Have more Fat admiration, touching and Foreplay!

What about weight gain talk and roleplaying how fat you will become...if your partner is into it......if not you tease him with your body which should be hot for you both.....then positioning won't be as big of a concern.

I can understand a bit and I think others definitely have similar feelings that go back and forth.

Your other post hours before this one that was "addicted to being Fat" or something similar to that title. I think there are percentages within you that love Fat, Fat talk and admiration of your fat and others...actually everything about it....and then all of a sudden you snap a bit out of the erotic moment and realize like in this post where you might be slightly embarrassed by something you are wearing or showing to much of the hot sexiness that actually turns you on so much at other times and think of trying to hide it in front of others etc.

I am sure others will chime in that this can be pretty common.

When I was intentionally gaining myself I had times where all I wanted was to get my belly bigger and bigger and gain more weight by stuffing and eating and then not just moments later I felt a bit insecure going into see an acquaintance from work after lunch that has not seen me in a while with my dress shirt barely being able to contain my huge new gut and waiting from a comment from him like...."wow, look's like you don't work out anymore....and you have taken up competitive donut eating" or something with a slashing fat comment. I tended to enjoy fattening myself but I certainly was more withdrawn in my own world and wanted to get Fatter and just show it to the ones around me. I also felt a bit weird around letting my big new gut hand out in front of my kids at the pool or stuff like that but was very eager to show it off in front of my wife to get a comment. I think it has a bit to do with the erotic nature of getting fatter and gaining.

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Lol...is there any forum topic that you/your wife/you and your wife hasnt got experience of?



Yea....I know I always relate it back to my wife and myself because that way it fills the void of this fetish that I don't get to talk about at home much.

Sorry to hear you have been ill.

With my wife........she has lost and gained many times.

Usually it is 10-20 Lbs. lost and re gained but a couple times it has been 30-40 Lbs.

Each time initially when she gains it back ...if it is faster she will tend to really bulge up in her belly which is very sexy but as times have gone on with re gaining it seems she really needs to stuff and pig out to get the really big lower and upper belly bulge. She has softened and become wider in her hips, belly and Love handles....and has certainly accumulated more Fat to muscle ratio....which is sexy to me also.

She started as pear/hourglass shape with really big breasts for her 5' 3" height and when she gains a lot turns more perish with big heavier thighs wide hips and butt, bigger lower belly and bigger upper arms. Over the years losing a bit and gaining and now her belly has softened and widened I think if she was to put on a lot of weight she will be turning more perish/apple type figure.....with her waist and belly really being quite prominent....her waist and hips are quite wide and round now. She kind of has that soft/ heavier pregnant look. She tends to wear long form fitted dresses with cardigans when it is cold to camouflage her wide and roundish/fatter belly which look's very sexy but doesn't really camouflage. When she wears her designer jeans which she tries her best not to go up over her 29's and really stretch them out she still look's as if they were painted on her and she wears maternity looking tops now to mask her huge muffin top....but her beautiful sun kissed tan huge upper arms with just a hint of cellulite are on full display.

So, yes I think weight gained and re gained definitely changes shapes a bit over time but I love all the little changes and always hope for more gaining all the time....because it always seems to keep looking better to me.

Back when I unintentionally started gaining and then when I actually was intentionally gaining right after..... I found this as a pattern.

1. noticed that I had gained weight all of a sudden....probably 2 weeks of eating more calories.

2. Intentionally now I began stuffing and had a bit of a problem eating a lot but was certainly eating easier and more than a month or so ago.

3. Through stuffing I did feel kind of full and sick initially but my motivation was seeing how big and bloated my belly was getting so I forced myself

4. Stuffing became easier and all of a sudden my appetite was really big

5. Fast food (huge amounts) Huge meals from my wife were never enough. I never had a sweet tooth in the past but now I needed deserts and fattening candies and snacks all day long....I actually craved them.

6. When I got to full from eating and felt sick with the huge amounts of food I could eat now.....I realized I could still slurp down (2-3) 20 Oz. fattening milkshakes and not even feel sick. It blew my Gut to an enormous size after these stuffings.

7. After I began feeling totally full from stuffing and eating I began to follow it with 3-4 glasses of milk in the evening before I went to bed. It gave me a lot of fast calories but more than that....it inflated my huge Gut to make me look like I was more than 9 months pregnant. Trying to move around with my Full huge Gut getting in the way of everything was a pretty big turn on. This is when my weight and gut took on a whole new territory.

Lastly when I tried to slow down my eating because I didn't want to gain anymore....It was almost impossible to control my Now huge appetite. i felt so vulnerable and out of control and hungry all the time....I found myself cheating after a smaller lunch and having to go and eat a full box of cookies, candies etc. and I couldn't stop eating. I would tell myself for several weeks while this was going on ....."I will try and slow down my appetite next week." The weeks kept passing by and all I did was consume huge amounts of food and deserts and snacks even though I wasn't even trying to.

After stuffing and then introducing Milk shakes and then Milk after being stuffed really changed my capacity and appetite. I would say after 2 weeks of stuffing a lot my appetite was huge and I didn't really feel sick anymore....other than when my stuffing was completely obnoxious thats when I started implementing the milk shakes and milk. I honestly believe if I wanted to keep gaining during this time I probably could have gained 70-80 Lbs. in less than a year when I conditioned myself to become a glutton.

Yeah for sure.....many changes over time with this fetish.

I am into all my wives body parts fattening up...Thighs, Love handles, BELLY, butt, breasts......but when her upper arms start to really puff up and over inflate it really sends me into some kinda serious arousal. I guess that's because that is one of the last places her new gains shows up....but all of a sudden her upper arms inflate like overnight and they strain any outfits with sleeves that try to cover them. It's almost one day her clothes fit and the next it is totally obvious because her plump inflated arms can't even fit into her clothing....so damn sexy.

I am happy for you....and your belly does look great and pregnant!

It is just a womanly thing to have a big belly being pregnant or not....in my eyes.

Have you found that as you get older you prefer more weight on the women you like?

Also, do you find yourself having more kinks related along this fetish?

I find myself getting pretty into watching my wives appetite increase because I know the Lbs. will start piling on soon after. I guess some of these new kinks are because my weight gain talk and weight gain always increasing on my wife doesn't always happen....so as a void i find other little things I guess.

Crazy thing is it is usually the initial shock or change that have people commenting. Once they get used to the bigger "You" they don't really notice or comment much.

Up until 22 I was very lean and the slim muscular type. In one year after graduating college when I was 23 I started a desk Job and wasn't playing sports all the time and moved in with my serious girlfriend who happened to be a great cook and quite chunky herself. All of a sudden without me realizing at all I started getting comments from buds I had not seen since High School who said "wow, you got big, what are you on steroids" and then from work acquantainces that didn't know me thinner referred to me as the heavy set guy. I even had a few girls i knew from High school say shockingly "you really changed". Long story short I finally started getting the comments and when I hopped on the scale I realized I had gained 75 Lbs. since I last weighed over a year ago. My lean muscles turned more bulky but I developed a big belly and went from a 32" waist to a 38". I looked like a line backer with a big Gut rather than a quarterback now. My girlfriend had been buying me new pants and clothes all the time being that she was a shopoholic.

Even though my girlfriend and I both continued to get bigger intentionally now....as well as not being able to resist her caloric cooking for the next 2 years I wore the tag and not to many people really discussed my bigger size anymore but I was merely considered the heavy or big guy.

So, if it is any consolation it is the initial shock and then it really settles down after that.
The last time I gained 40 Lbs. I didn't get many comments even though I am sure people could tell. My wife only commented a couple times when she was slightly intoxicated....almost in a playful way as if she liked all the extra weight on my Gut.

Yep....during one of these intense times several years ago is when I decided to intentionally start gaining.

obviously because of that the intense feeling lasted even longer....lets say 5-6 months.

I can only imagine how intense and fun this fetish would be with someone actually the same as we are into this Fetish. I have often said if my wife was into mutual gaining I think we would both be huge!