A skill issue? Really?

You know this comment of mine comes from a good place and not necessarily from self-pity. Even if it sounds like it.

The reason why I say that is because I know that I am not the only person who thinks like this, within and outside of the community. I want to speak because I also want some people feel heard, that kind that fears of getting “munched” by you.

And if I am being honest with you, I have absolutely NO SHAME in liking what I like, I mean I wouldn’t even have this username if I did. Of all the people I have dated (none of whom have ever been equal nor smaller than me) I really don’t care what people think about whenever I am seen with someone bigger than me on a date IRL. However in the online world, people are VERY critical, and as a content creator this is something that I have to be well aware of.

But I have been wrong before, I do acknowledge that. And going back to the topic, I DO hope that I am wrong about all of this especially if it’s about fearing that my fearful delusions would come true. Who knows, maybe it won’t be as bad as I thought… but I suppose we shall wait and see.

I’ve got nothing against weight loss. What I am against is people HAVE to do it in order to start living their best life, even though they could still do that without changing. Some people would look at me and think that I have made it and my life is awesome, but reality is not always the case whatsoever.

Plus I also don’t wish to be villainized by having a preference for liking overweight people. Even since the downward spiral of the prime of body/fat positivity, that took a massive hit on my confidence. Now if it’s something that people don’t want, fine by me. But there will be some people who will come after me for encouraging unhealthy lifestyles. - In the outside world’s general public opinion, not in my control unfortunately.

Let’s just say that I have always been in a relationship with someone who is bigger than me, or at best have some sort of belly.

And as an FA myself, I aim to keep it that way if I can.

Okay so I acknowledge that someone like me doesn’t belong in a post like this. But after I just watched OliviasWorld95’s weight loss video on YouTube it kinda kicked me in the head for posting this.

Me personally, with my current lifestyle I do have to be fit for my job and my current interests. Not to mention that as a content creator I also have to feel good and get the drive to get stuff done, especially when it comes to not feeling and looking like crap all the time.

NOW as someone who has an attraction to overweight people. I would want to be the kind of partner who would want to encourage confidence and acceptance for who they are physically and didn’t have to change to get my attention alone. But at the same time I wouldn’t want to put them in a place where they are unhappy and uncomfortable.

(Saying in a jokingly way)
But if it’s my destiny to be attracted to one’s obesity and potential complications, so be it! It’s a cost that I am willing to deal with right before the dice has rolled.

I hope that you are right about this. Because I would hate to live in a reality that was like this.

Oooo! What a good question. As someone who does in fact live up to his own username, I like all sorts of things. But here are some of the belly content things that I like:

The classic belly rubbing and play is always an easy to do especially after a big filling meal. But I also enjoy it when they get to play with their belly button as well, not too bad as an extra!

I also like belly content that involves undressing, so for an example one would take their shirt off and/or unbutton their pants only to let the belly all free and spill out is very hot. Something about the anticipation makes it much more sexy.

And another thing that I like to mention is that if you’re good at any flirty/dirty talk you can do everything I mentioned but talk in a sexy tone. I understand that’s not for everyone, but I believe it might make the content just a little more spicier in my opinion.

Don’t worry I am Canadian enough to know what a slap-shot is! Very nice.

This is an interesting read. But one thing that I do have to say is that just because someone has a preference for liking larger people doesn’t necessarily mean that they have a fetish for that.

I known some guys who say that they are into extra curvy women but absolutely DESPISE feedism. Even that YouTuber Curvy Shrine claimed that he was against it when he was still around. So that’s why I kinda think it’s a little misleading.

Me personally, I can totally be fine being in a relationship without having a fetish for my girlfriend to stuff herself… unless that’s something that she wants to do. But does that stop me from loving her and enjoying her curves or chub? Of course not! This is a tricky subject to figure out, but that’s just my current thoughts on the matter right now.

Where I am from in Canada it’s as clear as day.

Thank you! I would say that my Christmas was a success compared to last year. 2024 was a pretty bumpy of a year for my mental health, hopefully the next year will be different. But you can’t always guarantee with today’s social climate.

But that’s just me, don’t let my silly comment get you. This is a moment to celebrate the coming of a fresh new year!