LoraDayton:
Surprisingly they have kept their account up. so far.

Munchies:
Looks like you really hit the nail on the head about the coward thing.

He made a post promoting taking benzos for weight gain. After I replied to that post listing reasons why that's a bad idea, he deleted his whole account.

He'll probably be back later without learning a damned thing.

You hate to see it.

LoraDayton:
fucking scary as shit for him to be all "oh I've never shared this with anyone! my partner is thin poor me!" and then start talking about benzos. Bet that is something he's explored to do exactly what sick fucks like that do

LoraDayton:
Surprisingly they have kept their account up. so far.

Delta9:
For any fat people thinking of starting lifting to get stronger or going to the gym or exercising at all, I say go for it. Let this be your official encouragement. And if you're already strong and thinking of getting fat, do that too. You can still continue to exercise.
It's actually pretty hard to lose weight with just exercise alone if you continue to eat a lot.
But exercise has lots of benefits other than weight loss.
It doesn't hurt anything to build muscle under all that fat. You'll still look fat. But will be able to move it all around easier. You can build stamina and VO2 max as well without losing any weight. It's actually somewhat possible to be simultaneously overweight and in shape.
Personally, I like fat women. I also like strong women. Put them together and wow, even better. I was just reading someone saying how surprising it is that there isn't a larger intersection between feedism and gym culture. Honestly though, I think it's kind of there already. It just doesn't get talked about. Maybe I'm wrong?
Fat people tend to be naturally strong already anyway. I mean carrying around extra weigh all day is just built in exercise. The few plus size girls I do see in the gym can usually lift heavy.
Maybe there is a stigma against it. People assume you must be there to lose weight. But like I said, there are plenty of reasons to lift or exercise other than weight loss. Actually, I'd say strength training is probably even better for weight gain than loss.

Yougotfatletschat:
Hello! Is there anyway to see the content of a message that someone sent before they deleted their account?

SumoSized:
This might just be the part of Texas that I live in but there are local Mexican restaurants everywhere where you can get breakfast tacos cheap so it's a really easy way to pack on a couple thousand calories. Especially if you make it a plate. There's one within walking distance of my work and it's embarrassing that the employees are immediately able to recognize me

Blobbens:
My fiancee is very thin. What happened that your wife gained so nicely? Congrats

Blobbens:
Some sleeping pills like Benzodiazepines can have the side effect of increased appetite. I accidentally gained 15 kilos. And sometimes I can eat a weeks worth of food in a day just because I have that much appetite

Otherday99:
I've never worked on fast food chains before, but a friend does. She was a bit overweight, managed to lose some pounds, but soon after she got a job at a local McDonalds and she gained it all back and some more.

She says, is normal to see coworkers eating the food that was supposed to go into waste (food orders that never got claimed, or someone in the team getting the wrong order). Besides, they get free lunch and the company gifts them ice cream and pies for celebrations, or bc they accomplish a team goal. So even between the team, I guess there are some people taking advantage of these benefits to gain a bit.

Enas:
I dont know how much it will help, but you could try to find some passion, other than food, in order to occupy your mind with it. There are lots of things that might fascinate you! Anything science related. Of course it is a little weird to try to find a passion to serve as a distraction, without some other utilitarian context (like if someone is interested in.. Idk, physics, because they know it will be usefull for one project of theirs) but a good starting point, i think, would be Art and philosophy!