Hey, folks,

I'm thrilled to see all the responses, but it seems like maybe my original questions needs clarifying.

I know there are lots of people who AREN'T into supersized folks. I was wondering who IS. Thought it might be nice for people to take a little pride in a less usual preference, in a safe setting.

Hi, all,

I'm wondering how many of us are:

a. attracted to supersized partners, or

b. ONLY to supersized partners.

I'll start. I'm actually quite capable of enjoying men's bodies in all shapes and sizes, and I have happily been with many shapes of partner. (And, to be blunt, because of some of my physical issues, I can do things with smaller guys I can't with fat ones.)

But the idea of a super-sized guy is extremely erotic to me, and the few women I'm attracted to are all super-sized.

Anyone else?

I've been chatting about this with a few people, and I have a question. Are most people here more turned on by gaining than by fat?

It partly comes from the fact that it was pointed out that most of the people who get lots of attention aren't very fat--though that's not always the case. Someone else pointed out that it may be that size doesn't matter, just gaining.

I definitely do NOT want this to get unpleasant, or to dig anything up, so keep the hostility to yourselves, please. I'm interested in a serious conversation about this topic, because I'm confused.

Thanks!

Power--both the giving and the use of it--is erotic. It isn't the only way to be erotic, but it's at the centre of SO many different fantasies, as pearlescent says above...