I have always been pretty confident sporting if you will my girlfriends who were always chubbier or chunky by societies main standards but all very pretty back when I was younger and in High school.

When I was in college even more confident ended up dating the heaviest girl I had dated. She was beautiful but by societies standards kinda Fat...which I really loved. She was in a sorority and very popular...she was kind of the hottest sorority girl that was now Fat. She wasn't really Fat in my eyes just sexy and the biggest girlfriend I have had but other guy's on campus would think she was very hot if she would lose 50 Lbs. I was walking with her holding hands one day up on campus going to class when a few of my team mates passed by and stopped and while we were talking for a bit I was kind of imagining what they were thinking not really caring but the thought crossed my mind. Later on I found out they gave me some compliments about her but one said to be careful I didn't suffocate in her huge breasts. I am sure they were like most of the guy's on campus who thought she was totally hot if she lost like 50 lbs.

As I am much older my wife who is similar height to this ex college girlfriend probably are close to the same size when she was a bit heavier but I never think of anyone thinking of her being Fat and if I did it kind of turns me on. I do however dream of my wife gaining a lot of weight....like weighing 300+ Lbs on her 5' 3" figure and I know she would look so hot and I don't think that I would ever be ashamed of her but totally turned on if people thought she was Fat.

I wear slacks during most work days for my career and I have to say over the last several years it seems that My buttons always have to get re sown on so much more frequently. It's not that they just blow off but at the end of the day after changing out of them I notice the button hanging by a string and all loose and stretched out. I have had to make many trips to my tailor to not only take out all my pants in the waist but now still am bringing them on to get buttons re sewn on.
A couple of times my tailor who is asian when I brought several pairs of slacks in to have the waist let out to accommodate my growing gut he said without much diplomacy "again, you need me to make bigger" I said these must be some other pairs and he was quick to tell me "No, these are ones I have already made bigger last time" I said "oh" he then said " I will see if there is anymore room left". Well I am sure he is quite aware even though I wasn't until I saw your post why my buttons keep hanging by a string even though I keep having my Tailor fix them. I thought my tailor was just repairing them bad...it makes sense that there is quite a bit of stress down there on my button from heavy and distended belly.

yea...we all seem to like the softer rounded features on faces of heavier women, which I agree it's because we all are on this board. But with that said I believe there are a lot of people in mainstream that prefer that in a woman's face as opposed to chiseled dimensions.

Similar to Chubby Hubby....I also really like a soft rounded and heart shaped face on women with just a subtle double chin. I am fine with even slightly bigger double chin's mainly just because I like the weight gain aspect...but definitely it's not my thing to like bigger double chin's. I also am kind of fascinated with a woman who is much heavier...say huge hips, thighs, lower belly breasts and huge soft upper arms and if you were to see a picture of just her face you would not even be able to tell she was even close to that heavy. Likewise for a similar reason I am fascinated by certain body parts on women that are much larger in comparison to the rest of there body. For example Really Big/Fat butt and thighs and the rest is much thinner for now. Or even a women with really Large soft Fat breasts and a nice plump Fat belly with skinny arms....crazy because I like big pillowy soft fat upper arms generally but something about the contrast is sexy and intriguing. Or maybe it is the excitement of the potential for more weight gain for that body part to catch up....regardless it is sexy to see the unique figures that are exaggerated once and a while.

I am a sucker for beautiful faces on women and have always been. I think that has always been a part of the same fetish in a way because when ever someone says that woman has such a beautiful face but she is so heavy.....I usually am turned on by both so much.

I know at first I thought it was only because I showed her more attention unintentionally because she was bigger but the more she gains and eats she just is much more sexually interested.

I think it may have to do with several things, mostly attitude change, eating and enjoying food, deserts and everything in more care free abundance including intimate soft contact and sex. Also, just the way she becomes more in touch with her growing figure while everything on her figure jiggles more and is so soft to the touch has to make her hornier in the first place.

I agree with the above posts "definitely"

I myself tread with caution even when I notice my wife has recently gained some Lbs. I would love to tell my wife that I would love her to gain weight or gain more weight. She knows from a long time ago that I like her heavier but the only time I even discuss weight gain with her is when she brings it up and I join in the conversation and usually enjoy these times immensely.

I would say after you notice her gaining and an increase in her appetite make sure she has plenty of things she loves to eat....snacks, ice cream etc. and always take her out to some great dinners. Usually during the times my wife starts gaining she is usually open to eating more fattening things and it is usually why she started gaining a little in the first place. Hopefully she will continue gaining and have her appetite really open up and start eating out of control and many more Lbs. will follow. Also, I have found in my marriage that when my wife is eating a bunch and gaining weight she kind of likes it when I am gaining as well, it seems like it makes her feel more comfortable and it makes for some great over eating companionship and she doesn't mind getting fatter for a much longer period.

Yes...I have had many experiences regarding weight gain and Fat that have aroused me when others that aern't into the fetish would think...ugh!

* My ex girlfriend who I lived with gained a bunch of weight and when I cam hime from work one day I found her crying on the couch. I asked what was wrong, she said "she had just got back from an anuual check up at her Doctor and was repremanded for gaining so much weight." The Doctor even told her she was way past obese for her height now and she really better do something about it because he see's women like her really start to lose control like she has. I consoled her and felt said for her but was totally aroused and turned on at the same time and couldn't help but think of her getting even fatter and I got more aroused. Right after I consoled her she grabbed some chips and started eating right next to me on the couch, i got even more aroused thinking she would be getting much fatter and soon!

Good news in my situation I guess....based on this study.

Well I definitely hope My wife and her friend fatten up a lot more together sharing many lunches and snacks in meetings. Hopefully here comes 30+ Lbs. to my wives sexy fluffier figure.

My wife a few months ago switched companies in the same industry and has reunited with a work friend from years ago.

Her and this work friend worked together at the same company together many years ago and became very close working together and used to hang out a lot together even away from work. Since she has started working together again she has been talking about her a lot and they have become extremely close again. They basically work together all day every day heading up the marketing team for this company. I met this woman many times and thought she was very nice. She is attractive and averaged size back when I met her years ago. My wife happened to be talking business with me the other night and I mentioned something about the other woman's hair or something and I am not sure how it came out but my wife said her hair is still really long but she is now really chunky. First off my wife, even though she considers herself Chunky or Fat tends to use that term loosely back in the day but in the last few years has been a little more spot on. So I said "chunky? so what, she gained 10 Lbs.?" She said "No, she is heavy now, a lot bigger than me". This woman is probably 5' 8" tall so I then said "ya, she is a lot taller than you". She said "yes, I know, well you will see her, you will even think she is Fat now."

So firstly the FA/weight gain enthusiast in me got a rush and was pretty turned on hearing my wife tell me about this not only because this friend is now Fat, which I always think is sexy but just to hear my wife talk about weight gain in itself is sexy to me. Next I couldn't stop to think about before my wife was going to switch companies and knowing not only this friend but a couple of other former employees from many years ago already worked there and how she was a bit insecure about how much she has gained since working with all of them many years ago. So after the first week many months ago she was totally at ease and now I know why, because her friend gained a lot more weight than she had gained. So I started reading up on weight gain among friends that are fatter and it said that there has been studies showing that friends mold eating habits and patterns whether they be slim, then you will take on their habits or if they are fat you will eventually take on their eating habits etc. Also if your concerned with your size and see your best friend being way bigger than you set the bar next to your friend and 10,15, even 30 Lbs. will be noticeable but you will compare it next to your close friend and if they are still bigger it won't necessarily bother you as bad as if you were comparing yourself next to a thin friend. All of it seemed really legitimate.

I was wondering if any of you agree with this or this has actually happened to you or you have seen it happen to anyone else?

I have various times where this fetish is very intense and it's always on my mind....typically this only happens this intense for once every 3 months or 4 times a year and only for a couple of weeks.

But I do tend to enjoy and think about weight gain and Fat on women a lot. I think only during the previously mentioned 4 times a year do I feel it is a bit crazy.

The busier I am the less time I really have to dive in as deep I would say.