Spike:
Yes.
Sadly the fetish related to fat people is they cannot be fit so people upplay on that. Many can lift many things, I personally walk 10k steps a day, and many fat people lead VERY active lifestyles unhindered by their weight with great stamina, strength, mobility, and agility ;]

Stockylove:
Have you ever had a psychological, physical attraction, or both, to an overweight character in a film, series, anime, cartoon, or video game? How did it go for you? and what did this awaken in you?

Technoman:
Maybe I messed up this post by mentioning my past guilt.
I didn't want the comments to be so focused on just me, I'm just one individual.
Think about the bombardment of messages from mass media and social media painting fat admirers and feeders in such a villainous light.
Especially when the man is a thin individual who is the admirer and the woman is a fat individual who is being admired, how the man is painted as a villain and the woman is painted as a victim.

Munchies:
Okay, but like ... why?

Are you taking advantage of these women? Are you respecting the bodily autonomy? Are you keeping their best interests in mind at all times?

I'm a sadistic domme feeder into extreme weight gain. I like making fat men crawl around on their knees with overly full fat bellies. I don't give a fuck if people like it. The only thing that matter is if my partner likes it.

Now, if you are taking advantage of women or forcing them to do things they don't want to do, then that's a different story.

Technoman:
There are messages telling someone (often men) that there is something to feel guilty about for simply finding something specially attractive about a fat individual (especially if it's fat women). It doesn't even need to come to the point of a relationship, just the mere desire is shamed.

Plus when it's consensual relationship, then there are messages raising doubts on how consensual it is for the one being admired. If the one being admired is just doing it to keep the one doing the admiring.

The reason an admirer is shamed can be multiple reasons: the admieree's health, being called shallow, accused of sexualizing fat individuals, accused of trying to trap the individual, etc.

Technoman:
Reasons to NOT feel guilty for loving fat women, or fat men, or whatever fat adult ?

I have personally experienced guilt for loving fat women.
I have seen a few threads with someone mentioning feeling guilty.

Maybe a member feels guilty right now. Or maybe a guest visiting this site feels guilty right now.

I would like to reasons to NOT feel guilty.

Munchies:
Honestly, this is such a BS thing. That's a person at the end of the day.

If you see them as a person and not as a sexy object, you have no reason to feel guilty. What you're describing is fatphobia. You have some soul searching to do hun.

Technoman:
Maybe I messed up this post by mentioning my past guilt.
I didn't want the comments to be so focused on just me, I'm just one individual.
Think about the bombardment of messages from mass media and social media painting fat admirers and feeders in such a villainous light.
Especially when the man is a thin individual who is the admirer and the woman is a fat individual who is being admired, how the man is painted as a villain and the woman is painted as a victim.

Stockylove:
I was just wondering if there were a lot of people who admitted to having these fetishes or kinks to their parents, families, friends, or work colleagues. How they reacted. Did they discover it or did you tell them? How do you live this experience?

For my part, no one knows. I simply don't assume it, especially since I have a lot of kinks around gaybears and bellies in general. If I told them all about my weird big weirdo's kinks, they'd be sent to the psychiatric asylum.

Arame:
Me, personally?

I reject the term fetish cause I don’t think this is a fetish. People like what they like. If you notice, it’s only a “fetish” when it’s not the norm. If a short woman prefers a tall man, it’s never accused of being a fetish. If a man wants a slim woman, it’s never accused of being a fetish. Because we like people with extra body fat, now all of a sudden it’s a fetish. It’s a joke to me. But! That’s just my opinion.

But to answer your question, yeah everyone knows I only date big people. Some don’t like or agree with it but they know better to than to say something disrespectful to me about it.

Bigwideland:
I have been reading up on the development of fat cells. Most articles conclude that you can increase the number of fat cells to about 23 or 24 but most in adolescents year's. These tend to be cells under the skin. These can increase is size without much metabolic risk.

Once you are over 25 your fat cell counts are mainly unchanged. So you can gain till you Max out your cell capacity with low metabolic issues. After that your increase in weight is in your organs like your liver ect. This can lead to diabetes and so on.

So that explains to some degree how some people get to huge size as adults they developed more cells as teenagers.

Do we have any expert's that can input on this.

And how, if true can you know you maxed out your fat cells capacity?

Technoman:
Reasons to NOT feel guilty for loving fat women, or fat men, or whatever fat adult ?

I have personally experienced guilt for loving fat women.
I have seen a few threads with someone mentioning feeling guilty.

Maybe a member feels guilty right now. Or maybe a guest visiting this site feels guilty right now.

I would like to reasons to NOT feel guilty.

FAMGM:
I’ll never discuss my sexual interests with a non-feedist.

I don’t have the patience to lay it all out knowing that they’ll not understand it anyway.

Technoman:
Do you have kinks that are completely unrelated to weight, food, or BDSM ?

For me personally, I find these beautiful and sexy on women: acne, acne scars, oily skin, large pores, textured skin, forehead wrinkles, crowsfeet, freckles, sweat, certain earrings, certain necklaces, sneezing, sniffling, nose blowing etc.

Bigwideland:
Hi,

I have lower leg skin rashes lately, have cortisol cream from doctor. It most likely mild Stasis Dermatitis. Do others have this and how do you manage it.

BWL.

Letters And Numbers:
This sounds weird, but after you put whatever cream on your doctor recommends, even if it's just lotion, wrap your legs in saran wrap and then put an ace bandage over it. It keeps the medication on your skin instead of having it rub off onto your clothing and takes care of stuff like that 10x as quickly. It's a little gross, ngl, but it works.