I personally had this experience back in my mid-30s. Got tired of the yo-yo dieting and decided to just eat what I wanted, when I wanted. Gained 130 lbs over a ten year period and loved it. My wife has also given up trying to diet which makes me very happy. Has put on 50 lbs. so far.
4 years
Obeznany:
It's a dream about obesity with love. Every pound for her. Measurement of weight and her smile when she sits on my full stomach.
Love your description. I would love that as well. Having a woman fatten me for her own sexual pleasure would be such a turn-on and so much fun. And if she were a mutual gainer it would be even better. So erotic, so sexy.
4 years
I was in shape and 175 lbs. throughout college. My high in high school was 205 lbs. After marriage I began putting on weight slowly but surely and when I reached 205 again I found myself getting turned-on at the thought of just letting myself go. Over the next 10 years during my 30's I packed on 130 lbs. and reached a high of 305 lbs. I decided just to live my life, never diet, and enjoy all the foods I love. I have settled in around 285 lbs. which seems to be a set point for me. I am 5"10" and have a 60" belly, and 54" chest and hips with very large, full moobs. I have really enjoyed being fat.
4 years
I love the holiday season. All the treats, desserts, comfort foods that are high in calories. I usually put on at least 10 lbs. between Thanksgiving and New Years day. I love just letting myself go and fattening up even more. So much fun, so delicious, so erotic.
4 years
[quote] I don't think this qualifies as secret feeding. It is more like encouraging someone to do something they really want to do anyway.
She_will_encourage_you:Yep, this! We were at a bbq, and he was debating about having his mini bottled shot of limoncello "now" or "later".
I made the point that he could enjoy it now and if he really wanted one, get another one later (since he was thinking of saving it for the flight he was going to take later that day).
About an hour later, I happened to walk by him, and he ended up having his lil shot "now".
The only main turn on aspect of this for me as a feeder, is that he's a bit over 300 lbs.
That's about it
I love the thought of this. To have a woman like yourself encourage me to eat more and take pleasure in my expanding 60" belly. I know I would totally succumb to you and continue to pack on the pounds.
4 years
I would absolutely love it. The fact that the obesity rate in the US is now over 40% means we are well on our way. Another 35% are overweight. Just love the thought of obesity being the norm and everyone celebrating it and trying to become even fatter. Such a world would be so nice.
4 years
fxxf:
Plz tease me, turns me on so much
I have seen your videos Laura, you are turning into a luscious fat pig. I know how much your soft fat turns you on. You are going to get so fat you won't be able to sit up without assistance. Your rolls of fat will be bulging out of your clothes. You have no self-control. How could a beautiful woman like you let yourself go so much. What a fattie!
4 years
While I have never been in a feeder/feedee relaltionship, I consider myself open to both. I have always loved fat women for as long as I can remember and in my mid-30's decided to become a self-feeder in a sense by eating whatever I wanted whenever I wanted. I found that I really enjoyed gaining weight and after putting on 130 lbs. and reaching 305 I have leveled off at 280 and really still enjoy self-feeding and being a BHM.
5 years
sweetfattie:
Absolutely. For years I denied my fetish, convinced that nobody would ever want me if I was fat and that my life would be better if I was thin. So I dieted way down, but I was miserable. Always hungry and disgusted at how much better strangers treated me. Losing a large amount of weight reveals just how shallow most people are.
Finally I couldn't take it anymore. I craved the feeling of a full belly. And around that time I discovered feedism and the FA community. I could have both food and a romantic partner! So I decided to embrace my fat. I ate what I wanted and slowly packed on the pounds.
Later I tried being a feedee and liked it. Same with mutual feeding, as long as my partner wants to stay smaller than me. Now I am 354 lbs and loving it!
Love reading your explanation and I for one am so happy for you. I went through a similar experience 20+ years ago. I love to eat and have been naturally attracted to fat women ever since I can remember. I went through numerous diets, weight going up and down, and I finally said enough. I decided in my mid-30s to eat what I want, when I wanted and let nature take its course. I was so happy I did and slowly and steadily gained 130 lbs. over a 10 year period. After reaching 305 lbs. I have leveled off around 280 which seems to be my natural set point and love living a life of delicious food, a full belly and being a BHM.
5 years
I love reading about how Americans keep growing fatter and how obesity rates keep increasing. I am seeing so many attractive women now who are over 300 lbs. it is amazing. Going to restaurants, food courts, etc. and seeing so many women of all ages stuffing themselves and growing ever fatter is such a turn-on for me.
5 years
