Well I definitely hope My wife and her friend fatten up a lot more together sharing many lunches and snacks in meetings. Hopefully here comes 30+ Lbs. to my wives sexy fluffier figure.

My wife a few months ago switched companies in the same industry and has reunited with a work friend from years ago.

Her and this work friend worked together at the same company together many years ago and became very close working together and used to hang out a lot together even away from work. Since she has started working together again she has been talking about her a lot and they have become extremely close again. They basically work together all day every day heading up the marketing team for this company. I met this woman many times and thought she was very nice. She is attractive and averaged size back when I met her years ago. My wife happened to be talking business with me the other night and I mentioned something about the other woman's hair or something and I am not sure how it came out but my wife said her hair is still really long but she is now really chunky. First off my wife, even though she considers herself Chunky or Fat tends to use that term loosely back in the day but in the last few years has been a little more spot on. So I said "chunky? so what, she gained 10 Lbs.?" She said "No, she is heavy now, a lot bigger than me". This woman is probably 5' 8" tall so I then said "ya, she is a lot taller than you". She said "yes, I know, well you will see her, you will even think she is Fat now."

So firstly the FA/weight gain enthusiast in me got a rush and was pretty turned on hearing my wife tell me about this not only because this friend is now Fat, which I always think is sexy but just to hear my wife talk about weight gain in itself is sexy to me. Next I couldn't stop to think about before my wife was going to switch companies and knowing not only this friend but a couple of other former employees from many years ago already worked there and how she was a bit insecure about how much she has gained since working with all of them many years ago. So after the first week many months ago she was totally at ease and now I know why, because her friend gained a lot more weight than she had gained. So I started reading up on weight gain among friends that are fatter and it said that there has been studies showing that friends mold eating habits and patterns whether they be slim, then you will take on their habits or if they are fat you will eventually take on their eating habits etc. Also if your concerned with your size and see your best friend being way bigger than you set the bar next to your friend and 10,15, even 30 Lbs. will be noticeable but you will compare it next to your close friend and if they are still bigger it won't necessarily bother you as bad as if you were comparing yourself next to a thin friend. All of it seemed really legitimate.

I was wondering if any of you agree with this or this has actually happened to you or you have seen it happen to anyone else?

I have various times where this fetish is very intense and it's always on my mind....typically this only happens this intense for once every 3 months or 4 times a year and only for a couple of weeks.

But I do tend to enjoy and think about weight gain and Fat on women a lot. I think only during the previously mentioned 4 times a year do I feel it is a bit crazy.

The busier I am the less time I really have to dive in as deep I would say.

I actually only start intentionally gaining after I have had noticed an increased appetite for several weeks that has already induce a little gain, typically around 5-7 Lbs.

I usually notice that I have had a bigger appetite and craving's for more deserts and snacks and know that I will probably have a gain pretty soon. This usually triggers me and gives me a head start to intentionally gaining. When I start to intentionally gain the first motivation is my belly is already bigger from the past two weeks and I am pretty aroused and determined as well as my appetite has already increased quite a bit. I do however try and stuff a lot more at every meal followed by fattening deserts and snacks. I feel full all the time but I am very aroused seeing the bloated results that allows me to keep pushing. Till eventually my I crave huge meals and always have huge fattening snacks all the time...so during this time it becomes not only way easier but the results have been pretty amazing and fast.

I usually only do this 1-2 times a year and it is only after I notice a big appetite increase naturally to start. I think it would be much harder and more effort for me to just try to start gaining without this natural appetite increase which kind of jump starts and really gets me over the initial hump. These intentional gaining episodes usually last 1-2 months but I have had one a while ago that went on for six months and I went through a stage where I didn't think it would stop I just kept eating out of control and gaining without any effort, even if I tired to slow down my appetite I couldn't....which was arousing and scary at the same time.

That may be a bit true! I know when I am gaining I seem to just go for it, be it extra food, more fattening junk and just give in to everything a lot more. Even though I am an FA / very into weight gain I see it with myself for sure but even when my wife starts gaining she is more care free, happier, doesn't deprive herself anything....I mean anything she will sit and eat a pint of ben n jerrys where as before she doesn't even tempt herself with snacks like that. Also usually when not gaining she will try and eat healthy but when she has gained some weight she asks to go to in n out burgers and always eats fattening stuff....she just lets herself do what she wants...more food, more fattening food and snacks, more sex a little more drinking, she just is more relaxed and enjoys everything.

It seems that so many both men and women alike on this site that are very into the weight gain fetish gain a bunch of weight and then lose it...myself included.

I wonder why that is for everyone?

For myself it seems that there are certain times during the years where I get very into this fetish and it is on my mind 24/7 all the time and there are other times when it is on my mind but is just not as strong. During these 24/7 times I act out and seem to have my appetite increase and then go with it and intentionally gain for a while. The amount of time that I intentionally gain varies from a couple of weeks to a month and a half and a couple of times it was around 4-6 months.

Just curious how everyone else feels about this?

Both of these comments above almost exactly!

So the other day I was at an appt. with one of my clients and the secretary happens to be pregnant. As I walked in she was sitting down at the front along with another secretary standing that I hadn't seen in a long while. I said Hi to both of them and as I mentioned I haven't seen the other women for a long time. she mentioned she works in a different dept. now and that she was only up in the front office because she was over looking the other pregnant secretary that felt like she might be going into labor.

All three of us talked for a while when I couldn't help but notice that the other secretary might be pregnant as well or could it be that she gained a good 50+ Lbs. with the most noticeable bigger belly that strained the form fitting light material sweater blouse with no sleeves along with a longer skirt. Her arms were extremely fat and pretty now and her face as pretty as ever just a lot fuller and softer...her longer skirt had her hips and butt packed in and strained the stretchy fabric. As I directed some pregnancy questions at the first secretary who was pregnant I was hoping to get some indication by the other secretary if she was pregnant as well. We discussed pregnancy stuff for at least 5-10 minutes without the other secretary ever chiming in and speaking up as if she was pregnant herself. Now most of the time if there is any opportunity in my past experiences with women to let you now or tell you they are pregnant they usually do and this time there was every opportunity.

As I left I couldn't help but think the other secretary was not pregnant and that she just gained a lot of weight and looked incredibly pregnant. I thought to myself how sexy it is for a pretty women to not only put on a bunch of weight but actually where form fitted type of clothing with that sexy and big of a belly and look so pretty and pregnant when she is not. i started thinking how damn beautiful she looked and she must get people all the time thinking she is pregnant. I still don't know for sure if she wasn't pregnant but if I had to bet on it I would say she wasn't simply because she had every opportunity to chime in when the pregnancy talk was brought up and the fact she probably would have been wearing looser types maternity clothing. Her attire was sexy corporate attire that she looked to have fit into more properly 30 lbs. ago.....but it looked oh so sexy to me and any of us on this board with her glorious big belly protruding out in all its glory.....this woman looked Beautiful.

I have to say that might be just the biggest turn on to have your wife or girlfriend d to look like this and get mistaken out in public with you for being pregnant all the time. How damn sexy would that be?

You said she has asked you a couple of times if you like Fat girls? Why do you think she asked you this question multiple times? Have you given her some reason that is quite obvious to ask the question directly? In the past I have showed much admiration to girlfriends and even my wife when dating to their weight gain and fat on their figures and they have never directly asked....so I would always have to initiate and enhance the talks about weight gain and Fat.

So, I can see your reservations from past experiences but it seems like this opens up the opportunity to let her know. Now you have to answer her next time she asks with a great answer.

When my wife gains even a little bit of of weight 10-15 lbs. + she seems to get much hornier and initiate sex way more. If she continues to keep gaining more (smiles) our lovemaking increases to almost every day or at least 5 times per week and she is so much hornier.

She not only is hornier but she gets aroused much faster and easier and orgasms bigger.

Have any of you women experienced this and or any guy's experienced this with your wives or girlfriends?