Or you can say, you really look great. Did you change your hair style? Then maybe she will say, no, I gained 200 pounds. Lol

Also, not many people have 4 dozen donuts laying around. Sounds like something from the fiction department.

I can understand. Most of the women I dated, when I was single either were heavier before or after I dated them. I believe there is a lot more to a relationship than weight. But it's still nice to have been with someone at their heaviest.

How does someone whith feeding urges end up with a 130 pound girlfriend? You can't change a non-feedee into a feedee. You have to decide if you want a feedee or you want a 130 pound girlfriend.

Divine from Hairspray

The Extreme Obesity section used to deal only with people who were over 500 or immobile. Now many of the posts are just about gaining. There were few posts here, but all were related to the largest of the large.

I sometimes get messages from men on this and other sites. I used to try to answer them, but they got too pushy and too annoying. So, I stopped replying to men

They fall under two categories: 1)Men who want me to be into men. I don't care if anyone is gay, but I am not gay, and I don't want to have to try to defend myself for being straight, and being told I should change.

2)Men who want me to discuss my wife (a BBW but not into gaining and a very private person) or someone who wants me to send them picture of women who sent me pictures in private.

I don't think she has met a higher energy. I think she is just plain high.

I don't see how a relationship can last without other things in common. It just seems that if two people are together, and don't like the same music, don't like doing the same things, don't have similar political views, don't have the same goals, it would be miserable for both people.

Dieting slows the metabolism. Green tea doesn't work anyway. It is very likely she will regain more than she loses.

I disagree about discussing it with her. Let nature take its course.