Anybody know if it's possible to be fit and mobile while fat?

English Feeder:
Viewing my partner over a period of time and weight gain. I would say staying as physically active as possible you can retain good mobility and health. But eventually size, weight, age and wear and tear of carrying excess weight will eventually take its toll. That is my experience of how much she has changed over a period of time. I remember her being able to walk miles.
But now she can barely stand and can only take a few steps. She uses a wheelchair now. Immobility is likely very soon.

Munchies:
How big is she, if you don't mind my asking?

English Feeder:
She has been very ill in hospital so has lost weight. She is probably around 475 at 5'2" and in her late 60's


That sucks. I'm sorry to hear she's so ill. Wish her well.
5 months

Just a fetish or relationship dynamic

Plushie:
Are you only interested in feeder/feedee for getting off or do you try creating an actual relationships with these individuals?

Like, when talking to a feedee or a feeder is it only to talk with them to like get off or do you try and pursue an actual long lasting romantic relationship with them?

Is it just for the fetish or is the fetish a lifestyle?

I've seen many feedees talk about their feeder as just a feeder and not so much as a committed romantic partner... and it sort of puts me off. Like I completely understand having an agreement but agreements is all I seem to see. Like, don't get me wrong I love me a good arrangement... but there doesn't seem to be like any romantic aspect to these agreements and its all sexual.
I don't really see many willing to go out and about with these... I guess I will call "play" partners for the lack of a better word.

It seems to me like a lot of feeders seem too embarrassed to ever actually be seen with a fat partner, in case like friends or family see them out or something.

(sorry if all jumbled and incoherent. or like misspelling and poor grammar. the dyslexia is asking up today lol lol)

Arame:
No, this is an excellent question in my opinion.

The only thing I respectfully disagree with is that the feeders are only in it for an arrangement. Is see waaaay more feedies/gainers, usually the females trying to use feeders, usually the males as tricks and simps. But I can see it from your perspective too. Yes, there’s still a lot feeders, particularly males that still lie about liking big women let alone feederism cause of the way society views big women.

Now, to answer your question, I’m absolutely here to find my bride. Everyone that knows me, knows that I like big women. All the women my area on this website seem to be taken though haha.


Female feeder here. Idk about your take on the whole gender dynamic dicotomy. I'm not even a feedee, but I see a fair amount of male trickery (feedees and feeders). Sure, it's usually not money (although it does happen) but it's usually in the form of getting nudes or trying to force non-feedees into being their feeders.

Oh, the things I've seen in my inbox and DMs ...

This is not to say that men do this more than women trying to scam men. (Although a lot of times, those are men catfishing other men). I'd think it's fair to say they happen about equally.

It is funny when the two collide. Happens fairly regularly. Never ends well.
5 months

Anybody know if it's possible to be fit and mobile while fat?

English Feeder:
Viewing my partner over a period of time and weight gain. I would say staying as physically active as possible you can retain good mobility and health. But eventually size, weight, age and wear and tear of carrying excess weight will eventually take its toll. That is my experience of how much she has changed over a period of time. I remember her being able to walk miles.
But now she can barely stand and can only take a few steps. She uses a wheelchair now. Immobility is likely very soon.


How big is she, if you don't mind my asking?
5 months

Number of fat cells

Bigwideland:
One of the reasons I am looking into this is that I was about 16 stone at 15 and about 25 stone at about 22. So may have good initial level of fat cell to expand. I wonder if any equations exist to estimate the weight you could gain with out toxic effects. Clearly this would be crude but interesting.

I did peak at about 580 about 9 years ago, and was still okay, mild blood pressure but not metabolism issues. But I am older now so my
plan of 600 maybe unrealistic.


Not really. It's something that varies wildly from person to person. Plus, the older you get, the harder certain things affect you.

Imma level with you chief. Based on some of your previous posts, gaining to 600 is going to kick your ass. More power to you if you want it anyway, so good luck.
5 months

Number of fat cells

Bigwideland:
I have been reading up on the development of fat cells. Most articles conclude that you can increase the number of fat cells to about 23 or 24 but most in adolescents year's. These tend to be cells under the skin. These can increase is size without much metabolic risk.

Once you are over 25 your fat cell counts are mainly unchanged. So you can gain till you Max out your cell capacity with low metabolic issues. After that your increase in weight is in your organs like your liver ect. This can lead to diabetes and so on.

So that explains to some degree how some people get to huge size as adults they developed more cells as teenagers.

Do we have any expert's that can input on this.

And how, if true can you know you maxed out your fat cells capacity?

Munchies:
So, fat cells can increase until puberty. Once you are done with that, your fat cell count stabilizes. This doesn't mean they stay with you forever. Fat cells die, but your body replenishes them.

Fat cells have a max capacity, but that looks different in different people. Some have a low capacity. Others have a higher capacity. Either way, when that happens, you experience lipotoxicity. Your fat cells have no more room, so your body will store it in other areas like your muscles and organs.

This will make you very sick. Your body will start breaking down and it's all downhill from here.

I remember a video a male feedee posted many years ago. He was quite large and wanted to be 700 lbs. The video was a celebration of his gains and his plans for the future. He looks a little yellow and his breathing is weird. The comments tell a very sad follow up.

He died not long after. The sumptoms sound very similar to lipotoxicity. He reached his hard limit and decided to go past it. If I can find the video, I'll post it later.

FAMGM:
Are you aware of whether the eventual replenishment if fat cells occurs with the same limits?

Ie, would a person in a state of lipotoxicity do no more than replace those already lost, thus remaining with no greater capacity?


en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adipocyte

pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29991030/

As you can see here, you replenish about 10% of your fat cella every year. That said, if you have lipotoxicity, that means diddly and squat. At that point, you have fat deposits in places outside of your fat cells.
5 months

Number of fat cells

Nofbar:
The thing about fat cell numbers being constant past a certain age has been around for a very long time. Around 15 years ago it was debunked. There was scant evidence for it and a lot against, but nobody really checked to see if it was true.


To be clear, the idea was that you have all the same fat cells until you die unless you have liposuction. Fat cella die and get replenished like all the other cells.
5 months

Does you ever...

AskDrFeeder:
...eat so much you can't eat another bite and feel sad that you have to stop?


Reminds me of a post I saw ages ago:

"My mouth wants more, but my tummy doesn't!"

A true tragedy, really.
5 months

Maintaining mobility while gaining.

Miss Tiramisu:
I was hoping that I could get some advice from some people with more experience than I do.
My goal is to hit 400 eventually, but I really want to maintain my mobility. For most that wouldn't be much of a concern but I am 4'11', and that just makes me a little unsure.

If anyone has some advice or knowledge for me, that would be amazing and I would love to talk about it.


With peace and love, but you'll have to adjust your expectations.

My partner is about 400 lbs, give or take. He's 6'2" and, like you, belly-heavy. He gets around just fine, but his mobility would suffer if he were more than a foot shorter.

If you reached 400 lbs, you'd be screwed. Your mobility would take a huge hit. Clothing would be a nightmare to find. You'd be too round for certain medical procedures like MRIs and CT scans. And you'd absolutely rack up medical bills dealing with spinal issues. My belly-heavy feedee has some mild spinal issues we think are due to his girth. I can't imagine how much worse it would be for you.

My advice is to take things one day at a time. Don't worry about number goals. Those are fickle and not realistic for everyone. Gain until it's no longer comfortable for you to do so—whatever that might look like.
5 months

Anybody know if it's possible to be fit and mobile while fat?

Morbidly A Beast:
I’m gonna say no only because that’s a super human person in a video game, I don’t think there’s prize winning mma fighters who can do stuff like that.

Can we be morbidly obese and active? Absolutely, but let’s be realistic no one can do 9 back flips in mid air lol.


5 months

Just a fetish or relationship dynamic

Plushie:
Are you only interested in feeder/feedee for getting off or do you try creating an actual relationships with these individuals?

Like, when talking to a feedee or a feeder is it only to talk with them to like get off or do you try and pursue an actual long lasting romantic relationship with them?

Is it just for the fetish or is the fetish a lifestyle?

I've seen many feedees talk about their feeder as just a feeder and not so much as a committed romantic partner... and it sort of puts me off. Like I completely understand having an agreement but agreements is all I seem to see. Like, don't get me wrong I love me a good arrangement... but there doesn't seem to be like any romantic aspect to these agreements and its all sexual.
I don't really see many willing to go out and about with these... I guess I will call "play" partners for the lack of a better word.

It seems to me like a lot of feeders seem too embarrassed to ever actually be seen with a fat partner, in case like friends or family see them out or something.

(sorry if all jumbled and incoherent. or like misspelling and poor grammar. the dyslexia is asking up today lol lol)


This is a very solid "It depends". On the one hand, I am dating my feedee. On the other hand, I also engage with this kink purely to get off.

Also, any feeder or FA that's too embarrassed to be seen with a fat partner can get bent. They are the scum of the earth, and I don't care who they are. I said what I said, and I meant what I meant.

My feedee is mine. I will walk down the street with him in full view of everyone. My whole family knows him. My friends know him. They love him and do not care that he's about 400 lbs. And if they did say something they know they have me to deal with so they don't dare.

I love him. I am glad he's mine, and I am his. I will show him off to the world, and I don't care who sees. In fact, I hope the do see. And if they don't like it, they can kiss my ass.
5 months