Actually Jesus himself was a glutton, or at least accused of being one.
Matthew 11:19
The Son of man came eating and drinking, and they say, Behold a man gluttonous, and a winebibber, a friend of publicans and sinners. But wisdom is justified of her children.
Luke 7:34
The Son of man is come eating and drinking; and ye say, Behold a gluttonous man, and a winebibber, a friend of publicans and sinners!
10 years
artur wrote:
well talking about my fetishe makes me feel less guilty about wanting to gain and not to gain
Many religious authorities think you should feel guilty about your desires. (E.g., one of the ten commandments is "Thou should not covet thy neighbor's wife." )
Personally I don't agree. You don't have much if any control over your desires.
However, you do have control over your ACTIONS. If you, say, steal money from widows and orphans, you SHOULD feel guilty.
But wanting to get fat? If there is a God, and he made you, it's his fault you want to get fat. If anyone should feel guilty it's God.
And if you don't believe in God, there's even less reason to feel guilty about your desires.
Desire all you want.
Actions, again, are another matter. If you do decide to get fat, and get so fat that you can't take care of yourself and become a burden to others, that would be an action. It would reasonable to feel guilty about that.
10 years
Dan007 wrote:This is a loaded question.
The way you have worded the question only leads towards one of three things; You read it properly and give a yes or no answer, or your question has been predisposed to being one of the three things you would like it to say
Feel free to suggest additional categories if these are insufficient.
10 years
1. All these problems are possible, but the most common complaint seems to be having to find and buy new clothes all the time.
2. The people who can't stop gaining seem to be those who stuff to the point they can't take a deep breath once a week or more.
4. One word: suspenders.
7. Swimming is great.
8. Checkups are good.
10. I'd take it slow, sorry.
12. See my answer to #10.
10 years
loopytheone wrote:
I have only ever been nagged by my family, my friends wouldn't dream of it because they know I wouldn't stand for it and would just walk away and not come back if they tried to tell me what to do with my body. But here are my answers.
1. How much did you weigh when you started gaining?
Kinda difficult this one. Growing up I was a chubby kid, I managed to starve myself almost anorexic-ly thin by the time I was 12 and then slowly gained weight until I was up to 155 lbs (I am 5'2). When I was 21 I starved myself down to about 110 lbs then in these last three years I have gone up to around 185 lbs. I guess I would consider the last three years or so as my 'gaining experience' as that is when the fastest growth happened.
2. How much did you weigh when people began to nag or criticize your weight or eating habits?
I was always nagged and harassed even as a little kid. But as for being told that I had put on weight and was unhealthy and 'should care' and do something about etc etc I was about 160 lbs.
3. How much did you weigh when the nagging/criticism diminished?
The nagging has basically stopped now but that is because I actually sat my family down and explained in very simple terms that even they can understand that harassing and nagging somebody who has recovered from an eating disorder is not a great idea. It comes off more like 'hey, remember that time when you were so self-hating and miserable and nearly starved yourself to death? Why don't you be more like that again?'. They finally got it so they leave me alone now.
4. How much did you weigh when the nagging/criticism ceased?
-
5. How much do you weigh now?
Around 185 lbs.
Great answers! Thanks.
10 years
mrman1980uk wrote:
The concept of a person being "in the closet" about her or his sexual preferences is a rather odd one, since t is very rare for anyone to discuss these things in public. What exactly would a non-closeted feedee do that a closeted one would not - wear a t-short with "I am a feedee" written on it?
Yeah, that was my initial point. I think mostly there's no difference between in and out of the closet. Exceptions:
1. If you're out, you make no attempt to hide your eating habits or your gain.
2. If you're out, and someone asks you about feedism or whether you're intentionally gaining, you admit it.
3. If you're in, you may lie about these things. Maybe you'll promise to diet even though you have no intention of doing so.
10 years
Of course, it's pretty hard to be 100% in the closet. Even if you overeat in secret, which is not always easy, you can't keep your expanding body in the closet!
Naturally, you don't have to tell people why you're gaining. But they might be suspicious. Especially when you are unapologetic about your gain and express zero interest in dieting!
10 years
Yes. I mean it's pretty awkward to be 100% open about it. What is she going to do, say "I find eating and gaining to be extraordinarily erotic" to every person she passes?
10 years
Some people have told me that family and friends nagged them about their weight and eating habits when they first gained; but after they reached a certain size, others accepted that they were fat and unlikely to change, and quit nagging.
Has this happened to you? Or not? Please answer any of the following questions that apply to you:
1. How much did you weigh when you started gaining?
2. How much did you weigh when people began to nag or criticize your weight or eating habits?
3. How much did you weigh when the nagging/criticism diminished?
4. How much did you weigh when the nagging/criticism ceased?
5. How much do you weigh now?
Obviously, these questions will oversimply some situations--feel free to add details.
10 years
vpvpvp44 wrote:
So i'm getting fatter and i'm loving it and how it feels, how do I get used to myself looking way different
Go to lots of social events. In this age of facebook and instagram etc. you will end up seeing lots of pics of your new, fatter self and will get used to it much more quickly than otherwise.
10 years
