New to this place

Joej35900:
Preface- I've been lurking on this website for years, but I've never actually interacted with anyone or used any features.

If there are any unwritten or better known rules regarding etiquette/behavior would love to know. (Besides common sense stuff like don't be a creep or an asshole.)

Thanks and lookin forward to shooting the shit on here.

Take Care - Anon.


I mean, if you act like you have common sense, that pretty much covers it.

Don't give internet strangers money.

Don't be an asshole.

Don't be a creep.

Post your personal ads in the personal ad section.

Everything else is written down in the site rules.
5 months

Any chubby asmr channels.

Wolffeeder:
There was an asmr channel on Youtube where she would drink coke and mentos for instance, and record the noises, but I don't remember the name.

JN_TumLover56:
Wasn’t this the “Gurgle Goddess” or something like that? I might be thinking of someone else but that’s who I first think of.


I remember her from when I first discovered feedism. I found them fascinating. I think they are still around.
5 months

Should i wait for my metabolism to slow down?

Arame:
Your metabolism or BMR(Basal metabolic rate) is directly influenced by your lean body mass index(how much you weigh minus the body fat). The leaner you are, meaning less body fat you have, the higher your metabolism will be. To slow it down, you need to increase your body fat percentage. One pound of fat is 3,500 calories. So, to gain one pound of fat a week, you need to consume 500 calories above your TDEE (total daily energy expenditure) aka maintenance calories per day to reach 3,500 calories in a 7 day span. Because 3,500 divided by 7 is 500.

By my calculations, you being a male at 5’11, 128lbs. Your BMR should be around 1,593. Assuming that you want to live a sedentary lifestyle, then your TDEE should be around 1,911 calories per day. So, to gain, you should be consuming 2,411 calories a day. Hopefully this helps

Morbidly A Beast:
Exactly! can you like write how to do the math given activity levels and what not, I was always questioning how that effected the math.

Arame:
Sure, I could! But not for you 😊


5 months

Do you just appreciate the community?

Munchies:
TIL that Enas does not understand the difference between discrimination and consequences for bad behavior.

Learning things. Well, I suppose English is not your native language.

Enas:
I made a distinction between the two. You ignored that?

Im always open to criticism, but i would like to be criticised for the things i actually do, not for the illusions other people might have about me...


5 months

Walking

The***teen:
My knee hurts so bad now when i walk, and they make terrible noises when i walk up stairs and im only just under 300 pounds 😅

Otherday99:
OMG same lol
Each time I take a step up the stairs, the knee 'pops'. I was advised to get it checked, since I'm just 24 and people usually starts getting some serious knee issues at their forties. And I'm just under my 200lbs so it is actually concerning.

I think is also related to the fact that my feet are inward, so maybe the position?

The***teen:
Yes excatly mine also makes the "pop" 😅
Its really uncomfortable, i dont think there is anything to do about it really 😅


There are scores of things you can do about it, actually. Iirc, we discussed it in detail
5 months

Girls just aren’t into fat guys. even on a fat fetish site like this

Kitsune:
As a woman I actually set my sexual orientation settings to "other." Since from my previous experience on an old account I used to often get unsolicited DM's from male users.

By the way in response to Michaeltoko, I think the original poster deleted his account or got banned.


Iirc, Fatpeter deleted not long after this. Not sure why, but I have my assumptions.
6 months

Lost my account


Munchies:
Just so you know, you aren't supposed to have multiple accounts.

Curiousv:
I don't understand your point. If you lose access to your account (forgot the password, e-mail account where you registered no longer exists), then you should never ever be allowed to take part in this community again, never ever in your life?

Not having multiple accounts is supposed to mean using them actively at the same time, or alternately, pretending to be two different persons.

Munchies:
It makes no sense for you to arrive at this conclusion. I am choosing to chalk this up to English not being your first language and you simply misunderstood me.

When I said you are not supposed to have more than one account, I am going off of what admin as told me. They give you grace if you lost access to your old account, but you will ultimately have to choose an account.

If you don't like that, take it up with admin, not me. I don't make the rules.

Curiousv:
I understood clearly what you said.
Notdjorki wrote about not being able to access an old account, and I gave the benefit of the doubt that this new account might have been created because the old was lost, so we don't have to assume that someone uses two accounts.
It was you who replied about the ban on having multiple accounts, this is why it was you who I replied to, and not to the admins.

Maybe one of us misunderstood Notdjorki. But it's no longer relevant, as it is clear now that the old account has been lost. So there will be no concurrent accounts for the same user.


Hun, OP's account is 2 years old. This is not a new account.
6 months

Lost my account


Munchies:
Just so you know, you aren't supposed to have multiple accounts.

Curiousv:
I don't understand your point. If you lose access to your account (forgot the password, e-mail account where you registered no longer exists), then you should never ever be allowed to take part in this community again, never ever in your life?

Not having multiple accounts is supposed to mean using them actively at the same time, or alternately, pretending to be two different persons.


It makes no sense for you to arrive at this conclusion. I am choosing to chalk this up to English not being your first language and you simply misunderstood me.

When I said you are not supposed to have more than one account, I am going off of what admin as told me. They give you grace if you lost access to your old account, but you will ultimately have to choose an account.

If you don't like that, take it up with admin, not me. I don't make the rules.
6 months

Chat

ThickNewLook:
Why so many more people on now? Do people not get logged out


It's just that time of the year.
6 months