Why not buy women's jeans that look like male? The fabric will be bigger in the butt in these jeans.

Why don't you write to her on YouTube? Then she has the option to answer or not. And as someone said, don't come off as super excited.

People are free to gain or lose, but I don't think you can have it both ways. Gainers come here because the admirers/feeders/encouragers are here to admire, feed, and encourage. That is their preference.

If someone joins a website for a particular religion, and they change their religion, they can't expect to get the same reception they once had.

You would think that the thin FA's would understand that they are a lot like the thin FFA's, and give them some "professional Courtesy."

I would also like to say that many of the thin FFA's here are really beautiful women. They may not be in the weight class that I prefer, but I still think they are beautiful, and that the BHM are lucky to have them on this site.

If you let a few bad apples discourage you, you are going to spend a miserable life. Keep looking for someone.

Can you find out where she is going, and follow her there to get a haircut? Or just be social and ask her out?

While I agree that people should read prodiles, and I agree that people should respect what people say about not wanting to gain, this IS a website about gaining. It's like joining a web site about games, and asking people not to talk about games.

Also, it is foolish for anyone to leave because of one or two people who annoy them. They may miss out on making a great friendship from someone else later on.

I don't think people who are gaining can really look that far ahead. It is too scarey if you do. You have to take one day at a time. As others have pointed out, people have stopped gaining, either on purpose, or they just hit their setpoint.

Think of it as any other risk you take. Smokers, race car drivers and sky divers may also be cutting some years off their lives. But, if they are happy, it might be worth it.

One thing BBWs and especially SSBBWs have to be careful of, are the doctors who say "You are too fat to get pregnant." I've seen a lot of BBWs get pregnant not using birth control because the doctors said they would not get pregnant.