Phattyfawn:
I feel the essence of gaining weight is to be unfit and unhealthy, but that’s just me

Stuffytummywriter:
yeah i think it's one of those things that sounds much better in theory... or when you're still just on the right side of pleasantly full versus packed to the brim. i tend to feel way too heavy and sleepy and lazy when i've overeaten. movement, or pressure, makes me (even more) uncomfortable at best, sick at worst.

Built4com4t:
Nailed it. Fortunately for many of us erotic and sensual storytelling avoids the very uncomfortable reality and can be an acceptable substitute if well written as are yours. ;-)

AskDrFeeder:
Been reading about the "soft girl" trend. I know it's not "soft" in the sense that fat bodies are soft, but I wonder if there's any overlap between soft girls and feedees. Anyone?

Munchies:
For those not in the know, the "soft girl" trend is a Gen Z lifestyle/aesthetic that is a response to and rejection of the girl boss lifestyle/aesthetic.

While the girl boss is all about being cool, dominant, and self-sufficient, the soft girl is cute, preppy, and pampered. The idea behind being a soft girl is that life sucks, so it's best to find someone to take care of you instead.

To answer the OP's question, I will say that some feedees certainly ascribe to the soft life, either in whole or in part. But that has less to do with being a feedee and more to do with traditional gender roles.

Stevia:
I think I would kinda consider myself as so. But I am pretty much fine on my own terms. 😅

Munchies:
Sounds more like you like being pampered.

The soft girl believes in "the divine feminine". Which is essentially embodying all of the stereotypical "feminine" traits. They look for "provider men" who will take care of all their needs and give them a pampered life. In exchange, the soft girl will look beautiful for him and love him.

Some also agree to take care of the kids while others would rather hire a nanny.

The idealized lifestyle for a soft girl would be that of a wealthy man's spoiled housewife.

Stevia:
Oh sorry about that. Forget that I said anything.

AskDrFeeder:
Been reading about the "soft girl" trend. I know it's not "soft" in the sense that fat bodies are soft, but I wonder if there's any overlap between soft girls and feedees. Anyone?

Munchies:
For those not in the know, the "soft girl" trend is a Gen Z lifestyle/aesthetic that is a response to and rejection of the girl boss lifestyle/aesthetic.

While the girl boss is all about being cool, dominant, and self-sufficient, the soft girl is cute, preppy, and pampered. The idea behind being a soft girl is that life sucks, so it's best to find someone to take care of you instead.

To answer the OP's question, I will say that some feedees certainly ascribe to the soft life, either in whole or in part. But that has less to do with being a feedee and more to do with traditional gender roles.

Stevia:
I think I would kinda consider myself as so. But I am pretty much fine on my own terms. 😅

BallooningBelly:
This makes it easier for people to chat with the same country or gain preferences. Easier to share photos with each etc.

SirMurphy007:
It’s tough out here. All the women just seem to throw cash apps and paypal around… I have no problem feeding the big cuties everywhere.. I just want to see the some of where the money is going. Luckily I havent been scammed out of much. Y’all would get more from me if you just sent the stuffings to me. You’re going to do it anyways and Im willing to pay for it, I just want to see. Does that seem fair? Or am I wrong

Munchies:
Yeah, no. That's not even close to what I'm doing.

JN_TumLover56:
Denial huh? That’s usually how it starts with most problems.