Tomdavies:
We have been dating for 2.5 years and are in a very happy relationship. However, I have always been interested in Frederick but she has shown no visible interest in this. Would it be best to speak to her about this or just no mention it at all?

HectorBalloon:
An annoying thing for me is discomfort lying on my front in bed now.

You see, my belly is so fat, such a fat blob, that when I lie on my front, the fat pushes into my stomach and organs. Seems it gives me some sort of indigestion I don't get otherwise.

The other night, for example, I heard a loud "squeak" coming from my belly which woke me up. I had inadvertantly rolled into a front sleeping position and my belly didn't like it so it squeeked. So I changed position.

Romy:
God, I didn't think my food addiction was that big.
I have a lot of anxiety and I can't wait to eat delicious things.
My husband is inflexible about my diet, but I already cheated, I have my nurse and my niece.
Yesterday I asked my nurse to let me have a hamburger and then a chocolate cake. Today I asked my niece to bring me fried chicken with potatoes and 5 bars of chocolate.
The problem is that my husband doesn't know this and if he finds out my nurse could have problems.
The truth is I'm starving and I have a serious anxiety problem. My nurse didn't do things voluntarily, I basically ordered her to do them.
I broke my diet but it was necessary to calm down a little.

Munchies:
The struggle is real. I don't think anyone here will think less of you for being weak. But overcoming food addictions is more than just willpower.

I can't force you to be honest with your husband about your struggles, but we both know you need to be honest with him.

Do you have any additional support besides your husband? Are you familiar with the resources in your area?

I don't know what country you are in, but there are helplines, support groups, one-on-one help from experts, etc. I'd look into it.

Romy:
I am undergoing treatment and they even gave me medication to control anxiety and I also resumed physical therapy. Eating secretly is difficult in bed, but when I can eat something delicious I do it.
My niece is going to bring me 2 triple hamburgers this afternoon.
I know I shouldn't eat those things but how do I resist the temptation? Anyway, I'm eating less than before and I'm going to lose some weight.

Valgodd:
Does anybody else experience that getting aroused by feedism related stuff is like a totally different feeling, compared to being aroused by ”ordinary” sexual stuff? Its not only that its stronger, it also feels different in the body

Munchies:
I am not 100 percent sure I understand what you mean. Are you asking feedism makes us hornier than vanilla things? If so, I think that's nearly everyone here.

Valgodd:
What I’m asking is if anyone else experience the arousal from feedism as a completely different kind of feeling than arousal from vanilla stuff. Its not just about how strong the arousal is, but it also is a completely different kind of sensation for me

Glitter Jelly:
He isn't because he can't afford it (our healthcare system overs part of the medication costs but not of therapy).

Since my appointment at the endocrinologist I'm a lot more depressed myself. I haven't lost any weight and if there's no medical explanation to my getting fatter so fast I feel very hopeless.

I try to restrict myself but I only end up bingeing more on forbidden foods later in the day or at night.

Still on sick leave but I'll have to start working again soon. The mere idea of going back makes me want to quit because I just can't cope with any weight gain comments tbh.

Saw my mom for Christmas and it was obvious she noticed my fuller figure and was walking on eggshells in order not to hurt me.

Morbidly A Beast:
Dang dude deleted

James556:
All my life I've had weightgain fantasies and I always thought I'd keep it as a fantasy, and still currently am, but the desire is beginning to get stronger to the point I've even made a few shakes during the last few weeks. But being really lean now I can just forget about it once the moment passes, as normally when the moment passes I no longer desire to gain, and that happens near enough every time, but I'm worried if I do decide to gain that it would become too intense and a constant turn on as you can't exactly leave the weightgain in the bedroom, it stays with you. Is this true about it being so intense, or is it just my worries, or would the novelty wear off or is this part of the kink?

Valgodd:
Does anybody else experience that getting aroused by feedism related stuff is like a totally different feeling, compared to being aroused by ”ordinary” sexual stuff? Its not only that its stronger, it also feels different in the body

Romy:
God, I didn't think my food addiction was that big.
I have a lot of anxiety and I can't wait to eat delicious things.
My husband is inflexible about my diet, but I already cheated, I have my nurse and my niece.
Yesterday I asked my nurse to let me have a hamburger and then a chocolate cake. Today I asked my niece to bring me fried chicken with potatoes and 5 bars of chocolate.
The problem is that my husband doesn't know this and if he finds out my nurse could have problems.
The truth is I'm starving and I have a serious anxiety problem. My nurse didn't do things voluntarily, I basically ordered her to do them.
I broke my diet but it was necessary to calm down a little.

Morbidly A Beast:
If he doesn’t like being big chances are he won’t think highly of you gaining weight, he might but that’s not something most people would think about.

Rather you should take what you’ve learned here and explain to him how it’s okay to be fat and it’s ok to be comfortable in your body