"Deciding to Get Fat" on my website may help.
10 years
From chatting with feedees in this situation, it seems that they either:
1. Eat what they want in front of their kids and say "no, the doughnuts are for Mommy" and make the kids eat healthy;
2. Hide their overeating;
3. Share the fattening goodies with the kids and let them eat all they want. They usually have very fat kids.
I personally disapprove of #3.
10 years
FatGirl wrote:
Please rank the following reasons as they apply to you (and add more if you can think of any):
1. You like fattening food.
4. You like to overeat.
3. You're tired of feeling guilty about your weight or appetite.
6. You hate dieting.
5. Your significant other wants you to gain.
2. You find it erotic.
Let me redo these to avoid confusion (the number is not the rank!)
1 6 3 2 5 4
10 years
Artur--
I think you've found a substitute for gaining: agonizing about how conflicted you are in a public forum.
Glad we could help!
10 years
...from eating a lot?
10 years
Freedom trapping you? That's the human condition in a nutshell, man. I couldn't have said it better myself!
10 years
You're not a bad person for wanting her to gain, but you may be a bad boyfriend if you keep going on and on about it.
10 years
I've had partners who lost weight. It was hard but I eventually adapted. I can't say it will be the same for you, but it might. Hang in there.
10 years
