While I agree that people should read prodiles, and I agree that people should respect what people say about not wanting to gain, this IS a website about gaining. It's like joining a web site about games, and asking people not to talk about games.
Also, it is foolish for anyone to leave because of one or two people who annoy them. They may miss out on making a great friendship from someone else later on.
11 years
I don't think people who are gaining can really look that far ahead. It is too scarey if you do. You have to take one day at a time. As others have pointed out, people have stopped gaining, either on purpose, or they just hit their setpoint.
Think of it as any other risk you take. Smokers, race car drivers and sky divers may also be cutting some years off their lives. But, if they are happy, it might be worth it.
11 years
One thing BBWs and especially SSBBWs have to be careful of, are the doctors who say "You are too fat to get pregnant." I've seen a lot of BBWs get pregnant not using birth control because the doctors said they would not get pregnant.
11 years
Whether you are an FA, or a gainer, it is very hard to have those preferences if you are into peer pressure. You just have to say, I'm fat, or I like fat partners and let people know.
11 years
Wannabe Princess wrote:Me & my sister. Same parents, different lifestyles. (I would prefer not to read negative comments about her weight/body)
Hopefully people will not post negative comments. For one thing, if it is OK to post negative things about thin people, then that makies it OK for other people to post negative things about fat people. Also, many people on this site are thin, for one reason or another, or havee thin friends and relatives.
11 years
Everyone is different. And of the fat is inside of your muscles, it may become a huge beach ball and never get soft.
11 years
Feedism is back!
11 years
oceanmachine wrote:
Ah, I wanted to ask about feedism, but thought I might violate rules. Glad it isn't just me. Though I rarely visit the place now
I rarely visit it now too, since there is only a message saying it is down. lol.
11 years
A lot of weight gain is caused by dieting. I have known people who have stopped dieting and acutally lost weight. Others have leveled off. But you could also gain too. I would not worry too far in the future. Do what is right for you now. You may not lose the weight you gain, but you might be able to stop gaining if you think you are getting too big.
11 years
Dr. Paul Ernsberger, a noted obesity researcher has estimated that more people died from WLS, than from the Viet Nam conflict. So, I think I would ask that stranger why he wants you dead.
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