YES!

I understand about calling you "Big Momma". Someone needs to know you well enough to know if you are ok with it before using names like that.

It is always best to start out with someone you don't know with politeness and good behavior. There is too much rudeness in general these days.

I am glad that people of all sizes and colors are here. So far as the comment that poc get less attention here, racism is not necessary to explain this.

People like what they like. Some men prefer redheads or blondes, some prefer tall or short. It is not that they dislike women who are tall and dark or regard them as being inferior people.

The truth is, just as the old saying implies "Gentlemen prefer blondes". Statistics show that men prefer to be taller than their love interest as well. It is not a universal rule, and there are lots of exceptions, but it is statistically true.

Statistically, women prefer men who are taller than they are as well.

So, I sympathize with you, but as a poc, you are probably not a natural blonde, or can pass as natural, blonde. That is all that is required to explain the disparity in attention.

it sucks, but there it is. No racism required to explain it.

FYI, my ex was average 5'-4", a plump 180 lb (when I proposed to her) and had dark American-Indian background hair and complexion. Unfortunately, she was also a tramp who cheated on me repeatedly.

agreed

Maybe, I haven't checked since his post was deleted.

"StopGainingFatPlease" gets up every day smug that it is only his superior intellect and insight, and the jealousy thus caused that has resulted in him having no friends.

Sad actually

Wow! Is a English quart the same size as a US one?

Wow, what a hate filled diatribe.

YOU don't get to decide what other people think.

I might add, what an enormous ego you have, that your personal definitions for words take precedence over the commonly accepted meanings present in hundreds of prominent sites from Wikipedia to the Mayo Clinic.

What a #@$% Fascist.

Bugger off.

I actually don't think any of the people on this are transphobes. Some here are kinda data geeks that look everything up and share what they find though ... I plead guilty on that one!

I realize that when you are trans, or gay, or ... it seems very important to you. It is good to understand that it might not be very important to others. And if you don't want discrimination or bigotry, isn't that a great thing?

There is no transphobia in what the man said. He just laid out the facts for you. The fact that you don't LIKE the facts does not make stating them transphobic.

For myself, I don't care if you think you are a man, a woman, or a Labrador Retriever of any sex. I would like you to use your brain and consider all your choices and the consequences in your own best interest.

But if you don't, I support your right to choose and the results are all on you.