Cardboard***:
imma be honest fellas i only really signed up here for lurking yet this hedonistic purity guy has been so fucking godawful that i, a lone 21 year old lurker from North Yorkshire who does't even talk anywhere on here, am stepping in to say "Romy clearly does not want to be involved in death feedism. she's gotten herself into a rather difficult predicament, and it's clear she's at a point where she wants to get out of this difficult predicament"
honestly who the hell goes up to a clearly struggling online person and says "i'm so proud of you!" in response to their struggles? fucking disgusting.
anyway this will probably be the only post i make on this forum, good day.
Valid
3 months
Munchies:
I'm not, actually. This whole thing started when you told a woman struggling with an eating disorder to keep eating despite knowing this would kill her.
You wished for this woman's death despite her making it very clear she is not a death feedee.
And when several people told you to leave her alone, you persisted. That is harassment. Do you think I reported you for harassing me? I reported you for harassing her.
We women have to look out for each other because men like you make it dangerous for us.
I am grateful that two other men stepped up to defend her, too. Because that shows that you are the one being the problem. This isn't a case of some overly sensitive woman not understanding how men are. This is a you being a creep thing.
Be better.
One of the most beautiful parts of this community is the idea that you can change your body however you see fit. In my case, I'm going for a muscle chub look, and while it's not the most common body type on here it's what I want for myself, and no one can convince me otherwise. And so I've set soft limits for myself, I don't want lose my mobility. I don't mind if it's reduced but I don't want it gone completely.
Romy has already achieved and surpassed her goals, she has the right to decide where she wants to take her body next. The difference between munchies, myself, and hell even enas is that we are trying to support her very difficult decision, while you are trying to run counter to it. You have no right to cheer for her downfall, Romy made one misstep on what's going to be a very long weight loss journey. She needs support not heckling
3 months
Hedonistic_Purity:
I'm so happy for you!
Munchies:
Piss off. We all know you are wanting her to die. It would be one thing if that'a what she wanted, but it's not.
Even Weetabix, another death feeder, has more decorum than you.
Hedonistic_Purity:
No I just want her to eat. As much as she wants.
Munchies:
Which is killing her. I said what I said. I've seen your posts. I know what you are about. I'm not stupid. Go back to the feedees that want to eat themselves to death. She isn't one of them.
Hedonistic_Purity:
Nah, I just want her to enjoy herself. She loves to eat.
SumoSized:
Dude she's gained to the point that it's no longer enjoyable, she's already heavier than most gainers/feedees on this site will ever be. Let her get back to a weight where she can enjoy herself again, and if you don't think this is so bad, why don't you gain 800 lbs and see if you'd want to keep gaining? I'm sure once you reach that weight you'll realize it's not all what its cracked up to be
Hedonistic_Purity:
She can do whatever she wants. I don't have to LET her do anything. But eat.
Munchies:
Bitch, piss off. I'm reporting your ass for harassment.
Hedonistic_Purity:
You're not the arbiter of this thread, friendo.
Munchies:
You've still been reported.
And we look out for vulnerable people. We do not encourage their continued misery. If you really are a fellow hedonist and not a predator, you would know that.
Hedonistic_Purity:
Your looking out sounds a lot like simping. I've also reported you for your harassment.
Lads, is it simping to give advice to woman who asked for advice on the Internet?
3 months
Romy:
My diet is a total failure. I binge eat secretly from my husband and ultimately he knows it because the scale doesn't lie.
My nurse was condemned to fight with me because I didn't give me food and with my husband for providing it.
My husband is tired of dealing with me and decided to leave everything in my hands.
When I want to eat no one tells me anything. Now the diet is in my hands.
This is a disaster. I start crying while binge eating, but I can't stop ordering fast food and swallowing like a pig.
My physical therapist came to my house and I was eating hamburgers. The look on that guy's face was atrocious and I imagine he only thought "I get paid to do my job and keep my schedule."
I feel like no one helps me and they left me alone to my own devices, but I don't make the slightest effort either and I can't help it either, because the desire to eat is so strong that I end up eating everything on my table.
Hedonistic_Purity:
I'm so happy for you!
Munchies:
Piss off. We all know you are wanting her to die. It would be one thing if that'a what she wanted, but it's not.
Even Weetabix, another death feeder, has more decorum than you.
Hedonistic_Purity:
No I just want her to eat. As much as she wants.
Munchies:
Which is killing her. I said what I said. I've seen your posts. I know what you are about. I'm not stupid. Go back to the feedees that want to eat themselves to death. She isn't one of them.
Hedonistic_Purity:
Nah, I just want her to enjoy herself. She loves to eat.
Dude she's gained to the point that it's no longer enjoyable, she's already heavier than most gainers/feedees on this site will ever be. Let her get back to a weight where she can enjoy herself again, and if you don't think this is so bad, why don't you gain 800 lbs and see if you'd want to keep gaining? I'm sure once you reach that weight you'll realize it's not all what its cracked up to be
3 months
SumoSized:
Has anyone else experienced random spikes where they've put on quiet a few pounds all at once? I've been weighing myself weekly and since last Thursday I've gained 8 lbs which is quite significant for me as I've been stuck on a months long plateau.
I've been consistently eating between 3,000-4,000 calories per day for the last few months now, and haven't seen much results until now. Does anyone know what causes these plateaus and sudden spikes? I know in the long run 8 lbs isn't much but it feels like a lot to put on in a week
Munchies:
Lotta reasons, but it typically has to do with your hormone fluctuations.
Also, there's a non-zero chance that some of that is water weight.
I guarantee a decent amount of it is probably water weight but I have gained around 18 lbs since I moved out back in November so not all of it is water weight. I'm just excited to finally see some results
3 months
FattenedByCirce:
I think my snacks end up being more than I’d anticipated and that’s why I’m so stuffed all the time. I like the idea of given the internals a rest, just need to develop some willpower to stop all the snacking between feasts
Honestly I'd do some experimenting if I were you, one day do big feasts and stuffings and count up all the calories you eat as the day goes along, and then the next day eat your meal like normal (maybe give yourself slightly bigger servings but nothing to extreme) and just do light snacking throughout the whole day. Then after both days compare how many calories you've eaten
3 months
Has anyone else experienced random spikes where they've put on quiet a few pounds all at once? I've been weighing myself weekly and since last Thursday I've gained 8 lbs which is quite significant for me as I've been stuck on a months long plateau.
I've been consistently eating between 3,000-4,000 calories per day for the last few months now, and haven't seen much results until now. Does anyone know what causes these plateaus and sudden spikes? I know in the long run 8 lbs isn't much but it feels like a lot to put on in a week
3 months
Sporadic for sure, I've found that if I do too big of a stuffing my appetite is killed for most of the day, but if I sneak those calories in through out the day just by snacking, I'm actually eating more and don't feel as full
3 months
I'm finally starting to break out of my half a year long plateau and have reached 230 lbs. Moving out has definitely helped my gain as I'm finally able to eat whatever I want without feeling judged. My short term goal is to make it to 252 since that'll be double my weight when I first started intentionally gaining weight back in high school. Hopefully I'll reach that within the first half of the year but I guess we'll see.
3 months
The accidental gainer (ex-jock)
Honestly not a surprise at all
3 months
