Ditzy:
Never really thought much about that.
This site has never been about that.
Dimensions and Curvage its always been a competition of sorts.

Technoman:
It's interesting to me what words someone uses to describe their size or their partner's size.
For a size with more adipose tissue, one can say fat, overweight, chubby, thick, plus size, etc.
Obese would he a unique choice to use, if accurate.
Does anyone use the word "obese" to describe themselves or their partner ?

Elis137:
Help lol

Voluptuouslover:
Stuffing regular everyday with foods you like and follow it by something sweet after every meal (you will be surprised, I never had a sweet tooth and I created one like this).

After 2 weeks stuffing at every meal and deserts it will get easier and you will see an increase in your appetite and capacity already. Continue stuffing and when you are full drink fattening milk shakes, followed be glasses of whole milk which will not only bloat you massively but stretch your stomach even more.

After about a month you will notice that your appetite is much bigger but you are continually bloated and full but you really don't have an OFF switch, if you are full and don't feel like eating still do, the moment you start eating you just keep going without really even thinking about it.

If you continue this after 2-3 months you will have not only gained quite a but of weight but you appetite will have increased 3-4 times what you used to it - but now you will need to eat a ton just to be satisfied.

Congratulations you have stretched your stomach and need so many more calories and food everyday just to stay slightly satisfied.

I gained 60 pounds in a matter of 7-8 months doing this and it was very difficult to slow down and eat have way normal and give up deserts after every meal.

[b]Munchies:
Hun, I think you'd benefit from therapy.

Jelly Rolls:
I do want to get therapy but what type of therapist would I go to in order to talk about something like this. I’m currently in therapy for other issues and have a good hold of my life in all other areas.

Jelly Rolls:
TLDR: I lost a good amount of weight in the last 6 months and am somewhat regretting it because I miss have more fat on my body and am having stronger feedee urges because of it. Yet I still feel that I need to make my body even smaller because of the shame I feel and believe I can make myself like being smaller.

So over the past 6 months I’ve been losing weight probably around 20-30 ish pounds now (leaning closer to the 30). It started off unintentionally as I went off my meds and then became purposeful and faster. I did it because I felt that weight loss would get rid of my nonbinary gender dysphoria (I’m afa. And the biggest reason would probably be that I felt that I had to conform to society and that my feedee kink was disgusting and made me inferior. I thought I’d feel better if I followed societies ideal and now I just feel like my body isn’t mine. I hate how smaller my boobs are now and miss my big chest that turned me on. My boobs are half the size they were and it’s makes me sad. I literally have a 38.5-27-38.5 inch figure now at 5’10 and my dysphoria is even worse since my shoulders shrunk from 43 inches to 38.5. I used to have a 44-29.5-42.5 inch figure and it’s all gone. My belly’s flat and doesn’t jiggle at all. My body just feels so foreign and unsexy to me. I told myself that I’d eat 1200 calories a day and do 300 calories of exercise for the next 2 months and then maintain my size to see if I’d like it more if I got used to it. Though the more I diet the more sexual weight gain thoughts and dreams I’m having. Is there a way to make myself like being in a smaller body more?

Bigwideland:
I guess this indicates my eagerness to grow.

But I found in recent big meals, I can down more as a shake, than food you have to masticate. So I am thinking to blend some foods into a thick paste, so you can swallow a big mouthful in one go, no crewing required.

I can see this could increase my intake before fullness kicks in , and will improve digestion rates, to ensue even more intake.

Do other do this?

BWL.

Munchies:
This is called pre-digestion. You make the foods easier to consume by needing to chew them less.

Personally, I do not want to have a club sandwich smoothie. Takes all the enjoyment out of eating, and some foods do not smoothie.

Like, you do you boo, but I'm gagging.

BigBallBellyGirl:
Munchies, you made me think of what my epic Thanksgiving feast would have been like blended. Definitely not knocking BWL's theory by any means (or for that matter, how anyone chooses to gain), but my brain also said, "I ate a 9x13 pan of stuffing and a 9x13 pan of Mac and cheese. What if they had been shakes?" 😱

Bigwideland:
I guess this indicates my eagerness to grow.

But I found in recent big meals, I can down more as a shake, than food you have to masticate. So I am thinking to blend some foods into a thick paste, so you can swallow a big mouthful in one go, no crewing required.

I can see this could increase my intake before fullness kicks in , and will improve digestion rates, to ensue even more intake.

Do other do this?

BWL.

SkinnyD:

I think that's more attractive personally, and I like the idea of surprising people who expect the fat person to be slow and clumsy.

Bigandbloated:
That's also another concern of mine, that people would catch on to the kink. Because if someone is very athletic but obese, they'd be wondering "then why is he still fat"? And you'd either have to lie, or say it's because you actually enjoy being fat, in which case they might conclude "oh so it's a weird fetish thing huh"? I'm probably overthinking it too much though...

Bigwideland:
Hi

I have noted that are area of skin under big belly aprons that is always in contact this other skin and does nit get much light if air, can be discoloured. I use moisturiser and anti bacterial soap, but was wondering what other maintenance is able good to have the skin look as normal as possible.

Elis137:
So I’ve been using pregnancy stretch mark lotion to try and prevent stretch marks. But idk if it’s going to work. Just really would love some tips or tricks to not get stretch marks