Conflicted, guys!

See Deciding to Get Fat on my site.
11 years

The wall test

MrsJellyBelly wrote:
I tried today and my belly brushes the wall when my toes barely touch the wall.


Nice start though!
11 years

Awful article on feederism

What Netherwulff said.
11 years

2014 tummy of the year

RoyalFreyeness wrote:
Can we have a best booty competition?

My shelf butt might make me eligible for something like that.


Sure, but that would be a different thread. Go for it!
11 years

Experimental gain q. 2

MrsJellyBelly wrote:
I've gained about 15 and my husband can only tell when I'm fully undressed. And 13 would be my 10%... So more is needed to be publicly noticeable. This is of course without a full belly since that's only temp


Do you reckon public noticeability is required?

How much more would need to gain to achieve that?
11 years

2014 tummy of the year

Even though I started this thread I have doubts about making it a real thing.

This site is, among other things, a haven for those fleeing conventional standards of attractiveness...do we really want to create new standards for people to worry about? I'm afraid a serious contest might do that.
11 years

Want to see her gain

More thoughts...

When you bring this up you should frame it as a fantasy that's part of sex play. DON'T ask her to gain. DO ask her to work the fantasy into sex play. She can stuff occasionally without gaining. Or she could even pretend she's gained without actually gaining...wear too-tight clothes and complain about how fat she's getting (when actually she hasn't gained an ounce).

Of course if she accidentally gains a pound or two you should make a big fuss over it and praise her to the skies.

Eventually she'll fill in the blanks and figure out you'd like it if she gained, but the next step will be up to her. She should feel less pressured than if you asked her to gain up front.

It is also possible you'll like the "play" feeding so much that actual feeding won't be so important.
11 years

Want to see her gain

johnxyz wrote:
You can't change a non-feedee into a feedee. You have to decide if you want a feedee or you want a 130 pound girlfriend.


Not always true. Some people don't realize they're feedees until 1) they have an accidental gain and realized they like it; 2) they gain a little for a lover and realize they like it.

One example is Cherries on Big Cuties. She was quite slim until she gained a few pounds for her boyfriend and realized she liked it as much as he did.
11 years

Is it considered cheating if..

Wannabe Princess wrote:
If it isn't cheating then you can just tell your husband/wife/partner what you are up to and who with - they'll know all about it and there will be no problems/sneaking around etc.

If you feel that you have to hide it from them, then you probably already consider it cheating, even if you wont admit it to yourself.


This.
11 years