Harker:
Im interested too!
Me too but spring or summer would b better
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lizzyny:
I'm not into the funnel...I would feel like I'm drowning. Besides I'd miss out on the cupcakes.
yes I prefer real food too
5 years
faremol:
So a lot of problems associated to obesity have to do with the diet people have. Like diabetes and sugar or high blood preassure and sodium, and so on. So I was wondering, can you avoid those health issues while eating healthy but still gain weight and get fat?
well I guess age plays a role too
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Yolandabecool5151:
Train sounds good
do yiu really think ppl from NYC will go somewhere else? just asking
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[quote]BBWlover:
[...] Absolutely love the idea of humiliating and degrading them about their size. Grabbing their rolls, spanking their ass [...]
John Smith:
Since when spanking and poking their body parts is humiliating?[/quote
since always. especially in public. but it can b fun
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hav you ever noticed how many ppl were like: naaaaaaaaaah dont go
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ExpandingCuriosity:
hehe... for me this just seems like a good crossroads of feederism and bimbofication. Like, a super cute, squishy girl with cute clothes that are always a little too tight. Or... maybe they fit right when I got dressed this morning? ::thinks hard:: I thought they wer.... "Oh! You brought me another designer donut! Yummy!"
hot
Heh...
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HalloweenQueen:
good for you you did the right thing as long as you do right by you and never settle by not being yourself is all that matters im so sorry you had to go through it
Wanttomakeyoufatter:
Yeah at the end of the day you've got to do what makes you happy
are you looking for a serious rel or just an exp? if you are looking for the former you did well but mind you it is not so easy to look for someone who shares your interests
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curiousv:
The topic of secretly fattening someone, and the controversy around it, often appears on this forum. However, how do we even define it? There are many blurry cases between the two extremes of secret sabotage and signing a waiver before every meal.
I would do 4 but without persuasion. I would just state my preference.
Where do you draw the line between acceptable and not acceptable?
I'm listing them in order of increasing cooperation.
1. spiking their food with appetite enhancers and adding extra calories in secret, humiliating them to manipulate them to comfort-eat more.
2. encouraging without disclosure. Not adding any secret ingredients into their foods, just always having their favorite snacks lying around, inviting them to those restaurants where you know they can't resist eating a lot, persuading them to eat more, reassuring them that they can eat yet one portion more without worries.
3. enabling without disclosure. Similar to #2. just without the persuasion. If they don't want to eat more, then you don't persuade them. You still invite them to fattening places and offer a lot of food, but you don't keep persuading them if they don't want to eat more. You keep the snacks well stocked, but don't actively encourage them to eat them.
4. Limited disclosure. Similar behavior as above, but admitting that you like them as they are, being fat isn't that big of a problem, you accept them no matter what they weigh, you even enjoy them having some pudge, it looks really good on them.
5. Admitting you would like them to gain more weight.
6. Same as 5, but telling it's not just a preference but a strong sexual fetish.
7. Asking for consent before every single meal you offer.
Are there any in-between steps I missed? Where would you draw the line? I think 1 is flat out, 2 and 3 are a grey area and might be OK if they don't feel too miserable about their weight, 4 should be OK with maybe very rare exceptions depending on their personality, and 7 is over the top.
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Bella8belly:
My S/O who is also obese started bringing up losing weight. They’ve now lost 20 pounds since saying that, and I’ve put on nearly 20. They keep encouraging me but I can’t help but stuff my face when they aren’t around. Like filling my face and feeling my tummy stretch until I fall asleep and let all those calories build their way into more fat. They eat a lot but work out, it’s been working for them. I tried working out but I’m tired and lazy and like eating a lot. I want to lose weight because I’m so young and technically morbidly obese. Everyday I’m getting new stretch marks and my s/o doesn’t seem to mind much. But I want to be healthy for them, but again I love overeating and fattening myself. I like it a lot but I need to get healthy.
So conflicted. I know there is a bias on the site, but should I keep gaining for a few more years or start losing while I’m this low? I’ve always wondered what it would be like to be 450pounds. I always said if I pushed 500lbs I’d just keep going there would be no going back. But I’m under and I’m afraid if I get to 450 it’ll be hard to go down and I’ll just keep gaining and gaining. I love my expanding waistline and my blubber that I’ve worked on from years of overeating but I need to be healthy.
I dont understand. do you want to loose weight for him or yrself? if a guy wanted you to b fat against yr will you would tell him to ***. well, it's the same thing
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