When I was skinny (115 lbs) my boobs were a 36 C which looked huge on my frame.
As I gained weight my boobs never gained a whole lot in size.
I'm a 44 D these days and 350 ish lbs but my boobs are almost non existent because my belly has gotten so big.
They do lay on my belly most of the time.
In some tops you can't tell I have boobs because my belly is all you see.

Low cut jeans a size or two too small (that you can still button) and a crop top.
I was the same way when I started to get serious about gaining.
Really tight low cut jeans helps your muffin top be the center of attention.

I don't think its weird at all.
When I first thought about gaining weight I was really hesitant to mention it to my BF at the time.
One night we were watching a movie and there was this plump girl talking to a group of guys.
I mentioned she was really pretty and he agreed that she was.
I asked him what he would think if I was her size?
He said he would feel the same way about me no matter what size I was.
Several months went by and I told him I had thought it over and I would love to gain some weight.
He said if that is what you want then go for it.
I was so glad I had brought up the subject and didn't chicken out.
So if its something you want to do then do it.

Even when I was actively gaining I never thought about inflation and really didn't know it was an actual thing at the time.
I have looked into it to learn a little bit about it and I can see the attraction or how it can be a fantasy.
I am not against fantasies or fetishes I have just never had one.
I tried the diet pepsi and mentos bloat maybe a year ago and didn't see the big deal about it but I tried it approx 2 weeks ago and it was enjoyable to some degree.
Its like being really full from over eating but without the super stuffed feeling.

Girl I think you can do better than this loser.
Sounds like the type thats going to watch porn no matter who he is with all he needs is an excuse to use and make it seem like its your fault he watches porn.

I dropped out of curvage long ago the girls there were so mean and hateful.
Some of the web models were really nice to chat with but some were such back biters.
Some of the guys were really a holes too.
The girls on Feabie were pure bitches so I left there too about a month after it first came online.

My account vanished there a couple of years ago for no reason and I haven't bothered to see why.

If a man I was with was more interested in porn I don't think I would stay with him.
Him closing the door on you to watch porn shows he doesn't appreciate you and what you have to offer the relationship.

Takes a lot of time and effort.
Lots of dedication to achieve your goal.
Its not as easy as you might think.

I love being fat don't get me wrong but there are pros and cons to being this big.
You find ways to deal with issues and you get used to it.