It's everyone's responsibility to keep discussions civil on the internet, not just the moderators. If someone is being an asshole or bigot, it's not your job to police the discussion, confront them, or put them in their place. First, not everyone is a skilled communicator, misunderstandings can happen, so asking for clarification is a good idea. Beyond that, you should calmly state your disagreement in a non-accusatory manner, and if they're over the line, report them to the mods. It's this attitude exactly that I've seen time and time again will cause a discussion to escalate to the point where the thread needs to be locked in the first place. All of this is spelled out explicitly in the website rules.
Please be courteous and respectful at all times, showing tolerance towards our diverse membership and the broad range of fantasies and ideas they hold. Do not post anything that is rude or insulting and do not deliberately try to 'close down' discussion just because you disagree with it or find it offensive (please report it to a moderator instead).
Malvineous:
This rule still applies to you, even if you're well-intentioned, and even if somebody else breaks it first.
Nah letting bigots have free rein without consequence when they spew their nonsense is objectively worse than being direct and confrontational every time they spew their garbage. Maybe it’s not the job of people to confront abstract things but it’s definitely on the part of our community to keep hate and bigotry out of our spaces, if you let one they will think that behavior is okay others will join in, and that’s no place I or others want to be in.
1 year
Chunkyshark:
I’m a leader lmao >_> my house has 900 boxes of cookies in it right now, talk about self control!
I love a good old fashioned Trefoil, I’m not big on sweets and they’re so well balanced. Crisp and buttery and just the tiniest bit of salt at the end of the sugar 😍
Then dosidos, the peanut butter sandwich ones with the oatmeal cookie outsides.
If y’all get adventurefuls, they’re like the very crispy edge of the brownie, my hot tip is microwave em for 10 seconds!
I’d be forcing people to take the thin mints because every box would be in my freezer waiting to be eaten rn lol. That’s some good self control!
1 year
I was clowning on a guy for posting uninspired creepy candid stuff for the billionth time. I wasn’t “offended” just wanted to see better content.
I like to clown on people there’s some real bozos that like to pop up from time to time.
1 year
Been playing a lot of Baulders Gate so all those songs on there

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1 year
X_Larsson:
Sure, many people here are unable to understand proper argumentation, and many are doing childish ad-hominem attacks instead of presenting counter arguments, but it seems the moderators are clamping down harder and harder nowadays?
Even worse, the posts that COULD justify some moderator comment remain unacted upon, while some other posts can end the thread, even if they are not very hostile or off topic.
Do other memebers here share this view?
I don’t think this is place to spread hate or bigotry of any kind, also it’s also not a place to spread conspiracy theories and peddle misinformation. I and others are gonna call it out when I see it.
1 year
I’ve thought about doing something like that but I really don’t want to subject myself to being the next nickoavacado or be in one of those horrific fat people just existing compliations. Also being a unironic “content creator” kinda makes me sick, no shade to people who create or anything just not for me I’m to private in a sense.
I’ve seen a fair amount on these platforms, so idk.
1 year
I got a background that might be good a guy starts remote working and starts to slowly begin ordering all the time which begins to show, maybe the delivery driver starts to notice and gets interested if this is all for one person or if it all for the one guy who takes the delivery. The orders get progressively comically larger. Idk I am bad at writing thought it might be interesting
1 year
the episode of family guy where Lois gets fat and towards the end there’s like a Peter feeder arc is pretty on the nose, and it bothers me it’s not talked about more
1 year
BigBallBellyGirl:
I'm only stuffing once a month now (and still gain weight from that). Today, we combined a pre-Valentines celebration plus Superbowl festivities, and boy, am I bloated like a balloon and tight as a drum.
I had:
Brunch
- 3 egg omelette with spinach and mushrooms
- Breakfast potatoes
- Half a baguette with goat cheese fondue
- 2 Mimosas
- An Oreo Cappuccino
Snack
- Large queso
- 2 baskets of chips
- 6 flower Tortillas
- Large Dr. Pepper
Snack 2
- 2 large slices of chocolate cake
- 1 Peanut butter milkshake
- Can of Pepsi
Dinner
- 2 plates of pasta Alfredo
- 6 bread sticks
- 8 cheese stuffed portobello mushrooms
- 2 glasses of sweet tea
Superbowl meal/snacks
- 18 chicken tenders with ranch and honey mustard
- 8 mozzarella sticks
- large order of fried pickles
- 1 bag of flaming hot Doritos
- 2 IPAs
My belly looks even bigger than it usually does, and I weigh 536, up from 525 this morning, with all the food in my gut
How I have missed doing this more often...
Enjoy that bliss 🥹 sounds delicious
1 year
I was reading over some of this and I couldn’t agree more with some stuff but I don’t think I can honestly say I’ve ever been like “I’m gonna eat x to eat x calories or to get “so stuffed” — I just eat and sometimes I get super stuffed which is quite pleasurable unless; granted what I consider A SHIT TON of food is different from your shit ton. Unless I’m bloat max stuffed that shit hurts and I try to avoid it when I can, even at my size it doesn’t get better the capacity gets larger. I know people want results and instant gratification but gaining weight takes time unless you have the genetics that just love to store fat some peoples bodies just don’t like to store fat as easily. genetic Trauma allows some people people to store fat easier than others, some grow muscles easier. All sorts of stuff.
1 year