Virtual feeders vs feeders irl

MoomooBunnie:
I really did care for him and he led me to believe he cared for me... Which I was wrong...

I only truly fatten now with real life/online Feeders, no strings just that feeding, no heart strings, I cut those off... I love to eat but my belly/heart sometimes betrays me.

Same thing happened while I was dating a Feeder, He was super gong-ho about it in the beginning, but did not understand what the gaining would do and impact it would do to not only me, but the relationship as well... Thus I lost a great kinky Bf/Dom too...


This is super sad. Sorry to hear you've had such bad luck. Finding someone that loves you is, IMHO, more important than compatible kinks.

Just remember that even cut heartstrings can be mended. You just need the right knots.
8 years

Deviantart links

MoomooBunnie:
Here is mine:

Sort of a mixed set of everything really...

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You're quite talented too. Do I detect a bit o' the old Gothic? A few of your works definitely are darker.
8 years

Being changed by domination?

Maximizeme:
Shouldn't a true dom/sub relationship result in change? How could a sub remain unchanged if choice had been forfeit?


Agreed, but hopefully for the better. I believe in the campsite rule. Leave things better than you found them.

[quote ]Maximizeme:
You're right, I'm mixing terms. Likely because this still exists for me outside reality and fantasy has included both.

I think TPE someday, once trust has been established, and with a few agreed upon parameters (not really total then...?). I'm just a confused gal with lots of desires and hopes and sexy dreams. smiley[/quote]

Making this a reality is a choice, but one you can make even as a submissive or slave. Nobody else really can.

While not tpe I think a few limits for a slave is fair.
8 years

Being changed by domination?

Big Fat Tinkerbell:
I love this, and really want it in real life, not just fantasy. I'd love to be somebody's slave and be forced beyond immobility, them forcing me to eat and breeding me, despite me begging them to stop.


Being pregnant is hard enough, being pregnant while immobile would be absolute agony. What is beyond immobility though?
8 years

Being changed by domination?

Maximizeme:
Shouldn't a true dom/sub relationship result in change? How could a sub remain unchanged if choice had been forfeit?

My ideal fantasy includes me as a sub completely transformed by the relationship with my master. That loss or surrender of control, placing all my choices in his hands, and the new me that will emerge...fascinating! Exhilarating! Pretty hot too!


You say sub but then use the Master term. Are you a sub or a slave? Are you looking for TPE or do you want to keep some control?
8 years

Fat girl bondage


Maximizeme:
Very practical. You always seem to be thinking, planning. smiley


Thanks. Most folks treat life like checkers. Better to play like chess and think several moves ahead.
8 years

Deviantart links

captain nesbit:
Thanks you two

I'm not starving but I'm definitely not getting my fill either


What are you looking for here then, aside from aliens you can fit in a juicer.
8 years

Deviantart links

captain nesbit:
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Took a look at your tumblr and deviantart pages. You're definitely talented. I hope you're not a starving artist.
8 years

Why is gaining so addictive

Maximizeme:
I think it's the very palpable rewards...just feel them. Mmm!

SnM4BDSMinFL:
So the results of the gain are the main reward to you?

Maximizeme:
Sure, if you remember the results are not limited to physical change. The results also include increase libido, sexual satisfaction, pleasing/pleasure of my partner, the occasional food orgasm, the sense of satisfaction in being observed...the list goes on.


That's quite a list! Larger and more libidinous. Now that's a combo I wish more ladies longed for.
8 years

Why is gaining so addictive

Maximizeme:
I think it's the very palpable rewards...just feel them. Mmm!


So the results of the gain are the main reward to you?
8 years