It's VERY true. Those who survive gain back just like they lost weight from a diet. But unfortunately, I have known so many people who have died from the surgery. Some on the operating table, some years later. And some people have had the surgery thinking that they would either get thin or die. But some people just have the side effects, some bad enough to be totally disabled. If a loved one of mine made the decision, I would be more concerned about the side effects and possible death more than the possibility of losing weight.

You also have to take the doctor's word with a grain of salt. I've known people who are in their 60's and 70's now whose doctor told them they would be dead by 30. If you have a specific situation, work to fix it. Things like HBP, etc.

It kills me to see such beautiful women hate themselves and try to lose weight. I also hate to hear all the negative things, etc. So, I would never watch any kind of diet show.

Fat stores and produces estrogen. Many men's moobs aren't only fat, but are true female breasts. (If they are sensitive like a woman's, they are probably breasts) That is also why fat girls tend to develop earlier. But like females, there is no guarantee that getting fat will produce big moobs. I know one woman who gained to over 400 and is still an A cup.

As I have said before, it is very rare to find someone in a normal situation who is willing to gain. If you really need to be with a feedee, then you should search for a feedee.

Yes, I was asking you. I really admire you for being able to come to terms with it, and act on it. I really hope you find someone who can make you happy, and totally understand your desires.

Just curious. You have been a feedee for 10 years, and you are probably only 80 pounds over what is considered "normal?" Are you still waiting to find someone? Don't gain weight easily? Doing it more as a fantasy? Something else?

Everyone is different. I am not into pregnancy.

To me, there is nothing sexier than a fat woman who wears maternity clothes.