Munchies:
Idk, but I'm also black, so Imma leave that one up to the white people to figure out.

Enas:
Im curious on why you would say that. Do you think the color of your skin affects your ability to judge the sppearance of people that have a different colored skin? (propably not)

Im also asking because i know that you’re really not uncomfortable with expressing your opinion on others' sppearances (and im not saying this as a bad thing, im just making an observation), so why is race the consideration for what is axeptable or not?

123456kevin:
18F, I’m straight but I can like, yknow, appreciate when another woman is attractive even though I wouldn’t screw them. Fat/chubby girls have always been what I think of when I think “pretty” rather than skinny girls. I’ve definitely noticed I’m in the minority but a lot of times I’ll come across a skinny girl and just think “yup, that is indeed a person” but I see a fat girl and I’m like “WTF!? She’s so hot!”. I never got the whole “skinny’s the beauty standard” thing? With fat girls there’s more to hug and cuddle, but that’s just me. There’s a cap for me of course, I don’t think like Tess Holiday is attractive, but someone like super taruco? Idk why that’s not considered hot, she’s so cute! With skinny girls they usually are just, yknow, people to me. Not as interesting as fat chicks. Idk, am I weird for that lol

Munchies:
This line of thinking is more common with white and Asian communities. Black and brown communities generally prefer curvy/thick women.

And rural communities of all stripes prefer women with "meat on their bones" as thin women are often not capable of manual labor.

That said, thin being in was not always the case. It goes back and forth every few decades. Back in the 50s, they advertized weight gain powders to women to be "more attractive".

Hell, big boobs used to be considered unattractive at one point, and every man I have ever met loves big boobs.

123456kevin:
That actually makes sense I guess cause I am black? But I think white women look the best larger… hope that dosent sound racist lol. Their bodies just tend to fill in a way that looks really cute! But any race looks cute bigger imo, literally any one. No exceptions.

Kacchan:
If I might provide a note with love: the fact that you are using ethnicity to discuss your preference and then classify one as "the best" IS racist.

But I also feel like you are not an awful person, nor are you expressing yourself maliciously - given that you follow up with the statement that you prefer all races to be bigger.

It's okay to just say that you love bigger bodies of all sizes and ethnicities and not qualify one as the best.

So - no judgement from me - just hoping to give kind coaching and to help keep the discussion on your original intent of how hot and attractive fat people are.

Weetabix:
Nothing bad with racism in sexual preferences. You like what you like and are free to say so (unless someone manages to shut you up).

123456kevin:
18F, I’m straight but I can like, yknow, appreciate when another woman is attractive even though I wouldn’t screw them. Fat/chubby girls have always been what I think of when I think “pretty” rather than skinny girls. I’ve definitely noticed I’m in the minority but a lot of times I’ll come across a skinny girl and just think “yup, that is indeed a person” but I see a fat girl and I’m like “WTF!? She’s so hot!”. I never got the whole “skinny’s the beauty standard” thing? With fat girls there’s more to hug and cuddle, but that’s just me. There’s a cap for me of course, I don’t think like Tess Holiday is attractive, but someone like super taruco? Idk why that’s not considered hot, she’s so cute! With skinny girls they usually are just, yknow, people to me. Not as interesting as fat chicks. Idk, am I weird for that lol

Munchies:
This line of thinking is more common with white and Asian communities. Black and brown communities generally prefer curvy/thick women.

And rural communities of all stripes prefer women with "meat on their bones" as thin women are often not capable of manual labor.

That said, thin being in was not always the case. It goes back and forth every few decades. Back in the 50s, they advertized weight gain powders to women to be "more attractive".

Hell, big boobs used to be considered unattractive at one point, and every man I have ever met loves big boobs.

123456kevin:
That actually makes sense I guess cause I am black? But I think white women look the best larger… hope that dosent sound racist lol. Their bodies just tend to fill in a way that looks really cute! But any race looks cute bigger imo, literally any one. No exceptions.

123456kevin:
Never had sex before and I personally don’t want to, but from what I know about it, I think that may be a bit dangerous if they’re dangling earrings. Could accidentally tear one out with how much moving between two bodies there is

Outside of that though I doubt any woman would mind that, it’s a pretty easy to fulfill request

123456kevin:
18F, I’m straight but I can like, yknow, appreciate when another woman is attractive even though I wouldn’t screw them. Fat/chubby girls have always been what I think of when I think “pretty” rather than skinny girls. I’ve definitely noticed I’m in the minority but a lot of times I’ll come across a skinny girl and just think “yup, that is indeed a person” but I see a fat girl and I’m like “WTF!? She’s so hot!”. I never got the whole “skinny’s the beauty standard” thing? With fat girls there’s more to hug and cuddle, but that’s just me. There’s a cap for me of course, I don’t think like Tess Holiday is attractive, but someone like super taruco? Idk why that’s not considered hot, she’s so cute! With skinny girls they usually are just, yknow, people to me. Not as interesting as fat chicks. Idk, am I weird for that lol

Gainingdream:
thanks everyone.. I can “easily” get 4/5 thousand calories a day (including a shake) I just want to try to get to 10 thousand for a week, to see how much extra weight I gain.. but sometimes I have a week that I don’t get over 2400 calories and get full faster.. do you have any tips for that?

Squirrelscanbeblue:
You need to raise your insulin by drinking milk and load up on carbs preferably right before you go to sleep in order to gain quickly and avoid getting diabetes

FatCat300:
Is anyone here glad about being extremely obese or immobile? I have always thought of what it would be like myself to weigh as much as 500, 600, or maybe even 1,000 lbs. I actually did a search online for if people are glad that they weigh 600 lbs but I actually get a lot of negative stuff. I even came access stuff from “My 600 Pound Life”.

Any regrets or no? How does it make you feel physically and/or emotionally?

Munchies:
You've asked this before

fantasyfeeder.com/forum/posts

English Feeder:
Surely it's not a problem?
Isn't the forum for open discussion?
What is the problem with a repost?
Maybe other people will get to see the post who didn't see the original post? Just opens up the opportunity for general discussion?

Munchies:
Didn't say it was or wasn't. All I said was he asked this before.

And then I provided the link so all may see the prior responses.

English Feeder:
Just if you look at your post it looks aggressive. In the whole run of things i have nearly died twice and had heart surgery twice. I just think so what at this stage of my life.
Oh god bless the NHS. LOL

English Feeder:
My partner is in a wheelchair. But it was something she wanted years before it became necessary.
She enjoys me pushing her and taking her to restaurants and public places. We live in England and disabled access is available everywhere. Not that we use public transport but buses can lower there suspension. ( A few exceptions old buildings ) She has a made to measure bariatric wheelchair. We have found that the general public and staff are always helpful and accommodating. Holding doors. Finding suitable access. But regarding the general thread there are several ways of looking at it. If i was not accommodating in my partner's need for a wheelchair would she have chosen to loose mobility to where she needs a wheelchair? I have on occasion gone to the pub ( i like a ale ) i have had enough ready to leave a mate will say don't go yet let me get you another pint. It leads to what we call a session.I end up having a curry or Chinese maybe a kebab on the way home. End up getting home early hours. Wake up with a thick head. Was it my mates fault??? No....
Did i have a good night? Actually yes
If you apply that to the current thread everything is ok. We don't know the personal dynamics of the relationship. But i do agree there could be red flags. Everything in life is fine provided it's by mutual consent.

Munchies:
You didn't read the thread either.

The issue is not "fattening your partner so much they need a wheelchair." If both you and your partner have had open, honest conversations with enthusiastic consent on both ends, I don't care. You do you boo.

The issue is he did not do that with her. He made is extremely clear that he "convinced" her to do this. She did not want to do this. He's been subtilty manipulating her until she made her peace with her circumstances.

I'm not looking for subtext. I am reading exactly what he said. I am taking this man at his word without adding or subtracting anything that he's said.

Don't defend people just because you are trying put on a shoe that doesn't fit you. It ain't a cute look.

English Feeder:
Looks like you make a lot of assumptions . I can read by the way.
Lol

FatCat300:
Is anyone here glad about being extremely obese or immobile? I have always thought of what it would be like myself to weigh as much as 500, 600, or maybe even 1,000 lbs. I actually did a search online for if people are glad that they weigh 600 lbs but I actually get a lot of negative stuff. I even came access stuff from “My 600 Pound Life”.

Any regrets or no? How does it make you feel physically and/or emotionally?

Munchies:
You've asked this before

fantasyfeeder.com/forum/posts

English Feeder:
Surely it's not a problem?
Isn't the forum for open discussion?
What is the problem with a repost?
Maybe other people will get to see the post who didn't see the original post? Just opens up the opportunity for general discussion?