Does anyone enjoy being unhealthy or unfit ?

Phattyfawn:
I feel the essence of gaining weight is to be unfit and unhealthy, but that’s just me


Eh, gaining weight isn't necessarily equal to being unfit and unhealthy. There are tons of fat people that are in really good shape.

Hell, one of the heaviest active sumo wrestlers in the world, Yamamotoyama Ryūta, weighs over 600 lbs.
5 months

Sex while stuffed?

Stuffytummywriter:
yeah i think it's one of those things that sounds much better in theory... or when you're still just on the right side of pleasantly full versus packed to the brim. i tend to feel way too heavy and sleepy and lazy when i've overeaten. movement, or pressure, makes me (even more) uncomfortable at best, sick at worst.

Built4com4t:
Nailed it. Fortunately for many of us erotic and sensual storytelling avoids the very uncomfortable reality and can be an acceptable substitute if well written as are yours. ;-)


Most feedists are not masochists. So the pain that comes from sex while stuffed isn't pleasant.

As for the masochists, unless you are also into emetophilia (vomit fetish), you gotta be really, really careful.
5 months

"soft girl"

AskDrFeeder:
Been reading about the "soft girl" trend. I know it's not "soft" in the sense that fat bodies are soft, but I wonder if there's any overlap between soft girls and feedees. Anyone?

Munchies:
For those not in the know, the "soft girl" trend is a Gen Z lifestyle/aesthetic that is a response to and rejection of the girl boss lifestyle/aesthetic.

While the girl boss is all about being cool, dominant, and self-sufficient, the soft girl is cute, preppy, and pampered. The idea behind being a soft girl is that life sucks, so it's best to find someone to take care of you instead.

To answer the OP's question, I will say that some feedees certainly ascribe to the soft life, either in whole or in part. But that has less to do with being a feedee and more to do with traditional gender roles.

Stevia:
I think I would kinda consider myself as so. But I am pretty much fine on my own terms. 😅

Munchies:
Sounds more like you like being pampered.

The soft girl believes in "the divine feminine". Which is essentially embodying all of the stereotypical "feminine" traits. They look for "provider men" who will take care of all their needs and give them a pampered life. In exchange, the soft girl will look beautiful for him and love him.

Some also agree to take care of the kids while others would rather hire a nanny.

The idealized lifestyle for a soft girl would be that of a wealthy man's spoiled housewife.

Stevia:
Oh sorry about that. Forget that I said anything.


Girl, you ain't got nothing to apologize for.

I only know about this because I spend a lot of time in intersectional feminist spaces and deal with these people all the damn time.

I'm not going to say they are all mean POS, because they are not. Some of them are lovely. However, while I can understand where they are coming from, I can't condone it. It's a bad deal for everyone involved.

The aesthetic is cute tho. Love that for them.
5 months

What gets your heart racing?

What gets my heart racing is a good horror game, an intense workout, and my partner's naked body.
5 months

"soft girl"

AskDrFeeder:
Been reading about the "soft girl" trend. I know it's not "soft" in the sense that fat bodies are soft, but I wonder if there's any overlap between soft girls and feedees. Anyone?

Munchies:
For those not in the know, the "soft girl" trend is a Gen Z lifestyle/aesthetic that is a response to and rejection of the girl boss lifestyle/aesthetic.

While the girl boss is all about being cool, dominant, and self-sufficient, the soft girl is cute, preppy, and pampered. The idea behind being a soft girl is that life sucks, so it's best to find someone to take care of you instead.

To answer the OP's question, I will say that some feedees certainly ascribe to the soft life, either in whole or in part. But that has less to do with being a feedee and more to do with traditional gender roles.

Stevia:
I think I would kinda consider myself as so. But I am pretty much fine on my own terms. 😅


Sounds more like you like being pampered.

The soft girl believes in "the divine feminine". Which is essentially embodying all of the stereotypical "feminine" traits. They look for "provider men" who will take care of all their needs and give them a pampered life. In exchange, the soft girl will look beautiful for him and love him.

Some also agree to take care of the kids while others would rather hire a nanny.

The idealized lifestyle for a soft girl would be that of a wealthy man's spoiled housewife.
5 months

Ability to create your own groups

BallooningBelly:
This makes it easier for people to chat with the same country or gain preferences. Easier to share photos with each etc.


I mean, something like this already exists to an extent. There are country specific chatroom in chat. Hardly anyone uses them. Just about everyone congregates in gen chat.
5 months

Any feedees actually want to have a real feedee / feeder connection

SirMurphy007:
It’s tough out here. All the women just seem to throw cash apps and paypal around… I have no problem feeding the big cuties everywhere.. I just want to see the some of where the money is going. Luckily I havent been scammed out of much. Y’all would get more from me if you just sent the stuffings to me. You’re going to do it anyways and Im willing to pay for it, I just want to see. Does that seem fair? Or am I wrong


I am so confused. Your profile says you are happily taken. Of course the only feedees that will give you the time of day are the ones that want something from you.

Does your gf know you have an account? Because this screams cheating.
5 months

"soft girl"

Munchies:
Yeah, no. That's not even close to what I'm doing.

JN_TumLover56:
Denial huh? That’s usually how it starts with most problems.


I already told you what I'm doing and why. I've told you before that if I was picking on you, it would be a lot more personal and mean. You can scroll through the forums and see what it's like when I am going after someone - usually Nazis, racists, and other flavors of bigots.

I'm not doing that to you. I've never done that to you. You haven't done anything that has warranted that response from me.
5 months