In my experience with my wife I never really told her I simply started gaining weight unintentionally while really trying to increase her weight by buying gall the fattening sweets in the house.

My wife did gain some weight but before I really even noticed I was 15 Lbs heavier because uncontiously I was snacking with her and without her on all the extra calories. I liked it and was pretty aroused by how big my belly was getting and decided to gain intentionally. Mostly because I had a strong urge to have my wife comment or even tease me for my weight gain. My intentional stuffing and gaining continued on for several months because my wife never commented. In fact she started making bigger portions and supplying me with seconds without even asking as well as hand delivered deserts right to my lap after dinner which was starting to get filled with a very huge gut. I was aroused by my new fat gut and she seemed to be also where as before many years ago when we were still dating she commented about guy's who let themselves get fat and out of shape and mentioned she would let me know if I became to fat and out of shape for her.

So, I guess things change or maybe get more easily accustomed to. She finally commented on my weight gain in a fun and teasing approach a few times when she was intoxicated. I am not sure but I think my wife liked the fact that I was fatter than her now and that she felt more comfortable gaining weight herself...and just liked the overall much bigger me.

So, I say try going for a good 20+ Lbs. and see if there is a big difference and ease her into seeing if she comments or acts friendly with your bigger belly. I was already at a size that the firs 20 lbs. really showed a lot bigger and bloated in my belly.

Don't wear them all the time but when I do I kind of switch it up. Most of the time below my belly which makes me look even fatter because my robe is terry and my big gut protrudes out even more pronounced. I also sometimes where it across the middle of my Gut and I guess I look way bigger this way to. Wow, I am going to start wearing mine know that it is getting colder and after the 30+ Lbs I plan on gaining.

Just started intentionally gaining again last week. I decided I needed to try some heavy cream. Yesterday had a half of pint mixed with a glass of milk and it was easy to chug in one or two gulps. Today I followed a fattening lunch with a king size snickers and a pint of heavy cream....it went down pretty easy straight...probably 3-4 gulps.

I was wondering for those of you that had big gains with the stuff what did you notice with the gains. Was there more fat than usual gains on your body, was there gaining in different parts of your body than typical gains, id it make you gain in your face a lot?

Just wondering because I want to get past 260 Lbs. this time around but I really don't want to gain to much in my face.....any and all information would be helpful from all of you.

I hadn't thought about November for gaining but I started last week intentionally gaining coincidentally enough.

I will follow the water advice after big meals ......in fact I am doing at the moment after my over 3000 calorie lunch that consisted of a huge mexican burrito chips and salsa, a king size snickers bar and a pint of heavy cream to wash down the snickers.

I am going to see what my wife says when I get to 260 Lbs.

Uh oh.....Had like 1000 calorie lunch today along with a king size snicker bar for desert and to wash it down chugged a pint of heavy cream.

So a little over 3000 calories for lunch.

It's tough....but let me try!

If you are around 5' 5" - 5' 8"
I would say you will see a decent change in the size of your belly...a little plumper and later softened.

If you are 5' 10" - and above....you may see a slighter differance but mainly in the same place.

With guy's it seem's usually it takes a while to start gaining in other areas....but everyone has different genetics and is different.

I will gain....

Belly
more belly
more belly
then love handles
after a while I start to fill out in my hips and butt

I have a fairly taller muscular build....but as I have gained and lost a little and regained again some of the parts that didn't see weight gain for a long time have really started to get bigger ...such as hip, butt, thighs and especially love handles get a lot bigger and faster now.

Happy gaining

Possibly....I have read somewhere that women or wives feed their husbands huge meal after huge meal and it becomes bigger and bigger until the husbands say something.

My wife has done that every time I have gained a lot of weight....although I never say anything just eat it all to show her I am becoming a pig and hopefully to get a comment out of her.....she say's nothing.

Also, I have heard that a lot of women do this either subconsciously or knowingly and admit to liking or wanting their husband much bigger so they feel comforted and smaller in relation.

I don't know in my case for sure what it is.....this time I am going to eat like a pig for a while and gain a bunch of weight and get my wife intoxicated one night and find out if she likes me Fat.

Pretty sex seeing this weight gain!

I thought about getting one of those high end type "Halloween bellies" that's made out of a jiggly silicone or gel substance...they are not huge but with the Gut I have on my own as well as that it might feel pretty interesting bumping into more thing's.

This could certainly be a great starting option for the original poster......good idea fanedfox.

So I tried it for the first time today! 1/2 pint of Heavy cream mixed with some 2% milk in like a 16 oz. glass. I took a few sips to see how thick it was and it wasn't bad even though it looked pretty thick. After my 2 sips I chugged it in one slow gulp.

I am kinda scared how easy it went down.....I almost feel if I blended it with some ice cream I could do a whole pint and make it a milk shake....oh boy if I let loose and really try and fatten up that might be very easy.