I usually advise people to hold off on gaining (or feeding someone else) until they're not dependent on their parents. If the parents disapprove, it can be stressful on everyone involved. Why do it if you can't even enjoy it?

Of course many people haven't heard this advice and many don't follow it even if they have.

Many feedees have gained while living with their parents. The parents usually express concern or active disapproval, but often it's not enough to matter to the feedee in question.

I haven't chatted with anyone who actually sought their parents' approval or support, but I believe there were one or two mentioned on thegaininglife.tumblr.com/. Sorry I can't remember the particular cases. fatfanplus would know.

If I was a parent myself in this scenario (where the kid sought my approval) I'd try to get my kid to wait until he or she was at least 18. If the kid refused I wouldn't be encouraging but would be tolerant, especially if they kept up on schoolwork and whatever else they needed to do in this very critical phase of life.

If the kid was VERY young, under 13 say, I'd actively discourage any gaining.

But in none of these scenarios would I be a hypocrite and guilt trip them for having the fetish in the first place.

There's nothing wrong with having the fetish, but there are wrong ways of expressing the fetish.

Have you tried arranging a meet-up with several local ff members?

Just read about a woman who claimed to have stuffed her way from 129 to 138 lbs in a day! Almost 7%!

Of course, it's just a temporary gain, but it's an interesting stuffing metric.

Has anyone else tried this? What's your biggest increase from morning till night?

Please do!



Why not nominate one of each?

My nomination:

fantasyfeeder.com/cms/infusions/galleries/view.php

I agree it could be coercive. Thanks for pointing that out.

However I don't think it's necessarily coercive. She can still say "no". If the guy lays guilt trips on her for not reciprocating then he's a jerk. But if he's that big a jerk it will come out sooner or later regardless of what advice I give.

I was mainly trying to figure out how to create an atmosphere where he'd feel comfortable talking about it.

Incidentally, I have given this advice before and in one case it worked out fine.

Ask her about her sexual fantasies. You may have to prod her a little to get her to tell you.

After she tells you, do your utmost to help her realize or at least act out those fantasies.

Eventually the conversation will come around to a discussion of YOUR fantasies.

Tell her.