a difference but I felt such a difference. Even when I was at 245 and climbing I found the easiest of things to be much more difficult with not only my belly getting in the way but with stamina. Bending over and tying my shoes while seating would leave me dizzy and virtually cut off my breath and when I got to 260 it was that much more challenging, I am sure I had a strained look on my face. I commonly would drop something in fairly tight quarters and bend down to pick up and my butt would bump into something then I would get up and move slightly and my hips or belly would bump into something else. A crazy discovery was when I was running after a football pass one day with a few friends and like you mentioned I felt my huge Gut bouncing and and jiggling uncontrollably and when I went to stop my momentum with my extra weight didnt allow me to stop on time and I virtually laid out a buddy that I thought I should have been easily able to stop before crashing into. I really couldn't stop all the extra weight.

I would love to hear a few more from you because I have several other encounters to tell!

It kind of happened to me in a similar way!

I was preparing my wife fattening meals as well as buying a ton of fattening sweets (which she loves) to stock the pantry and freezer in hopes that she would really balloon and lose control. Over the course of a few months she did gain some weight but not nearly as much as I thought she would. I on the other hand suddenly realized that I really fattened up myself. I began eating deserts and snacks with her after lunches on weekends and every night after dinner. I began to crave sweet fattening things the way she always did.....and it did a number on putting one heck of a big Gut on me. I realized I liked being bigger...not to mention I really couldn't control my enormous appetite anymore and decided to intentionally gain.....to have my wife comment or tease me. Well many months went by and more than 40 extra Lbs. and she never really mentioned anything other than a couple of times when she was slightly intoxicated...and it almost seemed like she loved the "Fatter Gut me".

It stands to reason adding fattening deserts which I never ate before along with the fattening meals I prepared her really jump started and accelerated how Fat I got. After that she began preparing fattening meals and would over feed me in an obnoxious way 2nd & even 3rds at times without me asking and mention "oh just finish this up, honey"!