MarieTrans:
Weird shit
Rude! >
1 year
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1 year
Thepiggygirls:
When I got in my Uber the driver was an older man and once he started talking I could just kinda tell it would be one of those kinda inescapable conversations, where they just keep taking but he seemed nice. He begins by telling me what he had for breakfast then proceeds to tell me about his keto diet his son had gotten him into. I pretty much tuned out after hearing the word keto. But I just politely listened even though I couldn’t care less about all the ways he was cutting out carbs and sugar, to me it just sounds miserable.
Then he started to tell me about his fasting and how it does wonders for him, and the kilos melt off. He then started talking about his daughter and how she’s short and wide and how it done wonders for her. And then he starts telling me how I should try it! But I was literally just like “nah I wouldn’t be able to do it” and it kinda got left at that.
It took me until getting home to realise that perhaps he was trying to tell me something 🤣 it’s so funny because if I had have been honest I would have told him that I was currently on my way home to double dash kfc and dominos with sides and dessert. I’d say he probably would have been mortified 🤣
Yeah people tend to project their insecurities about their weight on others, and give all sorts of unsolicited diet advice not because they are probably trying to make you feel bad but because they see it as a nice thing to do for someone “struggling with their weight” — but yeah little do they know that weight was earned XD
1 year
Angiefoodcake:
How are people able to afford take out very often? Even I have a busy life (currently 4 tens) but I still cook at home. Though even groceries in my area are expensive and I am feeding a family.
I’m a single guy in my 30s I have to some extent financial freedom, it’s not ideal that I eat out or order every night it’s more so I don’t really have another option if I want something yummy I can’t cook for shit lol. I know id save money if I didn’t and it could be fun to learn but for now I’ll go out or order.
And yeah totally not just McDonald’s every night haha that would be wild
1 year
They are people just like us and they’ll treat you as people just like themselves. Theres nothing to fear in social interactions they are generally low risk endeavors. So what if you come off a bit eccentric it’s just who you are be you.
1 year
why can’t everyone be the size they want to be and we leave it to themselves how they want to be? So often I see feedists wish for everyone to be super fat and I’m like ok enjoy your nut I guess but as a fat person in the here and now I would have to decline I enjoy the fact I am the one who will get 4 double cheeseburgers at 130 in the afternoon have a pizza by dinner and the fact I’m bigger than most people who’d most consider very fat, I don’t wish that at all I just want to be treated fairly and receive the same respect other people are given
Also 600 lbs? Its always immobility or something with these people most peoples bodies couldn’t handle that it’s pure fiction not everyone even given unlimited calories time etc could do it
1 year
Munchies:
Well, I meant concerning the food aspect of things. You can be a bbw or bhm, but that doesn't necessarily mean you engage much with the food aspect.
I didn’t think about it much I suppose that would be the difference between a plus sized person and a feedist this makes sense when you put it like that it’s really a relation to food if you think about it
1 year
Munchies:
Comes from different flavors of feedist expressions. There are gainers, feedees, and foodies.
Gainers want to get fat. This is where you see most of the min/max crowd. They've crunched the numbers and figured out the best methods for getting fat. Taste is secondary to how fat the food will make you.
Feedees want to get fed. Variety is nice, but the focus is on the act of feeding - not the food. A lot of feedees will appreciate variety and fancy food, but most are content with their favorites so long at the feeding experience is nice.
Foodies want food. They love food and eating first and foremost. Any weight gained is incidental. However, since enjoying delicious food is normal in mainstream society, a lot of them do not feel the need to join fat fetish communities. Those who do join fat fetish spaces tend to do it because it's the closest thing that fits. But a lot of foodies I've talked to express frustration because most people are fat-focused and not food-focused.
I feel like there should be a fourth criterium bhm or bbw alot of folks who are already plus size are somewhere in between all of those. It’s hard to really say.
1 year
It has been a bit bizarre seeing people willing to or wanting to eat or drink things that do not taste good to me it’s like can’t you just eat more? I’m realizing not everyone is wired the same way. It can be a struggle for some people to eat, but for me I’ll eat just about anything I’m not picky at all
it’s a time/cost thing I like the connivence of eating really good stuff now vs spend potentially hours making something that’s not all that good, on hand I have stuff to make sandwiches some frozen stuff but other than that I pretty much order.
Also I don’t agree with the whole “slop fast food” thing never did even when I was a heckin a lot smaller than I am now, fast food is probably better than what a lot of people make.
1 year
when she hears my tummy gurgling 😫
1 year
