therion - staves of time
pink floyd - wish you where here
MGNT - Time to pretend
Manu Chao - Me gusta tu
spinvis - bagagedrager (dutch)

I'd love to experience life to the fullest. Sometimes life seems so sedated. Some days seem to be all about work.

I'd like to rob a bank or something, just for the thrill. Naturally I wouldn't do this because of obvious reasons, but i think id be cool to live out a real western bank robbing. and hopefully get away with it...

I think one of the big problems is that on this site there are a lot of people that just come here 'to get off'. And I think that when some of the guys that come here want to get off, they will say a number of things that they don't mean.

Meeting someone around the globe for example is something they would say, and maybe even do. But if the motivation is only for sex, I guess you could say that the german guy realized it would be a very expensive 'sexy time'.

I think what miss pretty panties says about how you should gain only for yourself is very true. What people do with themselves is not my concern, but you never know before hand if any relationship is going to last beyond the first meeting. So think ahead.

I do think that one of the main problems of this board is that a lot of people come here to get off. And they show no regards for others. This harms communications for people with real intentions, since their messages get lost between all the spam that is sent.

ok so here goes...

I'm 31 and feel like i wasted a great deal of my life finding out what i want to do with it. I've had several jobs, all which sucked, and I am insecure about the fact that it's taking me so long to get my ass settled.

I try to be nice to others, even when I don't like them because I'm afraid of being rejected.

I have a hard time connecting with people. I don't know how to open up to new people and be honest about myself, again because of fear of rejection.

my mother died a few years ago. After her divorce she started drinking heavily and because this excessive alcohol usage she weakened herself to the point that it killed her. I partly blame myself for not trying to stop her from drinking.

like I said, i see a pattern. I'm sure lot of people leave for different reasons, I am assuming some leave because of the creepers.



I know people can report these things, but I'm just wondering how many actually have reported anything. Do all women report these things, or do they let them pass? I'm sure that somebody that is relatively new is not likely to report anything.

This is not critique to the site or the moderators, I'm just wondering about these things. I appreciate all the things that are being done at the moment.

That's probably what is happening. I'm just curious what exactly accounts to being creepy enough for people to leave. If some people have had bad experiences, it would be good if they shared them. Even if it only to make clear what sort of behavior is unacceptable.

That is a good possibility and maybe some people have made that choice, but I can imagine that most people would 'look around' before joining. So they might have made up their mind before that.
But what i see is that some women shows up, has pictures... and after a while the pictures disappear, and they disappear.

I am probably asking the wrong people here, because you all stayed, but any input is appreciated.

I notice that every now and then somebody new shows up, and more often than not disappear as quickly as they came.

I don't know why they leave, and it annoys me that even though i never spoke to them, they already left. I assume that they have had some contact with some people here that lack a certain tact.

So my question is for the Ladies, what is the most irritating, indecent behavior you have been subjected to here at the FF site, and has anything been done about it? And has anyone noticed that once they posted pictures that the annoyances went up?

I'm not trying to stir up trouble, I'm just looking for reasons that would cause people to leave so quickly.

yech...

the thing about mayans is that they lived like thousands of years ago, and that with todays technology we can't predict into the future anywhere further than a couple of weeks.

People that think that the mayans really 'knew' that the world was gonna end in 2012 are just bat shit crazy.
It's probally considered a 'new age' thing, but if you ask me it's more of a dark age thing.

If you want him to propose to you, I would suggest waiting a few years. I don't know how long you've been together, but at 18, you both are still very young.

Or are you guys saving yourselves for marriage?