You really should post a pic or link to the best photo of the belly in question!

You should absolutely discuss it with her. In a non-pushy way of course. Just tell her your preferences but don't make a big deal out of it.

Who knows, maybe she's just trying to lose weight to please YOU?

My own case: I married an average-sized woman. She knew about my preferences before we got married, but I'd never made a big deal out of them. Later on she gained weight, and then lost weight, but she voluntarily kept her weight a little higher than she wanted for my sake.

I probably shouldn't give marriage advice since my own marriage ultimately failed, but I do know that people have to compromise in marriage. But it's hard to compromise unless both parties have all the pertinent facts.

I realize I still haven't completely answered this.

There's still the question of what someone should do if (contrary to my advice!) they decide to gain while still with their parents. Should they seek their parents approval or support in such a case?

Actually this is a tricky question, because they might have to confront their parents on this whether they want to or not.

I don't have a good answer on this one.

Anyone else?

I usually advise people to hold off on gaining (or feeding someone else) until they're not dependent on their parents. If the parents disapprove, it can be stressful on everyone involved. Why do it if you can't even enjoy it?

Of course many people haven't heard this advice and many don't follow it even if they have.

Many feedees have gained while living with their parents. The parents usually express concern or active disapproval, but often it's not enough to matter to the feedee in question.

I haven't chatted with anyone who actually sought their parents' approval or support, but I believe there were one or two mentioned on thegaininglife.tumblr.com/. Sorry I can't remember the particular cases. fatfanplus would know.

If I was a parent myself in this scenario (where the kid sought my approval) I'd try to get my kid to wait until he or she was at least 18. If the kid refused I wouldn't be encouraging but would be tolerant, especially if they kept up on schoolwork and whatever else they needed to do in this very critical phase of life.

If the kid was VERY young, under 13 say, I'd actively discourage any gaining.

But in none of these scenarios would I be a hypocrite and guilt trip them for having the fetish in the first place.

There's nothing wrong with having the fetish, but there are wrong ways of expressing the fetish.

Have you tried arranging a meet-up with several local ff members?

Just read about a woman who claimed to have stuffed her way from 129 to 138 lbs in a day! Almost 7%!

Of course, it's just a temporary gain, but it's an interesting stuffing metric.

Has anyone else tried this? What's your biggest increase from morning till night?

Please do!



Why not nominate one of each?

My nomination:

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