Another reason to get fat..

AskDrFeeder:
Once you're fat you don't have to worry about getting fat. It'll be a fait accompli.

Has anyone ever used this rationale to ease their doubts about gaining?

Bigdoug:
Yes, my wife after gaining during her pregnancies and not losing weight afterwards.


My wife is the same way. Gained about a hundred pounds after her first two many years ago. She gained only about 10-15 pounds for first child together four years ago, but by then she was already 300 pounds :-)
7 months

Where are all the 40+ folks hiding?

I’m not hiding at all :-) On here often enough passing along encouraging words and having a good time in general!
7 months

Revealing bellies in public

My other half has begun to be a bit bolder in public this summer :-) She’s finally found some sports bras and short tops that fit her body but still show a little of her belly down below. She still sticks her lower bet into her elastic pants, but we’re getting closer to just letting her big, beautiful belly hang out totally :-)
7 months

What brought about your fat fetish and when?

I always love telling mine and my wife’s gaining story — always love seeing these “origin story” threads :-)

My first memory of encountering fat was a regained memory told to me years after the fact by my mother. I would play with the arm fat of any female relative when I was a toddler and was being held. I’m told my grandmother slapped me one time for doing it.

In young adulthood, I felt the attraction to chubby girls starting in middle school and on into high school. I didn’t have a girlfriend until I was out of high school (wasn’t ever part of the clique, as they say), but nothing turned me on like a pair of chubby cheeks, chubby upper arms or big thighs. Chubby bare feet still turn me on as well :-)

My first steady girlfriend wasn’t all that fat to start out with, but over five years we ate well enough to fill out the both of us. Her arms and belly puffed out mightily; probably gained at least 50 pounds being with me.

Another five-year relationship followed when I moved to another state. She was already heavy, about 5-6 and anywhere between 220 and 270 over the course of that time. She was insecure about it and, along with being bipolar and in denial about it, never really relaxed and enjoyed her own existence, much less her luscious figure.

I met my wife 10 years ago now, at a concert. Mutual friend of ours made sure we were both there. The friend figured we both needed to stumble upon each other after going through such rough previous relationships. I can still remember the first time I saw her short, 5-3 figure walking upon the rest of our friend group to meet up. A black blouse cut low to emphasize what I would eventually find out were 46 DDD breasts. Cute, chubby face and such a soft touch with everything. I was smitten, though it was another year before we started dating officially.

I was slowly but steadily getting a big ol’ ball belly during these years. A big, hard visceral fat basketball belly! She sure hasn’t minded, being a big girl herself for so long now. She was actually a tiny teen, just with out-of-proportion breasts for what was then her figure. I just recently saw pics of her at 13 that I hadn’t seen before. It’s truly amazing how petite and skinny she was before puberty and the rest of her teen years.

She had her first child barely out of high school and, according to her accounts, gained between 80 and 100 pounds between the pregnancy and health-related issues with certain meds’ effects on her. Three years later, she had the depo shot for birth control and got pregnant (and fatter) anyway with her second child. Wish I’d have known her then so I could have witnessed her body change. Her waistline and belly just exploded in size :-) She stopped wearing underwear at a certain point and her back is big and broad with luscious layers of fat all 300+ pound ladies seem to have. Her butt also grew into a full-fledged “buttshelf” during that time. This is as good a point in the story as any to mention her bra band size was only in the low 30s entering her 20s. So that’s more than 12 inches gained just in her middle since then :-)

We had our first child together three years ago now. She was already just at 300 pounds, so she didn’t have to gain but maybe 20 during the pregnancy. Today, she’s a proud 340 pounds with a spirit that’s just as soft and tender as her skin :-) We’d have each other no other way but fat and happy :-)
7 months

How did you start?

HisNaughtyWife13:
Hi there! I’m new to this as well. Normally it was gross to eat in front of a man. When a guy loves it!!!! Win freaking win!


Welcome to the site! Many of us here indeed love it to see a woman be confident in her figure 👍 Hope you enjoy a highly complimenting experience!
7 months

It's not just about contrast

Doughlvr:
Visual contrast is great, don't get me wrong. But I love the fantasy of imagining a partner who is 2 times... 3 times... my weight. My God that is the hottest thing ever.. weight contrast is truly amazing 😍


It’s indeed a fulfilling dynamic. I’m about 180, but my wife is about 340. We enjoy our respective physical assets ❤️
7 months

Supermarket binge

Ditzy:
Better check because they had a recall on some Boars head items.


True, there is indeed a safety recall with that brand. I usually avoid due to price and just get the store brand.
Same thing but cheaper!
7 months

Let's tell our fat-related stories/experiences

One of mine and my wife’s favorite places to eat is a fried catfish and chicken joint about 45 minutes from the house. Pretty simple menu; you order either the catfish spread or the chicken spread. You get a huge basket of either fried delicacy along with some homemade-style sides like mashed potatoes, cooked greens, hush puppies (cornbread balls, basically) and pickled onions.

Last visit we ate so much we could hardly keep our pants on…both our bellies wanted outta there. So….we decided to just drive home without any pants on :-) It happened to be nighttime, and near closing time, so it’s doubtful anyone saw us toss my shorts and her elastic pants into the back seat!

Anyone who’s seen my pics section has seen how big my ball-belly is. And my wife has allowed a few of herself on my page here as well. She’s roughly 340 pounds with a lovely hanging belly and a buttshelf, plus she stopped wearing underwear years ago when her belly and waist simply got too big to fit most panties. So, as a result, I got quite the visual treat on the way home :-)
8 months

Ravenous the day after a stuffing?

Ditzy:
Oh yes that happens to me too.
The last three days I have eaten my usual large portions but have had some very high calorie deserts on top of that.
I have noticed today I have been hungrier than usual.
Raided my snack drawer all thru the day.
Twinkies, honey buns and a snickers candy bar.
I left work and was so hungry I pulled in Dairy Queen's drive thru and got a double flame thrower meal deal with onion rings and a drink plus a butterfinger blizzard shake for the drive home.
Knowing good and well I was going to have dinner with my BF this evening.


Gotta keep up that big, beautiful figure :-)
8 months