It sounds like you and your girlfriend have been very kind. You might try to "fix her up" with a friend of your who maybe more weight tolerant. Just a thought. It seems to be though the situation could start getting awkward.

I too enjoy out growing clothes. I have posted some photos of my fat belly bulging out of size thirty six pants/jeans. I recently blew the seat out of a pair of 36-30 jeans, tore along the pocket while working in the yard.

You might try different timing for your meals. There was a post on here about a guy I think who was gaining. He skipped breakfast, ate a light lunch, but gorged the evening away and went to bed full. Just a thought.

When you use the funnel, be sure she swallows. There was a story on the net and some news outlets about a guy who "chugged" eggnog. I didn't swallow and just tilted his head back and let the "nog" flow in. It ended up in his lungs! It took him a day or two realize why he felt so bad. He ended up in the hospital with double pneumonia! He won fifty dollars in the chugging contest. Just be careful.

All of you have made excellent points in regard to the "sleep eating" phenomena. I couldn't agree more, though thinking about if for either me or my wife is a turn on, it is obviously quite dangerous. Though the thought of having treats close at hand during the night is a great idea. I have wished to have a mini-refrigerator as a bed side table.

imfatandiknowit; Thank you for your kind words of encouragement. I know that it is all in my head. I could become obese at anytime I wanted too. I did have trouble eating as much as I should this holiday season, even though opportunities to do so were present. I have put on a few more pounds this past week, adding extra candy and cookies to meals etc. I know I have to "come around" and just do it! Thanks again!

I have been a subtle encourager for years. My wife is a BBW. In the past two years I have been steadily putting on weight. I used to try to stay under two hundred pounds (I was in the military reserves for several years.) now I'm up to two hundred and seventeen pounds with a BMI of 31, clinically obese! My wife must obviously see I'm gaining but she hasn't commented on my weight at all. I think most women, have some feeder tendencies. I will fix my plate and eat a good deal more than she does. She always says "there more over their if you want". Great thread, by the way. Yes, I do feel like I'm becoming or could become a "feedee".

I would love to participate, but I'm afraid too, family, society etc. I think I could gain one hundred pounds in a year, but it would be difficult. I wanted to put on weight this holiday season, and didn't succeed which has been somewhat depressing, as I gained five pounds last year, just can't seem to reach the next threshold.

I really enjoyed reading this thread. I have to admit, I am so envious of you being able to let go and totally gain! Someday I will work up the courage and just explode!