HectorForce wrote:
In April-May 2012 I gained 15lbs but because I was underweight to begin with anyway it made little difference at all.
Interesting point. So if you're quite thin to begin with a 10% gain won't be enough.
Perhaps it's necessary to gain to at least 10% more than the "normal weight" for your size to do a proper experimental gain.
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xsweetcherryxl wrote:
Can you guys please give me advice on this like maybe someone on here also had to deal with parents and stuff?
Here's some advice on how to talk to your parents if/when you do gain (either before or after moving out):
Letter from Amanda. Can't guarantee it'll work for you, but it has helped a few!
11 years
ShakesSphere wrote:
It seems that some people in this thread think that gainer fantasy fiction is the real deal and feedees eat a dozen donuts with every meal.
Everybody's different, but some feedees really do eat a lot.
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AnneMarie wrote:
how could I develop a 'fat' mindset, carrying less about what society thinks and just focus on weight gain.
The Glutton's Pledge might help.
Also see
Letter from Amanda for advice about how to talk (and how not to talk) to others about the new you.
11 years
Netherwulff wrote:If you guys could encase the URL in the member's name or some other text that might help a bit. When you post the long URLs, it cuts into the sidebar on the right. ---->
You can name your URLs to shorten them by putting [url=insertlink]textdisplayed. Then, just close off the URL like you normally would.
Good catch!
2014 Female Tummy of the Year Nomination:
weighting4u
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You really should post a pic or link to the best photo of the belly in question!
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You should absolutely discuss it with her. In a non-pushy way of course. Just tell her your preferences but don't make a big deal out of it.
Who knows, maybe she's just trying to lose weight to please YOU?
My own case: I married an average-sized woman. She knew about my preferences before we got married, but I'd never made a big deal out of them. Later on she gained weight, and then lost weight, but she voluntarily kept her weight a little higher than she wanted for my sake.
I probably shouldn't give marriage advice since my own marriage ultimately failed, but I do know that people have to compromise in marriage. But it's hard to compromise unless both parties have all the pertinent facts.
11 years
feedee2be wrote:
Just curious, what do you think about the other side of the arguement?
I realize I still haven't completely answered this.
There's still the question of what someone should do if (contrary to my advice!) they decide to gain while still with their parents. Should they seek their parents approval or support in such a case?
Actually this is a tricky question, because they might have to confront their parents on this whether they want to or not.
I don't have a good answer on this one.
Anyone else?
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