complaining about how fat they’re getting without doing anything about it
Words have never been spoken truer. Who needs Dieting and strict exercise when there’s jelly donut bun cheeseburgers
1 year
Most people don’t associate food and fat/gaining weight with sexuality, that is our thing as feedists, it’s the thing that makes us feedists. That awkwardness you are feeling is you in your relation to food/fat/gaining, most people think oh they’re just hungry or whatever
1 year
Kunto:
Great result! Too bad you didn't reach 10.000 calories only that evening! Ever tried to do 20.000 in a day?
can’t say I have for sure but I don’t really count calories I just eat until I’m stuffed most of the time
1 year
I experience being big in public every time I go in public.
I’m not as quick as I used to be so if I cross in front of a car I’m sure they roll their eyes as I do the quick arm movements like I’m running, or if I’m ordering food and it’s not justa meal I’m sure their laughing at me
1 year
Munchies:Gonna push back on there being fewer women who like fat guys.
www.fatherly.com/health/romantic-advantages-for-fat-guyswww.fatherly.com/health/romantic-advantages-for-fat-guyswww.fatherly.com/health/romantic-advantages-for-fat-guysAnd this is just the mainstream side of things.
As for the kinky side of things, your average female feeder/FA isn't going to be out in the open like I am. Either she'll lurk online or she'll take it irl. Of course, irl can be very tricky. Can't tell you how many times I've crossed paths with a fat cutie only to be friend-zoned because they refuse to believe a conventionally attractive woman would ever be interested in them.
It's rather sad.
I will agree that it is vital to the community to have more diversity. It's gotten better in some regards, but more work needs to be done.
Morbidly A Beast:I mean strictly in the context of men viewing and engaging in content of this nature online compared to their female counterparts. Granted there is just less content of that nature online just in general.
And it’s understandable why women are less vocal in these spaces cuz creeps and weirdos.
Munchies:Ah. That makes more sense. Yes, I will agree with you on that.
Besides, women generally gravitate to erotica over any other sexual outlet. And if you want decent erotica, most women will go to places like DA or AO3 before we go to FF. Why? Because the bulk of the stories on FF are centered on the male gaze. DA and AO3 have more variety - with 70 - 80% of the writers on AO3 being female.
What is AO3?
Is it the intimacy and being able to put yourselves into the scene that drive you towards eroticism?
1 year
I mean strictly in the context of men viewing and engaging in content of this nature online compared to their female counterparts. Granted there is just less content of that nature online just in general.
And it’s understandable why women are less vocal in these spaces cuz creeps and weirdos.
1 year
Male sexuality drives markets, so imo its supply and demand that drives the discrepancy between female fa/feeder. There’s simply less women who like fat guys then there are men who are fa/feeders.
Where it doesn’t make sense is in our own spaces. Like it should be a given that there are feedees and feeders of all types.
1 year
I was up at the lake over the weekend and we all decided to go out on the pontoon boat ride and I knew from the offset that I was going to be to heavy to go with the party of all relatively smaller people but against my better judgment and on the insistence that I go with them when I got on we could not balance the boat on either side so we could all sit comfortably I tried myself on one side and it still wouldn’t balance. There was also really low water cause of drought and damming so we were beached on a sand bar so I got off the boat and pushed them off. I ended up just going home but on the way got myself Dairy Queen and later along my drive got some Culver’s you might get too fat to ride boats but youll never be too fat for ice cream
1 year
Even if I had a body like before by magic I would probably end up fat like I am now I’m greedy and love to eat
1 year
Munchies:
So true bestie.
When you gain weight, not all of it will be fat/ A good chunk of it will also be food weight, water weight, and poop. It's basically weight that doesn't belong to you. Speaking from personal experience, it will drive you insane to see the way the scale goes up and day over the course of a day
Lynne841:
Another point to this, sometimes even when you are not gaining weight or at least the scale says you've been same... Numbers can be deceptive.
My weight was stuck around 270 for long time but a few months into plateau I noticed my belly changing shape and seemingly growing, wider, dropped a little lower and some pants got tight. Scale didn't change for over 6-8 months but even my arms and thighs showed some newfound pudge. And belly most definitely got more doughy soft feel, even before I temporarily lost a little weight.
Delayed gain?
Also had a friend I've known over half our lives 'inspect' my belly while wearing an outfit I've had a few years. She confirmed I looked bigger and it sagged more despite being down around 10 pounds from my highest weight[/quote]
You’re not wrong I’ve definitely experienced this where you feel and look huge but you’re weight hasn’t changed at all. I think it’s generally a thing for bigger people who have already been fat
1 year
