I actually only start intentionally gaining after I have had noticed an increased appetite for several weeks that has already induce a little gain, typically around 5-7 Lbs.

I usually notice that I have had a bigger appetite and craving's for more deserts and snacks and know that I will probably have a gain pretty soon. This usually triggers me and gives me a head start to intentionally gaining. When I start to intentionally gain the first motivation is my belly is already bigger from the past two weeks and I am pretty aroused and determined as well as my appetite has already increased quite a bit. I do however try and stuff a lot more at every meal followed by fattening deserts and snacks. I feel full all the time but I am very aroused seeing the bloated results that allows me to keep pushing. Till eventually my I crave huge meals and always have huge fattening snacks all the time...so during this time it becomes not only way easier but the results have been pretty amazing and fast.

I usually only do this 1-2 times a year and it is only after I notice a big appetite increase naturally to start. I think it would be much harder and more effort for me to just try to start gaining without this natural appetite increase which kind of jump starts and really gets me over the initial hump. These intentional gaining episodes usually last 1-2 months but I have had one a while ago that went on for six months and I went through a stage where I didn't think it would stop I just kept eating out of control and gaining without any effort, even if I tired to slow down my appetite I couldn't....which was arousing and scary at the same time.

That may be a bit true! I know when I am gaining I seem to just go for it, be it extra food, more fattening junk and just give in to everything a lot more. Even though I am an FA / very into weight gain I see it with myself for sure but even when my wife starts gaining she is more care free, happier, doesn't deprive herself anything....I mean anything she will sit and eat a pint of ben n jerrys where as before she doesn't even tempt herself with snacks like that. Also usually when not gaining she will try and eat healthy but when she has gained some weight she asks to go to in n out burgers and always eats fattening stuff....she just lets herself do what she wants...more food, more fattening food and snacks, more sex a little more drinking, she just is more relaxed and enjoys everything.

It seems that so many both men and women alike on this site that are very into the weight gain fetish gain a bunch of weight and then lose it...myself included.

I wonder why that is for everyone?

For myself it seems that there are certain times during the years where I get very into this fetish and it is on my mind 24/7 all the time and there are other times when it is on my mind but is just not as strong. During these 24/7 times I act out and seem to have my appetite increase and then go with it and intentionally gain for a while. The amount of time that I intentionally gain varies from a couple of weeks to a month and a half and a couple of times it was around 4-6 months.

Just curious how everyone else feels about this?

Both of these comments above almost exactly!

So the other day I was at an appt. with one of my clients and the secretary happens to be pregnant. As I walked in she was sitting down at the front along with another secretary standing that I hadn't seen in a long while. I said Hi to both of them and as I mentioned I haven't seen the other women for a long time. she mentioned she works in a different dept. now and that she was only up in the front office because she was over looking the other pregnant secretary that felt like she might be going into labor.

All three of us talked for a while when I couldn't help but notice that the other secretary might be pregnant as well or could it be that she gained a good 50+ Lbs. with the most noticeable bigger belly that strained the form fitting light material sweater blouse with no sleeves along with a longer skirt. Her arms were extremely fat and pretty now and her face as pretty as ever just a lot fuller and softer...her longer skirt had her hips and butt packed in and strained the stretchy fabric. As I directed some pregnancy questions at the first secretary who was pregnant I was hoping to get some indication by the other secretary if she was pregnant as well. We discussed pregnancy stuff for at least 5-10 minutes without the other secretary ever chiming in and speaking up as if she was pregnant herself. Now most of the time if there is any opportunity in my past experiences with women to let you now or tell you they are pregnant they usually do and this time there was every opportunity.

As I left I couldn't help but think the other secretary was not pregnant and that she just gained a lot of weight and looked incredibly pregnant. I thought to myself how sexy it is for a pretty women to not only put on a bunch of weight but actually where form fitted type of clothing with that sexy and big of a belly and look so pretty and pregnant when she is not. i started thinking how damn beautiful she looked and she must get people all the time thinking she is pregnant. I still don't know for sure if she wasn't pregnant but if I had to bet on it I would say she wasn't simply because she had every opportunity to chime in when the pregnancy talk was brought up and the fact she probably would have been wearing looser types maternity clothing. Her attire was sexy corporate attire that she looked to have fit into more properly 30 lbs. ago.....but it looked oh so sexy to me and any of us on this board with her glorious big belly protruding out in all its glory.....this woman looked Beautiful.

I have to say that might be just the biggest turn on to have your wife or girlfriend d to look like this and get mistaken out in public with you for being pregnant all the time. How damn sexy would that be?

You said she has asked you a couple of times if you like Fat girls? Why do you think she asked you this question multiple times? Have you given her some reason that is quite obvious to ask the question directly? In the past I have showed much admiration to girlfriends and even my wife when dating to their weight gain and fat on their figures and they have never directly asked....so I would always have to initiate and enhance the talks about weight gain and Fat.

So, I can see your reservations from past experiences but it seems like this opens up the opportunity to let her know. Now you have to answer her next time she asks with a great answer.

When my wife gains even a little bit of of weight 10-15 lbs. + she seems to get much hornier and initiate sex way more. If she continues to keep gaining more (smiles) our lovemaking increases to almost every day or at least 5 times per week and she is so much hornier.

She not only is hornier but she gets aroused much faster and easier and orgasms bigger.

Have any of you women experienced this and or any guy's experienced this with your wives or girlfriends?

I eat like 4 meals of fast food and ice cream a day and I can't get the same full I used to get so I have to eat more and more.



Yes, I have felt the same thing before it's kind of exciting and scary at the same time.

I wish for this to happen to my wife all the time!

At first you are full and slightly discomforted in the belly and after several weeks of eating more and stuffing you don't feel uncomfortable after a huge meal and desert and then several weeks later you notice that with a massive meal, desert and then snacking you can't seem to get full anymore. You can just keep eating and eating and after you realize how much you just ate you are amazed. You start craving fast food and fattening deserts like never before and when you go through a fast food drive thru you order an obnoxious amount for like three people and actually feel a little turned on, greedy and slightly embarrassed seeing the drive thru attendant and that you are the only one in the car. As you park close by in the lot you are amazed at how you steadily ate and finished what you just ordered even thought it was enough for three people and probably 3,000 + calories...you get a slight rush of excitement and decide to go and get some donuts for desert. It becomes a never ending cycle for a while and you start to think of food and also get a little aroused of getting even fatter and reversely you can be sitting around and see your belly sitting out in front of you on your lap and all of a sudden it makes you hungry.....so you keep eating and eating.

It seems to me that he is probably an FA. Feeder is such a broad title, I for one love watching my wife eat, I also enjoy her over eating and definitely like watching her appetite increase and consume way more food at meals....mostly because I know with all the extra food she will be gaining a lot of weight and look even more Beautiful. Yes, I get enjoyment from watching her eat bigger portions but I can't say that I actually get satisfaction from feeding her myself or would be overly excited to watch her tube feed or drink weight gain shakes....I really would like the effects this would have on her figure and making her bigger....but not the act itself.

So I wouldn't classify him as a feeder.....he just knows that the more you eat you will get softer and gain weight....which I think all of us FA's love and can relate to.

As far as liking you in tighter clothes showing off your bigger figure....I think all FA's love this.

Do you actually like gaining weight yourself and are into it....and just wondering the best way to find out his interests regarding this topic in a non abrasive approach being that you are newly dating him?

It sounds like you are open to a weight gaining relationship.....so I say they easiest non threatning way to bring something up would be in a joking way. This will open the dialogue to him and let him be able to expand if he wants. After a big dinner say something like....."Wow, if I keep eating like this with you I am going to have to buy a whole new wardrobe in much larger sizes...as you feel and shake softly your full belly". This will get him started and all of us FA's love to hear this weight gain talk....and then keep going discussing eating and weight gain. If he is into weight gain and I am sure he is this will eventually get him to talk and compliment you and tell you how great you look especially if you bring up a diet. After you try bringing up the word diet....then tell him "I actually think it will be to hard for me to slow down my eating plus I actually don't mind getting bigger" watch his reaction and I am sure he will have a lot of blood rushing to his head (both of them for that matter). Next slowly implement touching....after you have eaten a huge meal with him feel and touch your belly and say "oh my gosh my belly is getting so Big, you taking me out to all this great lunches and dinners is making me Fat".....and have him feel your belly by holding his hand softly and placing it on your belly than while you are still holding his hand on your belly have him shake it and then just leave your hand and his touching your belly and then ask him playfully "what should we get for desert"?

Keep us posted I think you will have your answer soon!

ME