I guess I found it the same way as above....hard to remember it has been so long!

The forums, pics & stories....it's nice to be able to read and post with like minded people in this fetish.

Lucky Guy......does she want to try gaining weight for you or herself to see how she likes it?

I'm not so sure that is always the case. Based on the Place I can see why you might think that...but I think asian women (especially) as well as other women do like bigger bellied men.

One of my many Uncles is married to an Asian woman. Asian women like to take care of their men and historically have been programmed since they were young girls that their men need to be fed, fed a lot and looked after. If you look at any american man that is married to an Asian woman the man is usually pretty Fat. My Uncle used to tell me "Your Aunt fattened me up like this" . I used to just laugh it off... but one day after he said the same thing, after she brought him an oversized meal on his plate I replied "are you sure about that"? He said "dead serious....right after our wedding she constantly made me finish my plate and then immediately brought me seconds and forced me to always eat everything on my plate. After a while the seconds turned into thirds and every meal I would just sit there while she waited on me bringing me plate after plate and more and more food. He said "Believe it or not she actually likes me this Fat...and she gets mad at me if I don't eat as much as I normally do for a day or so and starts to really get mad at me...so I just keep eating more and more". He is the one that told me...."look around anytime you see an Asian woman with an american guy they are usually pretty Fat. The Asian men married to Asian women try to contain it a bit more but usually have a belly on them as well". My Uncle is a big guy and is around 370 Lbs ....up from 200 Lbs when they married.

I see similar things with American or other women kind of from the same nurturing concept. I don't think they are into weight gain as much as most of us here are but women like to keep their Men fed well fed. I am not positive but my wife even though she used to say she liked me lean and muscular before we were married. A few years ago after I secretly & intentionally gained a lot of weight..... My wife started filling my plate at meals extra huge....maybe because she saw how much more I could eat or I am not sure. But those huge plates turned into seconds without me even asking and eventually she cooked way bigger meals and always talked me into finishing everything in the pan or pot. She also didn't shy away from bringing over huge bowls of ice cream directly following the massive dinners she talked me into finishing. " I got Fatter"... she never mentioned much but continually fed me massive meals and deserts and was never shy with affection and always gently touched my now Huge Gut as if it was all her doing. I even mentioned one time after one of her massive meals she served me while finishing one of her huge bowls of ice cream she brought over to me on the couch..."Your making me Fat with your great cooking" as my huge distended Gut sat out in front of me resting on my lap even though I was leaning back. She only acknowledged my statement by replying "can I get you another bowl"?

So, I think everyone likes seeing changes of weight gain.....we here happen to love it and are aroused by it....and I think women in a nurturing way like feeding their men and start to like to see the changes of their good doing in way of a huge Belly.

All of this is so well said and identical to what I like.

I think it has to do with height and body type/figure. I to can be attracted to a chubbier woman but right away I start envisioning her gaining and getting fatter. O have admired shorter women (5' 1" - 5' 3" pear or hourglass figure in my eyes usually between 230-300+ Lbs. As taller same body type 270-370 + Lbs.

I too have accidentally gained weight while encouraging and trying to Fatten my wife. After I noticed 10-15 Lbs of unintentional weight gain I decided to Intentionally gain. At first I was excited and enticed by noticing the ever increasing size of my Belly....and then I was aggressively disciplined into seeing how big and Fat I could get....but most of the arousal came from trying to get my wife to comment on my weight gain or tease me.

Eventually I became consumed with over feeding myself and that became arousing in itself....until I discovered that my eating was out of control and I couldn't stop eating huge amounts of food which became even more arousing.

I guess as time goes on as an FA and very into weight gain....it goes in many more directions. At first I liked chubbier girls and them gaining weight, then it was heavier girl/woman gaining weight, now I love women 300+ lbs. gaining weight, I get aroused on watching my wives eat and her appetite increase, love to see my wife gain weight and ultimately would love to have a mutual Gaining relationship and even fanticize about both of us being over 300 Lbs. and being a huge Fat couple.

So....roles with this fetish take shape in different areas as it goes on....

Yeah, my metabolism changed at 24/25 all of a sudden I gained weight....it was about 2 years time...first corporate desk job along with no more sport/conditioning in college as well as moving in with my chunky girlfriend.

in 2 years time I probably gained I probably gained 70+ Lbs.

Yes....I think everyone goes through those stages.

I loved it and was consumed with stuffing, gaining and getting fatter. It became so intense and arousing and then all of a sudden I had to go to a event and I became withdrawn and started thinking the opposite "I wish I was thinner and muscular again". I would be getting dressed and looked at myself 40+ Lbs bigger mostly in my big Fat Gut but also in my face and all over....stuffed into my dress shirt and my largest slacks that my Gut hung way out over the waist band and that I rode low under my belly now and my suit jacket didn't fit anymore. I was embarrassed and thought of all the look's and the comments I might get.

I am sure everyone goes through it....but it may happen less and less as you gain more weight and get over that mid point.

I start to think this is how it must be for people who are not into weight gain at all. They get Fat they are fine with it while they are eating and able to pig out on all the things they love and immediately following... look down at there big Fat belly even more bloated and get some pretty bad feelings.

I remember a long time ago when my wife first started gaining weight during our relationship... because I told her she should relax and eat what she wanted and not be concerned if she gained weight because I actually liked it. She was gaining and her appetite grew and she would come home from work and grab a box of cookies or chips and plop down on the couch watching TV and plow through the entire box or bag and as she sat their after her greedy appetite and snack fix be relaxed and in a good mood ....her mood would change as she got up with a full fattened belly. She was mad that she ate so much and was just making herself fatter. Nowadays she eats like a greedy little pig a lot and it starts to bother her at certain times when certain clothes won't fit but nearly as much as a long time ago.

I do think however when we all start to gain and enjoy it and keep trying to fatten more ....we usually get through more of those ill type feelings by becoming a bit more withdrawn from family and friends during our fattening times being that is usually a negative aspect associated with the whole gaining thing. I know I do.....even when my wife has gained a bunch of weight I am a little anxious in front of family and friends when I notice them taking glances of her and I know they are thinking "Wow, she has really gotten big". My concern is that my wife will feel insecure and then try and diet after some of these encounters or possible comments. Although lately my wife has not even seemed a bit concerned with it. I have noticed her wearing some pretty revealing type of clothes where she looked pretty Fat in recently that she wore 25 Lbs. ago and I even looked at her during these times "wow, she look's so sexy and Fat in that outfit"....even though I had been seeing her everyday since she has gained those 25 Lbs. .....and I am sure others after not seeing her with those 25 Lbs. were thinking "Wow, she certainly has been eating well"!

When I gained a lot of weight a while back....My body kind of turned into the muscular type with a big huge Gut "muscle Chub" I guess. I always had pretty tight/muscular large Pecs or chest and I didn't even realize Until my wife palmed my chest one night and softly shook and squeezed them. I was a bit embarrassed but also aroused by her admiration toward them.

After that I noticed how much softer/bigger they were......I didn't like them to much but my wife seemed to like them.

My wife always told me she liked me lean and muscular but the crazy thing was is when I was at my fattest she couldn't stop caressing and touching my huge Fat Gut and squeezing my moobs while making love. She never turned down any love making opportunities in fact our love making increased by a huge percentage...way more into it then when I was thinner/leaner and muscular. Granted this big Fat boy was always hornier myself during this time too.

I'm with you......I used to especially always dream of the Bubbly Beautiful/cute cheerleader type that becomes nice and Fat!

I think she means.....because Vegas is the quick fix!

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