MlekoWTubce:
Thanks for response.
Tbh no, i ve never talked with therapist in my life. This problem is purely sexual and i think im too embarassed to talk abt it now with therapist

MlekoWTubce:
Hi everyone, I’m really struggling and hoping to get advice from people who might understand. I’m a 24M feeder in a 7-year relationship with my partner 24F. I love her deeply – she’s beautiful, we connect emotionally, and she means the world to me. I’ve never cheated on her and never would; I’m fully committed to her and our relationship. But my feederism fetish is causing serious problems, and I feel completely lost. My partner used to have some extra weight – not morbidly obese, just overweight – and I found her body incredibly attractive. Sex was great (we both came every time)

A while ago, she started losing weight for health and personal reasons, going from overweight to a slimmer figure. I respect her choice completely, as I want her to be healthy and happy. However, her smaller body doesn’t align with my preferences, and I struggle to stay aroused during intimacy. This isn’t about her as a person. She’s still gorgeous, with a beautiful face, and I’m as in love with her as ever. But my fetish is very specific to fuller shapes, and I can’t seem to get past the changes in her body. It’s affecting our sex life, and I’m worried it’s pulling us apart.

We’ve tried talking about it, but it went badly. She got very upset, called my fetish “disgusting,” and said I’m “sick” for wanting her to be bigger. She also mentioned that other guys find her attractive, which really hurt. Her reaction left me feeling guilty and ashamed, but I still can’t change how i feel.

I’m not interested in an open relationship, and I’d never pressure her to gain weight – I respect her autonomy and want her to feel good about herself. But I’m scared that if she keeps losing weight, I’ll never feel sexually satisfied again, and I don’t want to lose her because she’s so important to me.

Has anyone else been in a similar situation? How did you handle a partner’s weight loss when it clashed with your feederism fetish? Were you able to find a compromise, or did it lead to a breakup? Any tips on how to talk to her without hurting her further? I’m desperate to make this work, but I feel stuck.Thanks for reading – I’d really appreciate any thoughts, experiences, or advice from others who’ve been through this.

TL;DR: 24M feeder in a 7-year relationship with 24F partner. Love her deeply, but her weight loss for health reasons clashes with my preferences, affecting our sex life. She reacted negatively when I tried discussing it, leaving me feeling guilty. I respect her autonomy and don’t want an open relationship, but I’m struggling with arousal and fear losing her. Seeking advice on handling this, possibly through therapy or compromise, without hurting her further.

PuppySoleil:
Somewhat of my first time posting and I’m not exactly sure if this is the correct area to put this.
I’ve been wondering if my fellow feedees/gainers actually eat straight butter to gain weight and if they are, how much? I’m plateauing with my weight and I’m trying to figure out easy and quick ways to help.

KyleFatty:
I’ve been actively gaining weight now for 2 months. I used to eat relatively normal, with the occasional stuffing on random days.

But this last week I’ve just been constantly eating everything and stuffing myself any chance I get! I just can’t stop eating!! I’ve been noticing more subtle changes in my body aswell. Next weeks weigh in I’m hoping for a jump!

Sipider74:
Hi , How are you all doing? I'm new and I need to take things off my chest And I think this is a safe heaven to say it please don't judge me before I say anything. Since I was five years old I dressed up as a fat person I always did it privately, In the beginning It was only progress over years . T shirt and pillows when I was little boy.. I was 12 I saw a lady in red Very large lady. in Queens NY. At that time I said to my friend but he wasn't interested but I was hooked ever since I always large ladies. My question Does other people do this. Now I'm 50 years old and still do it in privacy time but I ruin a lot of closets when doing it It's a sickness of mine. I don't know how to stop It's really embarrassed 50 years life. say this but I kept this to myself my whole life My mom and dad had an idea They saw me a couple time but they knew it was just a phase My parents died and they're gone and I still do it on a private time. Are there other men that does this I really want a large lady to understand about my fetish if I meet that person and I always love large ladies because of this. Please don't judge me It's really embarrassing, My friends don't know this The only person I told in my lifetime was my therapist and she understood it and she told me there are other people that does this behaviors Please don't judge me.

MyBigGut:
Since the spooky season of Halloween is now upon us, let me your thoughts on your favorite candies, and how much of it?

MaryK:
I am out here looking for someone that can feed me fat. I’m size 17 and I want to grow to size 32

FatBottomFrau102:
So I'm still super new here, it's very possible I just haven't found the right corner of the site yet.
Any who, I'm noticing very seldom home cooking and meal prep are discussed as a whole.
I'm a huge Foodie on top of being a Gainer. I love cooking and baking. I'm so excited for this time of year and making all sorts of great food and eating it of course lol.

So I guess my questions are, where are my fellow home cooks/bakers at? What are some of your go-to dishes, especially this time of year?

ShadowMike:
Doubtful

Munchies:
Ooh, is this cutiepie's way of asking me to domme him? Does he want to kneel on the floor, ass in the air as I press his face in the feeding trough? Does he want me to tease him from behind, but never getting release until I'm satisfied with his fullness?

Does he want to polish my strap?

Use your words, baby girl ~

Feeding4Fun:
This argument is kind of turning me on, I can’t lie 🥵

Romy:
Immobility requires significant expenses to access comforts, in addition to requiring permanent assistance. In my case, we had to hire a nurse.
The bariatric lift is essential, but when I reached 900 lbs, it was torture to be suspended in the air with it.
Too much weight, and the bed compressed my entire body, causing me great pain.
They helped me gain weight, and I enjoyed eating everything I could swallow at each meal. But at my heaviest weight, I was completely useless and couldn't turn over in bed without assistance; getting out of bed with the lift was impossible.
The fluid retention was extreme, and they couldn't control my blood pressure; my legs hurt a lot.
I was extremely limited by my weight, and all the comforts I had in my room became useless. I was truly suffering from my weight.
Still, no one stopped feeding me, and I didn't stop demanding food either. Luckily, I collapsed due to my high blood pressure, and my husband said enough was enough.
I lost weight and am on a "controlled" calorie diet. It's not a diet, and sometimes they let me overeat, but my body reached its limit there.
Today I weigh 700 pounds, and I remember that at that weight I could walk, but I'm still bedridden.
Being in a bed with no comforts was horrible, and even more so having poor hygiene because of my body size.