Hey y'all

I've been dancing around fully immersing myself in feederism for a LONG while.

I discovered my leanings back in (I think) 2015 or so, maybe 2014? And always thought that I'd be one of those "sometimes enjoying this while having an otherwise vanilla life" people.

However, this month, I've allowed myself to fully take part in a gaining contest, and I realized that this is what I /really/ want to do.

I've discussed it with my therapist, who agrees that mentally it seems that I could benefit from the self-actualization, and my (non-feeder) boyfriend agrees as well.

Shout out to my boyfriend, who is not on this site, but I still want to give him major kudos for taking on the feeder role for me last night so wonderfully

Anyway, this all to say that I'm looking for advice on how to do this in the most healthy way possible.

I'd like to spend my life with my boyfriend, and I'd prefer not to cut it short by my habits (as sexy as life-ending indulgence may sound lol). So right now I'm trying to find a middle path and I'd like some pointers from those who have been in the community longer.

I'd appreciate any tips, thank you!

Oh huh I guess I didn't specify. He's gonna be the one stuffing me.

Alrighty, time for a crowdsourcing:

I'm gonna be doing my first IRL feeding sesh with my boyfriend in a couple of weeks.

While I am usually the dominant one in the relationship, he is very willing and wanting to switch things up to make me happy, and has already arranged the space where we'll do it and everything (we both have roommates in our respective homes and would want privacy lol)

Anyway, what are your tips for a first time IRL stuffing session? Especially relating to folks who aren't into the kink but are partaking for the pleasure of their partners?

I want to make it as fun for him as possible, and it's not necessarily his jam, so I want to make it easy on him.

Update: was 62.5, now 65.7 🙊

62.5 here

Thank you ^__^

I'm ridiculously obsessed with pregnancy. I love how it looks on other people, and I'm DYING to be pregnant myself.

Like AmazingEm, I'm also pretty new, but I love this new layout! Very sharp looking

My only thing I just noticed was that I sent a message with a heart written out < and 3 and that didn't go through...

Well.... we'll see 👀

Highest was 344, right now my scale seems to be borked, but I'm somewhere between 335 and 342