i am biased, because i met my current partner on wooplus. but it's not a social media platform - it's a dating app. yes, it has all the flaws that all of the other dating apps have, so your mileage will vary (heavily!) depending on how you interact with these things. i am surprised as anyone that it worked for me, lol.

there is still a dimension forum - they also have a forum devoted to stories. it doesn't seem to be quite as active as ff, though.

i just re-read your post, and i fail to see anything derogatory in it.

your descriptions of discovering the dimensions website mirror my own, as a fat admirer at the time. i was a fit young man, so i didn't suffer in the way that plus-sized people did, but the stigma towards fat people was so strong then that even admitting you found a fat person attractive was seen as radical. preferring fat over thin seemed insane! i didn't know anyone who was attracted to fat people like i was, so dimensions really did give me that same feeling of, "oh wow, i am not totally alone and a complete misfit!"

great to see another veteran of the dial-up days of feedism!

i think the story section is perfect, the non-fiction stories people have posted there are among some of my favorites.

i am not sure what this is referring to? did the offsensive comment get deleted?

fatcon is for all genders. there have been bhm keynote speakers and guest in the past. they are the minority, but that is understandable given the body positivity focus (as opposed to feedism). fat men tend to have far less stigma associated with them than women amongst "normies."

triggered kink is a great story:
fantasyfeeder.com/stories/view

mirror opposites - pound for pound is by the same author and it is also excellent:

fantasyfeeder.com/weight-gain-stories/view/title/mirror+opposites+-+pound+for+pound/author/Kyzarburner

reversal of roles is a great example of fit to fat:

fantasyfeeder.com/weight-gain-stories/view/title/my+gaining+story+-+reversal+of+roles/author/Giantjay

and the bet by growingsofter is a classic:
fantasyfeeder.com/stories/view

if you look at this new user's profile, and then see this post - i would suggest you are correct, it's not real. this is an anonymous troll trying to be taboo.

this is the best explanation i have read yet of the difference between fetish vs dating platforms!

also keep in mind that if you find someone you are compatible with in a lot of ways, they may come to understand and appreciate your kink, even if they don't share it. my partner didn't even know what feedism was, but we dating because she is into fat guys. i introduced her to this kind of stuff - very gradually! - and over time she found the ways in which it appealed to her.

so not all feedees/feeders are born, some of them transition over time. just don't ram it down someone's throat, let them see what resonates with them.

lol, the first year i heard of this, i said to my partner em, "it's... kind of an awkward name, isn't it?"

whatever - trans people are just people, and as that famous roman philosopher once said, "love 'em all, and let cupid sort them out"