For me, it was when my first serous girlfriend gained about 40 pounds when we were together. She went from fairly skinny to being quite chubby with a soft, jiggly belly :-) Each one after that was already heavy, so no gain was really needed :-) Wife is about 320 pounds and couldn’t be more confident in her size :-)

I can relate, thanks to my wife’s gain through the years.

Just be confident and maintain the dimensions you’ve listed on your profile. No pics, I see, but it appears you’re at a decent size. Flaunt it with pride :-)

True indeed! My wife has gone through periods of losing and re-gaining, leading to her current belly hang. There’d be a lot excess skin if she ever lost a lot of weight again.

It’s tough not to observe and admire the best bellies out there, especially in public :-)

I’m experiencing that now, as my last belt loop is hanging on :-)

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Nothing was as effective as swimming regularly. Everything else just made it somewhat better.

Regular rinsing with a handheld shower, 5+ times a day.

Antiperspirant applied liberally

Diaper rash cream

A foam wedge cushion to put under my tummy at night to give it air - what worked best was a large, U-shaped nursing pillow.

A fan and lifting my belly as long as I could

Wicking pads

I was well over 600, and this is still something I have to deal with at 474

I've actually considered creating a product to help with this



Not an identical story but a similar story for my wife, as she tends to use antifungal spray usually used for athletes foot on the underside of her two main fat rolls whenever her skin underneath starts to chafe. She says it works, and that’s good enough from me :-) For perspective, she’s about 320 pounds.

My wife also swims like a fish, and much, much better than me :-)

Dying thread here, as our OP subject has vanished....but for anyone scrolling...what’s a good source for finding bras larger than 46 DDD? My wife’s one decent bra left is about to give way. The wire has poked through the material, as it often does when it’s time for a new one.

The weight comes with age. I see you’re just 19? If it’s genetic and young as well, I’d say she has another decade of being thin. Childbirth can change that as well as just eating more. Everyone’s predisposition is different, of course.

Slow and steady wins the race, Sara. Eat homemade meals. If you don’t have cooking skills, there’s plenty of resources online to help you get to a healthy weight first. Then after that you can get to stuffing like the rest of us :-)

Only the wife knows :-) Both girls I was with before or either already fat or gained a bunch while they were with me, People should already know what I’m into :-)