Chat update 27/01/2025 - report bugs here


Munchies:
I had a reverse chat leak. I was talking to someone, around midnight EST, and the chat glitched from the PM to gen chat. I tried to reply to something in gen chat, but the chat posted the PM. Twas odd.

Hiccupx:
Could this have been due to the chat restart which happens every day about that time? When the chat restarts, it momentarily boots everyone from chat, then connects them back in, but defaults to the 'General' chat room.


With respect, but this was a month ago. While I do not remember the exact time, it was certainly well before chat reset. I was also the only one affected.
6 months

Too big for "traditional" sex

Karenjenk:
Its been impossible for a long time because of his modifications with Surgilube and my "layers".
I doubt he will ever be able to penetrate me again but we have a strong emotional bond and lots of toys and devices


Um ... what do you mean by his modifications with Surgilube?

Also, why would he use Sugilube over more traditional lubricants like KY Jelly?
6 months

Do you just appreciate the community?

JN_TumLover56:
While I am aware that I haven’t been to most welcomed user, I would rather be in a place like this than anywhere else! (at least nothing that wants to eradicate belly fat LOL)


As far as I know, no one mentions you in the whisper networks, and I'm not aware of any efforts to get rid of you. I don't know anyone who has any real animosity towards you.

You've had some bad takes on things at most, but who hasn't? I haven't seen you go around trying to hurt anyone. I can't speak for private interactions, but publically, you are just some guy.
6 months

Am i starting my path in gaining weight towards an obese person? anyone for advice and talk?


TheUltimate323:
Ok, I understand. I'm 22 years old, I've never been fat, I've always been normal weight, however I've always loved food. Do you think I can reach 400-500lb?

SumoSized:
I mean you definitely can, I'm 20 and my starting point 4 years ago was 125 lbs. Mind you I've only recently been actively gaining, I was more or less passively gaining before. So if youre actively trying you should gain faster than I have but still it's going to take a few years.
Just try to eat a minimum of 3,000 calories a day, more if you can manage and you should be set. Also read dieting tips on here, I've learned a lot from other just reading their stories and learning from their experiences.

TheUltimate323:
Yes, I can definitely do it, and I would love to do it. One of my fantasies is also the irreversibility, becoming obese and knowing that I will always be there. That I will always be an obese person. I suppose I can achieve that too?

And apart from that, how did you deal with your close people seeing your weight change? You know, I have always been of normal weight and making such a strong weight change is something that is going to cause a reaction in those around me.

Keep in mind that I'm from Spain, obesity is not as normalized here as it is in the US. You know, I'm referring to the reaction of people when they see that a person who has always been of normal weight suddenly gains a lot of weight.

GabDebu:
Depends. While theres no hiding the weight i just tell ppl that im happy being bigger or that i dont mind being hefty. Not really disclosing the appeal, just that i know im getting fatter and im happy with it.

Everyone will have an opinion about your choices. Most important thing is if you are happy with the gain or not. The gain continues until you get to the weight you feel good with.

TheUltimate323:
And apart from all this, can you lead a normal life being obese? Obviously, with certain limitations, which turn me on a lot.


My partner is 430 with a peak of 500. Unless you were previously an athlete, or an avid roller-coaster rider, you'll live a fairly normal life.
6 months

Bese — a new term for the upper chest area

HappyBigBelly:
As a lifelong FA, I’ve of course admired bellies and boobs getting larger on a woman. But there’s another part that drives me wild to see soften up :-)

It’s the area between the top of the boobs and the neck area. When a gal gains, it tends to puff out and get softer with every pound. I’ve been trying to think of a word for this, and what I’ve come up with isn’t a noun, but an adjective — “bese”.

It’s kinda derived from “obese” and simply means it’s soft and pillowy just like the bust area below it. Especially so on ladies who get heavier than 200 pounds. It just widens over time with each milestone gain :-)

So look out for this new word when I encourage the best figures here to keep up their lovely progress :-)

Munchies:
There is already a name for this area: decolletage. You can also refer to it as the chest or upper chest.

That said, I am not sure how an adjective works to describe this area. Unless you are trying to do something like "thunder thighs". But that rolls off the tongue. "Bese décolletage" feels kinda clunky.

HappyBigBelly:
Ah, yes. I had even heard of the term décolletage before. Didn’t immediately think of it, thanks! I guess bese can exist in the universe as words like “boss” or “brat” which have been used as adjectives in the recent past.

In any case, I do love me some soft, bese décolletage :-)

Munchies:
Plush, full, soft, luxurious, fluffy, well-fed, over-fed, plump ... there are much better words than bese.

There's a psychology to words in that the mouth feel of the word influences perceptions of the word irrespective of its meaning.

Take the word "obese." The first syllable, "o," rounds out the word, allowing the mouth to slide more comfortably into the second syllable. Consider how your mouth moves when you say the list of words I provided. Your mouth and tongue stay relaxed and rounded, reflecting the softness these words suggest.

Now compare "bese." It is a sharp sound. You start by forcing air against closed lips. Then, you pull those lips back while flattening, stiffening, and drawing the tongue back. There's no soft sound like an o to remove the sharpness.

By all means, make up a new word. But maybe a different one will better visualize the softness you are trying to describe.

HappyBigBelly:
Yeah, I guess it demands more of an appetizer word instead of a main dish word :-)


That's a great way to put it
6 months

Bese — a new term for the upper chest area

HappyBigBelly:
As a lifelong FA, I’ve of course admired bellies and boobs getting larger on a woman. But there’s another part that drives me wild to see soften up :-)

It’s the area between the top of the boobs and the neck area. When a gal gains, it tends to puff out and get softer with every pound. I’ve been trying to think of a word for this, and what I’ve come up with isn’t a noun, but an adjective — “bese”.

It’s kinda derived from “obese” and simply means it’s soft and pillowy just like the bust area below it. Especially so on ladies who get heavier than 200 pounds. It just widens over time with each milestone gain :-)

So look out for this new word when I encourage the best figures here to keep up their lovely progress :-)

Munchies:
There is already a name for this area: decolletage. You can also refer to it as the chest or upper chest.

That said, I am not sure how an adjective works to describe this area. Unless you are trying to do something like "thunder thighs". But that rolls off the tongue. "Bese décolletage" feels kinda clunky.

HappyBigBelly:
Ah, yes. I had even heard of the term décolletage before. Didn’t immediately think of it, thanks! I guess bese can exist in the universe as words like “boss” or “brat” which have been used as adjectives in the recent past.

In any case, I do love me some soft, bese décolletage :-)


Plush, full, soft, luxurious, fluffy, well-fed, over-fed, plump ... there are much better words than bese.

There's a psychology to words in that the mouth feel of the word influences perceptions of the word irrespective of its meaning.

Take the word "obese." The first syllable, "o," rounds out the word, allowing the mouth to slide more comfortably into the second syllable. Consider how your mouth moves when you say the list of words I provided. Your mouth and tongue stay relaxed and rounded, reflecting the softness these words suggest.

Now compare "bese." It is a sharp sound. You start by forcing air against closed lips. Then, you pull those lips back while flattening, stiffening, and drawing the tongue back. There's no soft sound like an o to remove the sharpness.

By all means, make up a new word. But maybe a different one will better visualize the softness you are trying to describe.
6 months

Bese — a new term for the upper chest area

HappyBigBelly:
As a lifelong FA, I’ve of course admired bellies and boobs getting larger on a woman. But there’s another part that drives me wild to see soften up :-)

It’s the area between the top of the boobs and the neck area. When a gal gains, it tends to puff out and get softer with every pound. I’ve been trying to think of a word for this, and what I’ve come up with isn’t a noun, but an adjective — “bese”.

It’s kinda derived from “obese” and simply means it’s soft and pillowy just like the bust area below it. Especially so on ladies who get heavier than 200 pounds. It just widens over time with each milestone gain :-)

So look out for this new word when I encourage the best figures here to keep up their lovely progress :-)


There is already a name for this area: decolletage. You can also refer to it as the chest or upper chest.

That said, I am not sure how an adjective works to describe this area. Unless you are trying to do something like "thunder thighs". But that rolls off the tongue. "Bese décolletage" feels kinda clunky.
6 months