I definitely see where it is much more intense with feelings like most of us have on here to have weight gain, feeding etc introduced in order to achieve total excitement and in some cases orgasm.

My wife has gained and lost many times throughout our relationship. I would say obviously the most intense arousal and enjoyment for me and I believe her as well was when she was not only her heaviest but also let go of any inhibitions. Obviously her being much heavier and looking absolutely Beautiful she also began to use her ability over me by teasing me with her bigger figure and she became so comfortable and confident/sexy being bigger that it was unbelievably great!

Transversely when she was much thinner not only my appetite for love making was much less I believe hers was as well. She wasn't as sexual and didn't seem as relaxed or responsive. During love making sessions at these times she seemed more distant and probably it had something to do with me but it just really jumps out at me. Also, during these times I found myself unintentionally remembering of her when she was so much heavier and how her body looked to make the love making more enjoyable and to peak the excitement for me. It felt a bit wrong in a way but that's my biggest turn on is visualizing her gaining weight and being heavier.

That's pretty HOT in my book!

My experience.....Several years ago I started to gain unintentionally at first and started to notice after a few weeks how much more I was eating. Because of a void in weight gain with my wife at the time I decided to intentionally gain and see how big I could get.

I was surprised how aroused I became trying to get fatter. I began to stuff at every meal and eating desserts and fattening things all day in between meals. I was stuffed and bloated all day long and continued to stuff to the maximum. After another month or so I never felt sick and was astonished at how much more I could eat at every meal or actually how much I needed to eat to be content.

I was totally turned on by how big my belly was becoming. It was very big bloated and distended. I was most interested in my wife noticing how Fat I was getting and almost became one of the driving forces to keep getting bigger and bigger other than myself liking seeing the huge difference.

At first it was the Lbs. gained on the scale it kind of surprised me. All of a sudden O was 15 Lbs. heavier and I didn't really pay attention or notice much difference with my size. Then I started paying attention to it more and realized all my slacks really tight around the waist and even dress shirts straining a bit. After the stuffing began and I was always bloated I found myself never being able to suck my belly in and it was always sticking out like I was 7 months pregnant. With the constant stuffing the Lbs. came on really quick. only 1 month into stuffing I gained another 7 -10 Lbs. on the scale and I felt very stuffed and Fat all the time. My belly was sticking out huge all the time and it was so interesting having this extended Gut walking way out in front of me all the time. I was at a stage where I not only wanted my wife to comment on how big my Gut was but I also wanted acquaintances to notice and I didn't bother buying new slacks yet for work I just wore my 36" and some 38" slacks low with my big Gut billowing out over the belt. By the time I was 40+ Lbs. bigger not only was it extremely obvious in appearance of my huge belly but also in my , neck, face and all of a sudden I caught a glance of my big round ball Gut that know could be seen from my back like a had a huge Beach ball attached on the front of me. As my Gut was bigger it now showed from the back and my love handles and their was some slight softening when I wasn't stuffed to capacity and my Gut had a slight hang in the front.

Ultimately the size and physical adaptations to my my slower movements were the most magnified to me even at the 30 Lb. gained mark. I felt I looked a lot bigger with the 40+ Lbs. gained but I felt even more different than I looked. I felt super Fat and was much lazier and mostly thought about eating and doing more relaxing things centered around food. As far as the scale 40 Lbs. seems like a lot but not really that much....I think it was how much Fatter I felt and the way I fell into the out of control cycle of eating. There was a point toward the end of this intentionally stuffing and gaining where I felt Like I wouldn't be able to stop and I thought if my wife actually desired it she could turn me into the biggest /fattest pig of a husband and I would let her based on my uncontrollable appetite and the fact it was turning me on so much.

On the topic of her large breasts!

I have analyzed this for many years and been with and witnessed naturally large breasted girls as they get older almost always gain weight and the weight most of the (like 95%) of the time surfaces in their bellies.

So you are in great luck!

As far as her into weight gain and loving it......Probably not quite as much as you but you never know.

Most of the time it is the women just relax in a bit and start to get fatter and it is easier than watching what they have been accustom to eating and changing that diet.

Possibly ease into it by telling her how great she look's and if she replies something like...."really I have gotten so Fat" say, "I think you look hotter than ever I wouldn't mind if your cute little belly got even bigger".

The more I think about this topic it really has to do with a couple things as I gain a lot of weight and become way more submissive.

First is my appetite growing so much where my first thoughts are centered around food and eating. As I continue to eat always to the max I feel very stuffed and bloated which ultimately makes me way more relaxed and not even feeling like moving...not to mention being the agressor in any fashion of the word.

As I get a lot bigger I get pretty turned on and all I think about is getting bigger yet....and I can't really control how much I eat at this point so once again I am full to the max and very relaxed. As I become out of control with the eating and lazy nature It kind of strips any dominant attitude and I find myself just giving in to eating and snacking huge amounts and if my wife happened to be a dominant feeder......I could really find myself at her mercy of turning me into a huge Fat pig that I would allow her to do anything she wanted to me.

So ultimately it has a lot to do with the feeling out of control with eating and the effect the huge amounts of eating have do to my energy level and overall nature of striping the control and discipline I have.

I like numbers rising on the scale as I am sure anyone into weight gain does to a degree.
But with that said overall size and parts growing definitely trump numbers on the scale in my book....plus the conversation of asking my wives weight or weighing her myself doesn't happen.

Also, as someone previously mentioned a particular woman can weigh much more than another one of same height but the one who weighs less sometimes look's way fatter and heavier......just a weird thing I can never figure out. My wife always look's to me like she would weigh more than she does.

There was a time a while ago when I was stuffing every day at every meal and in between meals with snacks intentionally.

My belly was always stuffed and full to capacity.

When it was time for another meal say Dinner.....I wasn't even hungry feeling but the minute I started eating I just kept going and didn't stop and I didn't feel much fuller when I stopped

After a while when I was eating it almost wasn't considered stuffing anymore for me because I was ravenous and so hungry.....and the next thing for me was I could never feel full anymore I could just keep eating and eating. This obviously was after several months of huge effort especially in the first 2-3 weeks of intentionally stuffing.

How much weight has she gained since taking this shot and how long has she been on it?

Great advice....I just got to get over the hump.

I might do more of that after a night out and she is a bit tipsy so that maybe she opens up a bit more like I have seen.

I know.....It's just easier said than done. Here is just a little insight into my wife.

My wife happens to be one that is fairly reserved and makes it hard to approach on these types of subjects. Not to mention she is very strong headed which makes it even more confusing to approaching with my gaining as well.

In the way past I use to always talk to her about her gaining some weight and she became very tired of any conversation about weight gain. When she started to gain weight I wouldn't bring anything up in fear she would try and lose it. Even though I would tell her nothing but positive things, like... You look so great ....you are so sexy and beautiful etc. etc. there were several times when she gained a pretty good amount of weight and I brought up ....you look so beautiful.... she said frustrated "so what are you telling me is, I have gotten so Fat, I am so big and Fat now" and I was kind of in a silence for a bit and then regained composure and said "I think you look so beautiful". She said "thats great you like me Fat, well I am a big Fat ass now." "It's disgusting that you like me this Fat"....all I could say is "I love you and I think you look Beautiful".

So, obviously that put me back several stages in weight gain talk as you could understand. I kind of held it all in and just silently looked on when she happened to be in a gaining stage.

Many years after we were married she became pregnant and we had our three babies back to back to back she never had time to lose much weight in between the pregnancies and as a result gained close to 60 Lbs. total in which she didn't lose. In fact the best part was she finally hit a psychological point where she kind of accepted that she was bigger now and it was almost fine with her. Plus we had our babies and she was had less time to worry about being thin. She actually started gaining more because she kept her appetite like she had when she was pregnant. She was much calmer with me and would even slightly tease me with her heavier figure. It was almost like she appreciated that I liked her fatter now all of a sudden. She had a bigger appetite for not only food but sex as well and she looked so damn hot at this heavier weight. Not only was she unbelievably beautiful to me but I would see other guy's checking her out all the time. I even commented to her several times "do you see all these guy's always checking you out? She said "I have seen a few, guy's must really like Fat women these day's"

For many years now she has dropped down from over 200 Lbs. on her 5" 3" small frame to probably around 160 Lbs. currently.

So who knows maybe she just has feeder tendencies and maybe she likes me getting fatter at her hand but I have a hard time thinking of bringing it up directly to her.

Maybe she wants me to be the Fat one and her to fatten me up so she doesn't feel as big if she gains weight?