Encouragement to keep going

J8o8h8n:
I feel like a part of what has me going back and forth with gaining is the lack of encouragement. I feel like I'll have good stuffing days, but when I don't see rapid results and I'm not getting encouragement to keep going, I end up backing off on gaining before I can really go all in.


Skill issue.

This is a self created problem. You're so focused on the gains that you are not having fun. I've read many of your posts. You put your body through hell, but you aren't a masochist. No wonder you're struggling.
5 months

Name change

Misterioso:
That's a shame. I really wanted to change my crappy username after I started using this app again


Yeah, they got rid of it earlier this months.

And this is why you gotta take making a username seriously. Treat it like a joke, and there may be consequences.
5 months

Love the look of being bigger and the feel of the fat, but not the feeling of being overweight?

Squash42:
Im dealing with very similar emotions. I gained a bit (mostly on accident), liked it sexually, but it was uncomfortable in every other context, so I am losing it again.

For me, I am not sure how much of the discomfort is genuine and how much is some manifestation of internalized fatphobia. Some of its about physical discomfort and some of its more of a mental thing. I even dislike how it looks aesthetically except for when Im aroused.

I would love if I could be fat when Im horny and then have it dissapear otherwise.


Maybe you should look into padding.
5 months

Taking a time out for my health

BigBallBellyGirl:
Friends--

I hope no one takes this as me mistaking this forum for the airport, where departures are announced publicly. I also hope no one feels this is my attempt to chastise, dissuade, or judge anyone else. Couldn't be further from opposite.

I was taken to the hospital this morning with chest pain and inability to breathe. I'm having surgery at some point either tonight or in the morning to remove some blockages. I also have liver dysfunction. I'm not a drinker; in my case, it's related to excess fat consumption..

I have zero regrets about my gaining journey, and I'm actually very happy with my physical appearance. However, I'm not 30 yet, and I'm getting married this year. I'm going to have to reassess because I actually want to see my wedding and make it beyond that to see what the rest of my life holds. I really hope that includes a way to continue to indulge this fetish in a mindful manner. And likely, as I have been for well over a decade, I will still be lurking. 😊💜

I'm genuinely only posting because I've talked with so many people here, and I've enjoyed our exchanges and time together, but I don't even know your first names! I wanted you to know I think you all are beautiful people, and I wish you the most enjoyment life has to offer. I'm not closing my account, but I'll probably be semi-silent for a while.

Hugs, positive energy, and warm wishes to each and everyone of you!


Hey hun, feel better soon.

If you want to talk or just need some advise, you can hit me up. I'd like to think of myself as an expert on your specific situation. My DMs are always open.
5 months

Good friend’s ex

Lovessbbws:
I'm in that situation my friends wife has gained 300 lbs and they are getting a divorce, her and I have always been pretty good friends and told me she would like to date and that she knows I am attracted to her and she finally realized she she loves me and would like us to be together

RenaissanceGuy:
Unlike the original poster's question, this is a much more straightforward answer in my opinion. This is a situation to walk away from.


I agree. Nothing good will come from this.
5 months

Dating question

Puppichub:
When looking to date. Is there a way to signal that you're into feedism, so others would know but without blatantly stating it. (Its so stigmatized)


You can try out the vibe and see if this person likes what you like. But outside of that, you'll need to be upfront. There's a way to do that if you are interested. However, none have been widely accepted for all the secret signals proposed over the years.
5 months

Fat fantasies

WeirdoOnArt:
I have had this fantasy already ever since I was a little kid. I would always put stuffed animals under my female friend's clothes and I feel like the awakening of this fantasy really wasn't present until I turned 11. Sometimes, however, I do feel guilty for wanting to have a fat girlfriend because of health concerns and that at some point I would be responsible for the risks. However, I really hope someday I'll find my marshmallow girl and that we'll be like a marshmallow on a stick couple (me being the stick and her being the marshmallow lol)


Stuffing toys under your female friend's clothes?

Batman couldn't have gotten that outta me.
5 months

Biggest gains around here

Flying_pig:
I have always found it funny that people are unable to read and imagine things between the lines. They tend to have fertile imagination.
Unless you can point out where I suggested numbers…otherwise the above statement defines you perfectly


Someone had a big bowl of grumpy flakes this morning.

No one is talking about numbers, silly goose. And for someone who claims others do not have good reading comprehension, yours is substandard.

Lemme elicidate for your edification, darling.

Yesterday, someone responded to your post with a list of models. Now, this person has since deleted their response to you, but one of the models mentioned is Layla.

You said that though her gains are impressive, she is not an SSBBW. She is a BBW.

Ditzy and I then remarked how arbitrary the line between BBW and SSBBW is. Sure, some people are clearly one or the other. However, some people do not fit neatly into that category. One person might think Layla is a BBW while the other might think she's an SSBBW.

The line between SSBBW and BBW is something the community discusses from time to time. There's no general consensus as to when you become an SSBBW. Some talk about BMI and body composition while others talk numbers.

And even then no one agrees. I've seen people say that being 300 lbs makes you an SSBBW while others claim 400. Some think you become an SSBBW when the plus sized section at the mall is too small, and others claim it's when your hips brush against the door.

And on, and on it goes.

I understand this is your first post, but you've had this profile for 3 years. That means you've been on FF longer than I have. How do you not know that?
5 months

Wanting to meet people and encourage them to eat more

Thecinephile:
Just got an account here and am quickly finding that many look for feeders that will act as sugar daddies into their cravings. As much as I would like to help financially I’m not in the best spot to do so. Really just looking to find people who want encouragement in their weight gain journey that I can support while pushing them to eat more. If that interests you please feel free to add!


Imma level with you chief. No one worth your time is going to mess with a 1-day old account. New accounts are extremely fickle. It's not uncommon for someone to have an account and then delete it before the day is over.

In the meantime, encourage people publicaly and be active in the community. This way people can sus out your vibe and see if you're worth their time.
5 months

Does anyone use the word "obese" to describe themselves or their partner ?

Ditzy:
Munchies you are a trip !!.
I call my BF my BHM but he gets embarrassed when I do that.
He calls me wide load sometimes and I am used to it.
Never describe him to others as obese just a big guy.


I'm a trip and a half, but I'm a fun trip.
5 months