All very good suggestions above.

I found that when I get bored or even full that if I order a milkshake while gaining I can slurp it down in no time and even want to go back for more. Not only does this add major calories but it stretches your gut and eventually even if you get bored of eating you will still be eating because your appetite has grown so much from your stomach being stretched,

Ever since I was young I liked chubbier girls, then chunkier, then plump as time went on and then Fat. I always was fascinated and interested in weight gain and the changes to girls and women. I would occasionally even notice mens Fat bellies but was more only interested in weight gain on women and always liked the changes.

All my girlfriends were aware I liked them thicker and a few even knew I wanted them to gain weight, in which all of them did. Two of them actually played into it and I think one was actually converted into a feedee and liked weight gain as much as I did.

I think I fist discovered that there were a lot of other people into this and it was a fetish on websites like Uk Feeder, a geocities site and Dimensions.

I think everyone goes through some sort of on the fence type thing with should they gain or not.

I can tell you for me in the last several years it happens initially with me eating more without acknowledging and all of a sudden I notice a small weight gain5-10 Lbs. I kind of get aroused and realize how much more I can eat than just a month ago and how I a have a bigger appetite. Several times in the past years I have acted on it and intentionally gained after noticing this initial gain and it turned me on so much. Mostly because of a lack of weight gain on my wife and in my life at the time but also because it was so easy to keep gaining because of my bigger appetite. Usually if it is way to much effort like when I was younger I just kind of gave up. I am at a point now usually with the natural appetite increase during the previously mentioned times as a starter and then after I intentionally stuff way more food I see results right away. A couple of times I got really carried away just to try and get some comments or teasing from my wife about my sudden gain and when they didn't come it was like a game to show her how Fat I could get before she commented.

I would say go for it 10 Lbs. at first it may just be the starting point to really get you interested to go for more.

I got to a stage where it became so easy to gain because I consumed so much more food not because I was trying but almost because I had to. When I was eating it made me aroused and when I was felling Fat it made me want to eat. It was very exciting having the fetish of weight gain with me all the time....different then when I was always just watching my wife as she gained a few Lbs and then hoping for more and then several weeks after noticing she gained a few more....don't get me wrong that is very exciting and arousing but having the weight gain with you at all times and actually working at making it more and seeing the results all the time was really something different and exciting. Not to mention noticing the changes lie going down to tie your shoes and realizing you can barely do it because your new big gut is in the way and when you finally do get around your belly enough to tie your shoes you get a bit out of breath from the strain. Or without realizing when you get up off of the couch after being full you actually make some slight noises not a huge strain noise but you make noises now. I originally noticed this when my wife would gain a good amount of weight and she would breath in and make noises getting off the couch or even getting into bed settling in. These things are there to remind you and kind of arouse you with your weight gain. Sometimes with my big gut I would moan after getting up off the couch I would find myself touch and then rub my belly unconsciously and after that I would feel hungry and get aroused....craziest thing.

I have always been pretty confident sporting if you will my girlfriends who were always chubbier or chunky by societies main standards but all very pretty back when I was younger and in High school.

When I was in college even more confident ended up dating the heaviest girl I had dated. She was beautiful but by societies standards kinda Fat...which I really loved. She was in a sorority and very popular...she was kind of the hottest sorority girl that was now Fat. She wasn't really Fat in my eyes just sexy and the biggest girlfriend I have had but other guy's on campus would think she was very hot if she would lose 50 Lbs. I was walking with her holding hands one day up on campus going to class when a few of my team mates passed by and stopped and while we were talking for a bit I was kind of imagining what they were thinking not really caring but the thought crossed my mind. Later on I found out they gave me some compliments about her but one said to be careful I didn't suffocate in her huge breasts. I am sure they were like most of the guy's on campus who thought she was totally hot if she lost like 50 lbs.

As I am much older my wife who is similar height to this ex college girlfriend probably are close to the same size when she was a bit heavier but I never think of anyone thinking of her being Fat and if I did it kind of turns me on. I do however dream of my wife gaining a lot of weight....like weighing 300+ Lbs on her 5' 3" figure and I know she would look so hot and I don't think that I would ever be ashamed of her but totally turned on if people thought she was Fat.

I wear slacks during most work days for my career and I have to say over the last several years it seems that My buttons always have to get re sown on so much more frequently. It's not that they just blow off but at the end of the day after changing out of them I notice the button hanging by a string and all loose and stretched out. I have had to make many trips to my tailor to not only take out all my pants in the waist but now still am bringing them on to get buttons re sewn on.
A couple of times my tailor who is asian when I brought several pairs of slacks in to have the waist let out to accommodate my growing gut he said without much diplomacy "again, you need me to make bigger" I said these must be some other pairs and he was quick to tell me "No, these are ones I have already made bigger last time" I said "oh" he then said " I will see if there is anymore room left". Well I am sure he is quite aware even though I wasn't until I saw your post why my buttons keep hanging by a string even though I keep having my Tailor fix them. I thought my tailor was just repairing them bad...it makes sense that there is quite a bit of stress down there on my button from heavy and distended belly.

yea...we all seem to like the softer rounded features on faces of heavier women, which I agree it's because we all are on this board. But with that said I believe there are a lot of people in mainstream that prefer that in a woman's face as opposed to chiseled dimensions.

Similar to Chubby Hubby....I also really like a soft rounded and heart shaped face on women with just a subtle double chin. I am fine with even slightly bigger double chin's mainly just because I like the weight gain aspect...but definitely it's not my thing to like bigger double chin's. I also am kind of fascinated with a woman who is much heavier...say huge hips, thighs, lower belly breasts and huge soft upper arms and if you were to see a picture of just her face you would not even be able to tell she was even close to that heavy. Likewise for a similar reason I am fascinated by certain body parts on women that are much larger in comparison to the rest of there body. For example Really Big/Fat butt and thighs and the rest is much thinner for now. Or even a women with really Large soft Fat breasts and a nice plump Fat belly with skinny arms....crazy because I like big pillowy soft fat upper arms generally but something about the contrast is sexy and intriguing. Or maybe it is the excitement of the potential for more weight gain for that body part to catch up....regardless it is sexy to see the unique figures that are exaggerated once and a while.

I am a sucker for beautiful faces on women and have always been. I think that has always been a part of the same fetish in a way because when ever someone says that woman has such a beautiful face but she is so heavy.....I usually am turned on by both so much.

I know at first I thought it was only because I showed her more attention unintentionally because she was bigger but the more she gains and eats she just is much more sexually interested.

I think it may have to do with several things, mostly attitude change, eating and enjoying food, deserts and everything in more care free abundance including intimate soft contact and sex. Also, just the way she becomes more in touch with her growing figure while everything on her figure jiggles more and is so soft to the touch has to make her hornier in the first place.

I agree with the above posts "definitely"

I myself tread with caution even when I notice my wife has recently gained some Lbs. I would love to tell my wife that I would love her to gain weight or gain more weight. She knows from a long time ago that I like her heavier but the only time I even discuss weight gain with her is when she brings it up and I join in the conversation and usually enjoy these times immensely.

I would say after you notice her gaining and an increase in her appetite make sure she has plenty of things she loves to eat....snacks, ice cream etc. and always take her out to some great dinners. Usually during the times my wife starts gaining she is usually open to eating more fattening things and it is usually why she started gaining a little in the first place. Hopefully she will continue gaining and have her appetite really open up and start eating out of control and many more Lbs. will follow. Also, I have found in my marriage that when my wife is eating a bunch and gaining weight she kind of likes it when I am gaining as well, it seems like it makes her feel more comfortable and it makes for some great over eating companionship and she doesn't mind getting fatter for a much longer period.

Yes...I have had many experiences regarding weight gain and Fat that have aroused me when others that aern't into the fetish would think...ugh!

* My ex girlfriend who I lived with gained a bunch of weight and when I cam hime from work one day I found her crying on the couch. I asked what was wrong, she said "she had just got back from an anuual check up at her Doctor and was repremanded for gaining so much weight." The Doctor even told her she was way past obese for her height now and she really better do something about it because he see's women like her really start to lose control like she has. I consoled her and felt said for her but was totally aroused and turned on at the same time and couldn't help but think of her getting even fatter and I got more aroused. Right after I consoled her she grabbed some chips and started eating right next to me on the couch, i got even more aroused thinking she would be getting much fatter and soon!

Good news in my situation I guess....based on this study.