Can anyone relate?

Weight gain on my wife or in general is on my mind quite a bit. But it seems there are certain times where it kind of flares up to a more extreme in my life.

For example sometimes it is so strong that for several days and sometimes even weeks it is on my mind pretty intensely......like all the time.

Other times I definitely think about weight gain or am reminded by it on various occasions throughout the day but just not as intense. let's say I look over at my wife and I notice her clothes fitting snugger than usual....so of course my mind will race and get excited and I would visualize her gaining more etc. etc. But during the more intense times I am thinking about weight gain and Fat related stuff 24/7 in my mind.

I am not sure why....maybe someone who can relate can shed some light on this

I wanted to add something on this thread but I am not sure if these constitute for Fetishes?

Even though you said other than Fat....I still have to say it!

1. Weight Gain

All body parts individually that get effected by weight gain.
Belly, thighs, love handles, butt, breasts, upper arms etc etc. I really like to see a body part on my wife that stays relatively thin start to fatten up because she keeps gaining more and more weight and that body part finally inflates. One such body part is her fingers that stay relatively thin and when her fingers start to plump a bit she has really gained a good amount of weight.

2. Feminine movements and gestures by women get me every time.....to the point it is a fetish in my eyes.

3. The smell of Bath soap on my wife or other women for that matter. When my wife comes to bed after a shower all I have to do is smell her skin and get hugely aroused. Soap smell turns me on so much and I relate it to sex. This has to be some form of a fetish....huh?

The ultimate is for my wife to gain a lot of weight and tease me by discussing how Fat she is getting while she continues to stuff herself uncontrollably with fattening treats and complains that her appetite is out of control....while she decides to get her Fat body in the shower and femininely and seductively soap her fattened figure and showing me how fat she is getting while she dries off and tried to fit into some lingerie that doesn't fit anymore because she has gotten so Fat....she comes over and softly sits her heavy body on my lap crisis g her legs so femininely and whispers in my ear...."will you make love to you big Fat wife" while her skin has the most intoxicating smell of soap lingering off it.

I guess I understand your dilemma but not totally.

I have been pretty open since a fairly young age (high school) with my appreciation of heavier girls/women not the norm by societies standards. With that said in high school it was only slightly overweight to chunky ...the girls I dated or went out with. As I was older totally pretty but women most of my frinds deemed over weight/ slightly Fatter by their standards and most of them knew I liked my women "thick" as they called it. Little did they know that I would have loved to have my girlfriend at the time become a real big fatty of 200 or 250 Lbs. So even now my wife is skinny to me but most of my friends would consider her Fat. Being 5' 3" a very plump/curvy in my eyes 170 lbs. She wears her weight well but can look heavier in certain outfits.

So I don't know how big your wife is but I always question if my wife was say 250 lbs. Or bigger would I feel a bit insecure around my friends with regard to her new heavier weight (because they knew her at about 130 lbs.). I would like to think I would love her weight at that size so much I wouldn't even care what they
thought. But who knows for sure.

In your case no one knew you or your wife or you because you are new in that area. So I wouldn't be that bothered with it. I am not sure your age but I do know that as time goes on you kind of don't get bothered with this stuff and learn what really matters.....and I know loving my wife fatter is a huge turn on and big part of my life.

also thinking of your wife and her feelings I would never want to introduce her to your immature friends because it may hurt her feelings....I would say you should make new couples friends with your wife so that can be your new social friends.

I remember a time a while ago my wife and I were on vacation with another couple that we had known for 10+ years. It was a trip to Hawaii and my wife had our last child about a year earlier same with the other wife. Well my wife not only didn't lose much of her weight since giving birth but she actually gained quite a bit more. I loved how it looked on her and I was even excited for her to get even bigger. Before the trip for a month or so she was trying to eat less and diet to lose weight to be in her new much larger XXL string bikini (which by the way is pretty tiny even being an XXL) when she tried it on at home with me I nearly lost it ....she looked unbelievably hot and Fat and sexy. At that point to I dreamed of her getting even bigger because she looked so hot. I don't think she was able to lose much weight even though she tried. The craziest thing is when I saw her walking on the beach next to her friend both in their bikinis.....I was amazed at how huge my wife looked next to her.....she actually looked sooooo Fat to me, when all I can usually think about is her gaining more and getting fatter. It was almost as if I needed to see her next to her friend to realize my wife was now FAT. I felt sorry for her that she was so much fatter than her friend and how she must feel wearing a bikini next to her skinny friend who was probably 130 lbs. But several inches taller while she was probably 200 lbs. It put things I to a different perspective for a while....but as soon as I saw her busting out of her dress at dinner I again viewed her as skinnier and not as Fat.

It's a crazy thing to live with our Fat Fetish eyes....if you know what I mean. Even today my wife is thinner than that trip but I view her as slkinny in my eyes....while she complains she is Fat....only do I actually see her as Fat once in a blue moon.... But I am not sure line other people would view Fat still.

I guess during the times I intentionally gained......the initial Fatness was what felt good and spurred my intentional stuffing and gaining.

Next there was the feeling of being so big and bloated when I was stuffing which was the addictive part. I wanted to see if I could surpass each stuffing to make myself bigger all the time by eating more and more. Eventually I needed to eat so much food all the time which was pretty arousing but the ultimate was seeing the new weught and how big my Gut could get. The thing that was pretty cool was I didn't have to wait to see my wife gain....I could do it to myself for immediate satisfaction and arousal.

After my wife was done having all of our children we decided to have her tubes tied.

My wife was at her annual Doctors appt. with a Woman Doctor she has been going to for several years....although not the same Doctor that delivered our babies being that we moved.

As the Doctor came in to greet my wife and then look at her chart.....she asked if my wife would mind getting on the scale again even after the nurse already weighed her. My wife got on again as the Doctor operated the slide scale this time...and mentioned sometimes the nurses are a bit fast and I wanted double check. The Doctor then began to examine my wife in her gown and then asked her if she had been feeling sick in the mornings and my wife said "no, why?" The Doctor said "well, You have gained quite a bit of weight from last year but that wouldn't be the main thing....your lower belly is really big and protruding out as if you are many months pregnant...I would like to get a pregnancy test done." My wife then said "I had my Tubes tied after my last child several years ago".....the Doctor said "Ya know those aern't 100% effective I have had several patients get pregnant after those procedures before.....and by the look's of it I believe you are many months pregnant already....It's very easy to get this big after having babies already several times even if you are three months along and you might not have any real signs."

When I got home from work after dinner my wife tells me while sitting on the couch together that her Doctor gave her a pregnancy test today at her annual check up. I said "well?" She said, "the test was negative and I'm JUST FAT......and look PREGNANT!"

Whoops somehow the rest didn't show up....i will try and re type here.

"how could you like me all jiggly and wobbly like this instead of when I was working out and all toned" "That is just weird! That is just disgusting thinking that I look better all Fat and out of shape!"

I said "You look prettier and more relaxed to me!"
Not much was said after that other than I have always liked fuller figures on women and I don't look at softer Fat as being worse but I actually thinks it look's and feels better.

We have been married for many years now and her weight has fluctuated after having babies...at her highest she was just over 200 Lbs. She mostly is between 160-170 Lbs. and on occasion she over indulges for to long and gets a bit past 180 Lbs. My fetish for more weight has continually been on the rise as I have become older. I never really bring up weight related things directly other than her initiating them which usually doesn't happen that much other than a slight weight gain teasing after she has gained a little and is feeling in the mood (These times are very good though.)

Also....I believe some things are better left un spoken about with regard to the fetish even though it is tough but that's why I come to this board to talk with like minded people with this related fetish.....and also I tend to discuss my wife a lot because it really is the driving reality/fantasy connection for me in my life......such as dreaming of her gaining weight and gaining more and maybe one day being excited about it and actually liking it and the fetish rubs off on her.
Another thing that I have kept a secret with her is.....I don't ever think she could imagine me wanting or liking her being 250 Lbs. even though I have fanticized about her at
300 Lbs. +. I actually look at women on line that are 300+ that have a similar figure and height to hers and can almost visualize my wife being that big or bigger looking like that.
I would never dare say anything like that because I have not heard the old "That's disgusting remark for many years now".

Many things have changed over the years with my fetish also.....I have found things that really turn me on that didn't really used to....almost like foreplay in the fetish. Watching the changes in her appetite go up and watching her start to eat more junk food and treats...all leading to her potentially gaining weight. Also, with a lack of weight gain on her turning the role on myself and intentionally gaining a few times and being totally into it.....almost the biggest turn on which makes sense....was to have her comment and kind of tease me .....just to hear weight gain talk. Crazy thing is....I never really found out the answer....but when I gained a good 40 + lbs she never mentioned anything other than a few times when she was tipsy and it was in a fun teasing way as if she liked the "Fatter Me". I didn't know if she had some hidden desires only when she was tipsy.....that she liked and was turned on by a Fatter me.....I was extra horny when I was this Fat and constantly wanted to comment on me being so Fat....so I initiated Love making all the time she never ever seemed to turn me down and actually was really responsive towards the new Fat me even though she didn't make comment's during she would endearingly always place her hands softly on my new huge Gut during the sessions. After my Gut was Huge she even started feeding me huge portions and seconds during dinner.
which I tacked up for just feeding what the Big Piggy eats now. But when she started bring me a massive bowl of ice cream directly following dinner I scratched me head for a while and then tacked that up to her watching me eat so many sweets and treats lately seen I have gotten so Fat in which I never really ate any deserts before.
Then I thought that she liked me being so Fat because it made her feel thinner and even if she gained weight and more weight I would still be getting Fatter and Fatter......all of a sudden that thinking put me in a trance/fantasy of maybe she wants a Mutual gaining relationship. There were really to many variables for me to decide what was the real deal. It most likely was ....she doesn't like anyone pointing out her weight gain and she usually notices it on her own and after she gets somewhat control of her appetite she then goes on a workout and eating healthy kick to lose the weight....maybe she was just extending the same courtesy to me.....she figured she would allow me to Fatten myself and actually help by feeding me huge amount of food and desert to eventually get to the point where I couldn't even come close to bending over to tie my shoes because my huge Gut was in the way.....and then make a comment to me if I still didn't figure out on my own......don't you think you should slow it down so that you can actually tie your shoes again"

Ya know all of this in one way or another is exactly what we all experience. I mean the ideal would be to love the person and have them into the exact same fetish but it never really works that way or I should say most of the time.

I will try and be short with the story of my wife and my experience which touches on your post as well as many other's.

When I met my wife she was a Beautiful work out / Gym queen that was curvy with some chubby bits.....and a big sweet tooth. After dating for a while I fell in Love with her for many of her qualities. I told her early on she should slow down on her workouts and relax a bit...she was reluctant but she did and she quickly gained a bit of weight. She didn't seem to like the fact she gained even though I loved it and told her how beautiful she was. She said she used to be quite "Chunky" before she started working out so much. This excited me quite a bit to hear this. I would often watch her snacking while skipping workouts before we would go out to dinner ....and after a few months she gained even more weight. I was much younger at the time.... being this was many years ago....I probably showed to much appreciation for her new Lbs. and even went as far as to wanting to weigh her ...actually many times throughout her gaining. She would stand on the scale in front of me in her panties and Bra which were both extremely tight now with her belly bulging out and hanging over the waist band along with her big breasts flowing out the top of her bra and would shyly not want to see what the scale read. She began to not be very amused with her weight should I say.....even though she was more Beautiful than ever and any guy on this board would certainly agree with her newly added Lbs. and figure. Her modest gaining "in my eyes" got me wanting more. Her 5 ' 3" frame was now 158 Lbs. and she looked breathtaking. When we met she was around 120 Lbs. but just 2 years before that she mentioned to me she weighed just over 170 Lbs. I kept craving for her to gain back to 170 Lbs or even more. I never told her this but as she looked bummed most of the time with her fattened figure...even though she would be snacking on a whole bag of cookies or chocolates I would tell her how beautiful she was. Her it came for the first time..... she said "ho

Another one:

When my wife is trying to diet because she has noticed she has gained 20+ Lbs. I start to get bummed then all of a sudden I notice her sneaking snacks and eating out of control and watch her gain another quick 10 Lbs. and not fit into any of her clothing......this really sends me through the roof!

Another one:

When my wife is trying to diet because she has noticed she has gained 20+ Lbs. I start to get bummed then all of a sudden I notice her sneaking snacks and eating out of control and watch her gain another quick 10 Lbs. and not fit into any of her clothing......this really sends me through the roof!

Not exactly and expression but I am extremely turned on by:


Being oblivious to a big weight gain! When the woman has gained a good amount of weight and they seem kind of oblivious to the fact and still stuff themselves in clothing that doesn't fit and or stuff themselves with hugely fattening foods and deserts.

The vulnerability of a woman becoming Fat and out of shape hindering their movements, their stamina and overall control of their new huge appetite.