Wow, that's incredible! You dated three guys who were attracted to the same scene, that's some serious luck.

Oh yeah, and when I was little, I also used to drink liters of water to make my stomach swell up, and then I'd look at my swollen belly in the mirror.

Oh my god, cartoons should be banned. They corrupt our children's minds and turn them into decadent perverts sinners guided by the devil 🤣

And the fact that it’s completely unintentional on the part of these cartoons and movies is really funny too.

I don’t know why, but honestly, I’ve always found it funny. I think there are a lot of scenes of body distortion or exaggeration that we see in cartoons as children, which unintentionally leave a mark on us and give rise to these kinks or fetishes. The same goes for some movies, and it often happens during childhood. For me, one of the biggest kink generators I’ve seen was the scene where Violet inflates and turns purple in the movie “Charlie and the Chocolate Factory.” I’ve seen tons of big guys 🐻dress up as giant purple balls inflating, to copy that exact scene from the movie. And you, have you developed any kinks or fetishes from watching certain scenes in cartoons or movies?

And which scenes were they?
For me, my belching fetish partly came about from seeing a shark let out loud belches in the streets of an underwater city.

In any case, it’s something that happens much more often than we think, developing kinks and fetishes because of what we watched on TV when we were children or older

It is surprising that they were initially reserved for gay men, when anyone, regardless of their sex or sexual orientation, can be attracted to being overweight

Hey! I realize I've been able to indulge quite a few fantasies and fetishes (burping in my face, having my stomach pinched, food, role-playing with voracious appetites, wearing clothes that are too small, stomach caresses) thanks to the internet, which allowed me to meet people who share these fantasies. I was wondering if, born a few decades earlier, I would have been able to indulge these same fantasies without the internet and sites like Grommr. Frankly, I consider myself lucky to have been born in our time, and I wonder how people in the past managed to meet others with the same fantasies, without the internet and these specialized dating sites.

Do you have any idea how they did it?

Let's hope that happens one day then 😄

Have overweight people ever crushed you under their big bellies, or have you ever crushed someone with yours?

Hey! Thanks to the dating site Grommr, I've met several hot big guys who burped in my face and crushed me under their big bellies during our dates, and it was truly amazing.

And I was wondering if you too have had the "pleasure" of being crushed under the bellies of overweight people.

Tell me why it happened, in what context, how you felt, or if you're the one who crushed someone under your big belly, tell me why, etc.

I’m writing this post because I was wondering if I’m the only one who gets turned on by certain everyday scenes involving burping, especially seeing a big guy 🐻 burp loudly and unabashedly in inappropriate places (restaurants, buses, subways, shops, banks, offices, classrooms). What turns me on even more is that the people around him are bothered and disgusted by the burps, and that he notices but doesn’t care and continues to burp nonchalantly. I don’t know why, but the fact that it’s in an inappropriate place, and that the people around him are embarrassed and bothered, is a scenario that sexually arouses me and makes me laugh. I’d love to experience that someday. What about you? What do you think? Are you attracted to that too?

I can imagine how cool it must be to be invited to a meal at a friend’s house, and then the father or uncle of the family lets out a huge, monstrous burp in the middle of the meal, and the grandmothers and mothers are offended and indignant at this burp in front of the guests. It would be sexy, especially if afterwards he lifts his t-shirt and rubs his big hairy belly in front of everyone to show that he ate well, before burping again. It’s so embarrassing and rude 😍🥵

Oh yeah, I forgot, but I also like big men 🐻, but in a particular way. I like big, well-proportioned men (according to my personal and subjective tastes). And I don't like them if they're "too" fat (if you feel like slapping me, I understand 😆). I'm a pain with my narrow-minded criteria. So, I have this additional problem: even some big men 🐻 don't attract me if they're too fat or poorly proportioned. But yes, I think it's clearly one of the best things to do: reflect on my life and what I want to share with the type of person I'm attracted to. And I also think that when you're romantically attracted to someone, physical appearance becomes secondary. I know that quite a few people are in relationships with guys who weren't physically attractive to them at first, but I'd have to fall in love first for that.

I’m writing this post because I was wondering if I’m the only one here who sometimes gets bothered by having particular kinks and fetishes (I have a lot), in addition to being attracted to only one specific body type (stocky, big, fat men, and hairy​ 🐻) and being gay too (oh yeah, and I’m graysexual or ace). It greatly limits my choices in life when it comes to sexuality. Whenever I had the opportunity to have sex with guys I politely declined because, of course, I wasn’t very interested in sex, and they didn’t attract me physically because I’m only attracted to one specific body type. I don’t know why I’m so “strict,” “specific,” and “complicated” in my sexual tastes, but it’s not something I control. Unfortunately, we don’t decide what we are or aren’t attracted to. I have kinks, and Attractions that deviate greatly from the norm. Luckily, thanks to Grommr, I’ve sometimes met big guys🐻with whom I’ve been able to fulfill fetishes and kinks( face burping, belly crushing, feederism ), but I haven’t managed to stay in touch with them. What’s also strange is that I’ve never been in love in my entire life, even though I’m 30. I sometimes wonder if I might be aromantic too. But I don’t know. (Maybe I’m one of those people who only experience sexual pleasure with those who have had a deep emotional connection, I don’t know). And you, do you also feel handicapped or restricted by your kinks, fetishes, or specific attractions?

And how do you deal with this on a daily basis? Have you found a way to fix it? (For me, it’s the Grommr app, but I rarely meet big guys 🐻 on it.)

List of my fetishes and kinks.

Gaybears belly 🐻
Burping.
Vore.
Macro, micro.
Feeding.
Belly play
Belly rub 🐻
Belly squashing.
Belly Roll/belly wave
Belly gurgle noise.
Eating like a pig.
To small clothings.
Deep belly button.
Fat Guy teasing 🐻