Fantasy Feeder

Just a little psa

FeedeeViolet:
people are allowed to have preferences for whom they like! some of y’all need a refresher course on consent 101 or something.

Munchies:
Context????

FeedeeViolet:
a lot of men here like to harass when i turn them down/think they can force their ideals onto me

Probably should have opened with that, lol.

But I get it. There are a lot of creeps on here. The best thing to do is report and block them.

Make sure you take screenshots and send them to team@fantasyfeeder.com. This is the most important part.

A lot of people freak out and close the PM. Maybe they make a forum post that gets buried later. That's the absolute worst thing to do because they will do it again. Sometimes, they'll end up doing it to you specifically again because they either forgot they spoke to you or are just that sick of a person.

If more people reported creeps with screenshots, it would tamp down on many creeps, but I understand why people don't. You feel violated, and you want to get away from it as fast as possible.

Personally, I don't mind the creeps too much. I'm a sadistic domme, and they make wonderful chew toys. But I'm a special kind of crazy.

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Just a little psa

FeedeeViolet:
people are allowed to have preferences for whom they like! some of y’all need a refresher course on consent 101 or something.

Context????

5 months

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How to secretly add calories to my wife's meals?

Harry-Misty:
I want to fatten my wife, she's already obese, but sometimes eating not enough to gain. What i can use to increase her calorie intake so she can gain and gain a lot faster?

LoraDayton:
Be for REAL, man. The answer isn't going to change.

You *say* you're in Russia but if you just *happen* to not actually be there, and say, in the United States, it would benefit you to know that it's a federal felony to do this and one of the few crimes of this nature that's easy to prove and convict.

Just... FOOD for thought.

Butter On A Pop Tart:
Is it actually illegal?

Like you obviously can't drug someone, but if you give someone food that's designed to make them fat... I mean, it's still just food - even if there are hidden intentions behind it.

Yes, actually. Secret feeding is, in fact, a crime. There are a lot of aspects to it:

Abuse, unauthorized food manipulation, assault if they have a medical reaction, etc.

I've seen some posts on this very site from users that survived secret feedings. Restraining orders and the police were involved. The guilty parties went to jail.

Also, Russia has historically stricter food related laws than America, so OP really has no legs to stand on.

That said, as a general rule of thumb, if you have to start debating the legality on an issue, it's a good sign you are in the wrong.

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Clean eatin

Bigboysdoitbetter:
Hi y’all it’s probably been brought up or asked a bunch but I’m someone who does want to be fat but I also care about what I put in my body (struggle is real) does anyone have any go too foods or recipes that are relatively clean I mainly care about processed stuff food dyes etc gotta love American food lol

You have a lot of options. Do you cook?

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A note on weight/disability

Ditzy:
I would feel bad mooching off the government dole.
I'm just weird I guess.

Here in the USA if you do draw a disability check it comes with stipulations.
Not to mention a private detective working for the government watching just about everything you do.

Oh, 100%. The are always looking for reasons to take away your disability check no matter why you are on disability.

This is why if you are obese you have to have a comorbidity.

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A note on weight/disability

Brastidious:
That's why I make the point on UK centric, you can just apply without a lawyer involved

The disability lawyer is to increase your chances of success. You don't need one to apply. But it does help a lot.

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Good friend’s ex

Splash92:
So about a year ago one of my really good friends split with his girlfriend because she was “into things that he wasn’t.” That’s all I got out of it.
Fast forward to about a week ago and I ran into her. She was always “thick” but she put on a lot of weight. We happened to be at a bar so we chatted for a bit and she opened up to me that she was in fact into gaining. I didn’t directly come out and say I’m into women who do that but I made a hints like nothing wrong with a bigger girl. She wanted to get together again but I can already tell where this is going and I feel like that’s off limits being that she’s my good buddies ex. Anyone ever been in a situation like that?

This has the potential to get very messy. Sure, they aren't dating anymore. But I know a lot of people get weird about a friend dating their ex - especially if it means they'll be seeing their ex more.

If you want to preserve your friendship, I'd clear it with your buddy first before persuing her. There might also be more to the story than he first told you.

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Girlfriend is into to it and i’m feedee curious any tips?

Oatie:
The title says it mostly, my girlfriend told me she’s into Feederism which I’ll be honest surprised me a little but not too much as I knew she liked my belly and thighs.
I’m a bigger lady and I have struggled with confidence in the past but she makes me feel very sexy and honestly never felt so free with my body confidence.
The idea of her feeding me is exciting and I’m traveling to meet her this weekend for two weeks and we agreed to give it ago.
I was wondering if there’s anything I can do to make it more exciting for her or any tips you all could give me?

Also don’t worry we have discussed everything like boundaries in detail already I’m mostly looking for fun advice.

Honestly, it's best to keep it vanilla and chill for now. If you have a shared kink you two are already experienced with, you can combine them together. But other than that? Keep it chill.

You are new to this. Focus on the basics for now.

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A note on weight/disability

Brastidious:
This came up in chat and figured to make a topic about it.

Bear in mind that this UK centric and other countries may differ.

That said, being fat can qualify you for disability benefits.
When completing the forms, you need to be honest about how it affects you, especially day to day. It may seem hard, but it's the difference in qualifying or not.

I can't give specific advice, but it is something to consider if you've had days that have been difficult due to your increased size.

There is a caveat to this. Being so fat that it impairs your daily living can help you get disability, but you usually have to have a specific comorbidity to go with it.

And always have a disability lawyer.

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