Anybody know if it's possible to be fit and mobile while fat?

English Feeder:
Viewing my partner over a period of time and weight gain. I would say staying as physically active as possible you can retain good mobility and health. But eventually size, weight, age and wear and tear of carrying excess weight will eventually take its toll. That is my experience of how much she has changed over a period of time. I remember her being able to walk miles.
But now she can barely stand and can only take a few steps. She uses a wheelchair now. Immobility is likely very soon.

Munchies:
How big is she, if you don't mind my asking?

English Feeder:
She has been very ill in hospital so has lost weight. She is probably around 475 at 5'2" and in her late 60's

Munchies:
That sucks. I'm sorry to hear she's so ill. Wish her well.

English Feeder:
Thanks. She caught Covid, Which turned to pneumonia. Which attacked her organs. Even her vision was effected. We are so grateful to the doctors, nurses and the NHS.
Once home she had nurses visiting throughout the day. Thankfully she is 95% recovered now. She still suffers from fatigue and sleeps more than she used to. But the doctor's expect her to still improve. Just when i thought Covid was no longer a issue. Especially as last year she caught it and was on oxygen for a few days, and made a full recovery. I thought she was safe. How wrong could i have been.


Yeah. A lot of people think COVID is over. It isn't. Lockdown is over. COVID is endemic now, like the flu.

The good news is you are less likely to die of COVID now than you were a few years ago. I hope she doesn't have long COVID and makes a full recovery.

At least she has you by her side. Your support will be integral to her recovery.
5 months

Just got stuffed by a new feeder last night!

Interesting. Did this feeder team up with your husband to feed you? Or did he feed both of you?

Miss Tiramisu:
Hi again!
Yes, he teamed up with my husband. Hes in the UK so hes quite far away, but he exists in a much different position than we previously considered in our relationship.
Opening new doors and helping to provide some great perspective!


Okay, love. Be safe. Lotta crazies on this site.
5 months

Just got stuffed by a new feeder last night!

Miss Tiramisu:
You can see the aftermath on my profile.
But last night went VERY well. Me and my husband had our first experience with another feeder and needless to say it went VERY well.
I feel like this is opening up new horizons for my husband and I as well as the two of us with our new feeder!
I was so stuffed last night I went to bed looking 9 months pregnant, no joke. And I already want more.
My stretch marks were starting to shine again and I'm excited for them to start turning pink and growing even further across my body.
I would love to hear if anyone has had a similar experience!
Ask any question (within reason) and I will get back to you as soon as I can!


Interesting. Did this feeder team up with your husband to feed you? Or did he feed both of you?
5 months

Have you ever had sex while you or your partner have a cold or the flu ?

Technoman:
Have you ever bad sex while you or your partner have a cold or the flu ?


If I'm sick, I don't want sexy times. Plus, that's a good way to spread germs.

No thank you.
5 months

Gaining weight and losing inches

Falcor:
Recently I got some comments suggesting I lost weight, and my pants did feel loose around my waist... but when I got on the scale I noticed I have gained 9 lbs...

Did anyone experience such a thing?


Probably lost fat and water weight but gained muscle. Have you been more active lately?
5 months

Belly gaining and asexuality.

Stockylove:
I'm writing this topic because, maybe I'm wrong but....
I feel like there are a lot of asexual people in the gainer community, and people who have kinks on their bellies and fat. Think maybe I'm a little asexual myself or on a spectrum that's close to it. Finally, if my observations are accurate and not biased, do you think you know what would explain this?


First thing you gotta remember is that the term "gainer" came from the LGBTQIA+ community. So, naturally, some people people from that community may prefer to use that term over feedee.

Also, these days gainer means "someone who wants to be fat". There are a lot.of ace people that engage in kink but do not want to be sexual with someome else. Being a gainer allows people to do that. Unlike feedees that prefer to be fed, most gainers prefer to do it solo or are ambivilent to being fed.
5 months

Number of fat cells

A number of things can stimulate adipogenesis in adults including medications (e.g. TZDs) and yes, Obesity.

Check out this PubMed article: www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8879274/

Particulary this part right here

Excessive food/energy intake leads to the expansion of adipose tissues, including both increased numbers of fat cells, i.e., adipogenesis, and increased size of individual adipocytes (hypertrophy).


To my understanding, our bodies will generate new fat cells well beyond puberty if we keep gaining weight. When our fat cells are full, they will both enlarge in size and increase in number.

Here is another example from this pubmed study: www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8879274/

In adults, fat cell number is constant over time in spite of a large turnover (about 10% of the fat cells per year) when body weight is stable. A decrease in body weight only changes fat cell size (becoming smaller), whereas an increase in body weight causes elevation of both fat cell size and number in adults.


The increase in size is bad for us, so ideally the more we can do to stimulate adipogensis, the more likely we are to be metabolically healthy while obese.

Also if you look at the wikipedia page for Lipotoxicity, you'll see that it's still undetermined whether or not Obesity is the cause.

The causative role of obesity in lipotoxicity is controversial. Some researchers claim that obesity has protective effects against lipotoxicity as it results in extra adipose tissue in which excess lipids can be stored.

MitchHedberg:
My personal theory is that when you combine weight gain with "healthy" behaviors like exercise, our bodies are move in the direction of adipogenesis over fat cell hypertorphy. However, I'm willing to bet that it's mostly determined by genetics and that you're only able to influence things to a certain degree.



Your genetics play a huge role. Yes, eating nutritiously and exercising help a lot. But some people tolerate things differently. I have seen people that are fine are very high body weights (400+) and others who can't gain without getting violently ill.
5 months

Maintaining mobility while gaining.

My advice is to take things one day at a time. Don't worry about number goals. Those are fickle and not realistic for everyone. Gain until it's no longer comfortable for you to do so—whatever that might look like.

Miss Tiramisu:
Thank you for the reality check! I know the number goals can be a little unrealistic unless you are already close to your goal too.
I supposed that I should have clarified that by that time I do expect to lose some mobility. I just dont want to be immobile. I definitely should have said that before. Im still new at this, so I just need to get my terminology down.


Understandable. However, there's a difference between accepting your mobility taking a hit versus having next to no mobility.

A lot of times when people start gaining, they have grand, unrealistic fantasies. Then when reality sinks in, a lot of them end up abandoning the whole thing because they can't achieve their dreams. If you want to be your fattest self long-term, it's good to sort that out early.
5 months

Ff user who ruins people?

MitchHedberg:
A while back I read some posts from a user on here who confessed to "ruining men" by getting them addicted to the fattening lifestyle so much that it they become essentially useless and lose their partners,jobs, etc.

It was very dark but also quite a hot read and I'm wondering if anyone knows who that user was or where I can find those posts?


First I'm hearing about it. But you've been here longer than most.

It's either buried in the bowels of the forums or the user deleted their account and all their posts went poof per site policy.

I will say I've noticed that a lot of old users that used to proudly post about that kinda stuff are no longer here, so do with that as you will.
5 months

Dealing with other people criticizing your kink

Angelgluttony:
Am I the only one that feels they can’t be too open with their kink? Everyone has their own likings when it comes to kinks but I feel the most judged when I talk about extreme obesity. Discord : blubberbabe


You're a death feedee. You have a niche fetish inside of a niche fetish. Par for the course.
5 months