I doubt if she would ever understand or appreciate your fetish, and after the newness wears off, you probably won't be happy if you can't keep gaining.

If you are not sure of the reaction, you can always kid around and see her reaction. Say something like, "If I order dessert, I'll gain ten more pounds (or 4 more kg)." See if she wants you to, doesn't want you to, or doesn't care either way.

Why not buy women's jeans that look like male? The fabric will be bigger in the butt in these jeans.

Why don't you write to her on YouTube? Then she has the option to answer or not. And as someone said, don't come off as super excited.

People are free to gain or lose, but I don't think you can have it both ways. Gainers come here because the admirers/feeders/encouragers are here to admire, feed, and encourage. That is their preference.

If someone joins a website for a particular religion, and they change their religion, they can't expect to get the same reception they once had.

You would think that the thin FA's would understand that they are a lot like the thin FFA's, and give them some "professional Courtesy."

I would also like to say that many of the thin FFA's here are really beautiful women. They may not be in the weight class that I prefer, but I still think they are beautiful, and that the BHM are lucky to have them on this site.

If you let a few bad apples discourage you, you are going to spend a miserable life. Keep looking for someone.

Can you find out where she is going, and follow her there to get a haircut? Or just be social and ask her out?