* Watching my wife eat large portions of food and going back for treat after treat and she can't stop snacking

* Watching her after she is finally done eating with her totally full, satisfied and submissive. Looking at her fatter and thinking how much fatter she will be getting eating out of control like this.

* Watching my wife after she has gained a good amount struggle to fit into her clothes ....and now she only wears fluffy maternity tops with her extra tight jeans to mask her huge muffin top and love handles.

* Watching my wife after she gets dried off out of the shower and has on her Bra and panties that have both become very tight and small on her from her gaining walk across the room to the closet with her belly shaking and bouncing from side to side and up and down as well as her breasts jiggling out of control.

* Listening to my wife tell me that she has gotten so Fat right before she eats a pint of Ben n Jerry's after dinner and then after finishing starts to stuff herself with cookies and chocolates until she has trouble breathing because her big belly is so stuffed.

Plenty more.... these are just a few....to get started!

I agree "Loss of self control" with eating is in itself an extremely sexy part of this weight gain fetish for me these days.

When I notice my wife has gained a good amount of weight and then I watch her eat way larger portions at meals followed directly by something sweet right after and then she gets into a pattern of constantly snacking all night long after dinner.....it is so sexy. The best is when she gets in these uncontrollable pattern and starts sneaking extra snacks by just standing in the pantry after dinner and putting chocolate after chocolate in her mouth after she has already finished off a pint of Ben n jerry's.

The ultimate arousal with this loss of control has only happened a couple of times....one way back after she was pregnant for the last time with our third child and she was trying intensely to lose her pregnancy weight. Well, 6 months had gone by and she not only didn't lose any weight but I noticed that she was gaining more weight.
After another 6 months her appetite was out of control and she had gained plenty more.....she told me that she can't stop stuffing her face....I thought she was poking fun at herself as she does when she has gained a lot of weight....but she looked at me seriously and said 'No, I am serious I really can't stop eating and I never get full....If you had food in front of me 24 hours a day I would just sit there and continue eating and never stop" I was totally aroused in such a crazy way!

Not exactly like that!

But over the years my wife has gained ....lost ....and gained again! She initially developed a bigger bloated lower belly then more of a 2nd layer of belly under her huge breasts and now her belly has softened and is much fatter but not as bloated. As she gains fast her belly will stick out more and then it settles down and becomes wider and softer.

Also, the weight moves around into different areas. She happens to have a pear/hour glass shaped figure with large breasts and fatter upper arms and as she gains it becomes more of a full
blown Pear. As her weight has settled and leveled off she is carrying more weight in her mid section and is forming more of a pear /apple shape.

I think she will need to gain a lot more weight to see her body shift back to a full blown pear with a huge belly and mid section. I think it is the process of growing and Fat accumulation. I will tell you one thing.....I know her body fat % keeps going up even though she doesn't look that much heavier.

It will only get tougher to drag yourself to workout with more weight that you will gain. Eventually when you think of working out your stomach will start to growl and you will choose to eat yourself into a food coma and tell yourself you will workout the next day. After many more Lbs. Gained you will kind of see no point to workout and be totally consumed with eating and getting bigger!

Not sure but it kind of happened for me that way for several months.

It was actually kind of cute to hear you say.....that you were hoping to feel the changes with all the extra weight.

I think you need to change your profile from "Foodie" to "Feedee"
sounds like you want to keep getting bigger?

But truthfully.....all of us guy's on here who view heavier/ way overweight women as the ideal Beauty are not even close to the norm.

So most times these women ....even women who are slightly chunky have heard from men in the past or even past boy friends that they are to big and they need to lose weight.

My wife before we were dating went out with a guy who asked her either on a third or fourth date if she planned on dieting to lose a little weight. At that time she was a workout machine at 5' 3" and 120 Lbs. Slightly thicker muscular thighs with a very slight lower belly bulge and larger breasts. So you can see how forward some guy's are......all I could think of when I met her is how she would keep looking better with the more weight she gained.

So it's to be expected why women do act this way.

I know what you are saying!

I have always loved heavier women and on many occasions I have struck up a conversation with a woman and got to know with many meetings from mutual friends etc.in the past. And yes I have heard various things said like what you are talking about.........

i.e. I am on a diet now because I just gained a lot of weight.

Or how often the tell me they go to the gym.

and many other things along those lines.

I usually would soften things from going in that direction by showing my interest because of there personality and overall beauty including their size......by saying something like I think you look great and I wouldn't bother trying to loose any weight.

But I hear ya......I think they are slightly insecure from probably societal pressures and past relationships of being told they are to heavy and they need to lose weight etc.

I will answer this in a couple of ways.

My wife when she was at her heaviest 5' 3" and 200 Lbs. wouldn't try to wear revealing clothes but because she was bigger would wear her largest jeans which were extremely snug along with nice tank tops sometimes with a cardigan type sweater to go over if she was cold. The jeans would make for a huge muffin top that would almost always expose her huge Tan love handles, belly and oversized DDD when her Tank top rode up. Not to mention when she would have the cardigan sweater on.... her soft Fattened arms were barely contained by the soft fabric almost as if they would rip right threw it and the buttons strained around her new bigger belly. Her jeans were so tight in the thighs and butt I thought she was going to bust right out of them. She looked amazing and it wasn't over the top "it was classy" she just didn't fit in her clothes....but it was quite a thrill for me and I am sure people could tell she had gained a lot of weight since wearing her clothes. All of this was done by her unintentionally just trying to wear some cute clothes that her figure had a hard time squeezing into now.

Myself on the other hand when I was at my heaviest I got a thrill out of wearing dress shirts that could barely contain my huge Gut and looked like the buttons would pop off. I would at times stuff so much at lunch in my shirts and keep stuffing to look totally obnoxious and get a some comments out of some fellow employees. It never happened but I sure saw a lot of jaws open wide in awe. People are scared to say things but you can certainly tell by their reactions on their faces. Other times I would wear a T shirt size XL that had shrunk a little......I was clearly up to XXL at this point.....but the XL t shirt was completely snug everywhere with it riding up a good 4 inches on my belly. I decided to stuff to the maximum after so full and bloated I had to visit a couple of my wives friends to drop something off for my wife. They invited me in and we sat around talking. One of them had not seen me in a long time...ptobably 30 Lbs. ago. She said nothing but I caught her staring several times while I was sitting and my huge Ball Gut stuffed to the maximum sitting out in front of me on my lap as if I had a beach ball stuffed in under my T shirt. As I was leaving she gave me the longest hug barely being able to wrap her arms around me and smashing herself into my huge belly. I guess there are people out there that you would never know might like a little Fat but maybe it is not to the percentages that we all do.

While stuffing and Intentionally gaining I would be so stuffed I didn't think I could eat another bite.

But what I learned that really propelled my gaining to new heights or should I say weights was .......I could easily suck down milkshakes after being sooooooo stuffed .....oddly enough. So After I ate enough for 2 or 3 people at lunch followed by some really fattening dessert I would then drive thru a fast food restaurant and get a 20+ oz. shake and many times I would drive back around a second time after swallowing it down really quickly and get another one.

I believe if I kept gaining like that I would have easily got so out of control and Fat to quick.

I think everyone has the back and forth thoughts about gaining, not gaining, to gain even more, to not gain anymore....you get where i am going.

The crazy thing is that when I gained 40+ Lbs. most people wouldn't have even thought I gained that much. Sure they knew I got bigger but not that much bigger. Certain times you can tell but most of the time when someone gains it can be hidden pretty easily.
The other thing is after friends, family etc. get used to you being bigger they won't notice the extra gains as much because they have already accepted the shock of the bigger you....until bathing suit season of course.

Also, once you gain a good amount of weight your appetite is way bigger and you need more food. after several months of intentional gaining I decided to slow down and try to eat healthier and not as much food....Wow was it almost impossible. It felt even harder than when I was stuffing and trying to gain. I tried to eat a smaller lunch and I was so hungry the first several days that come dinner time I couldn't stop eating. This went on for several weeks to a month of cheating all the time. I could see if someone was encouraging me at that point to gain it would have been so easy to keep getting bigger and bigger.

I to had those feelings all of a sudden to lose the weight I gained. I only lost about 25 Lbs. of it and have kept the rest which seems to be the case with a lot of people that gain a good amount it also makes it pretty easy to gain it back also.

I say go for it and have fun so you can experience a few of these things.