Anyone really into very large backsides?

A huge soft butt,combined with belly apron shoehorned into tight leggings is a sight to behold and as sexy as hell !!smiley
13 years

Awful relationships and you.

La Guillotine wrote:
I met my ex online, I had known him for years, since I was 14. I moved all the way out to Michigan to be with him. He was an adorable paranoid schizophrenic with severe aspergers and a sprinkling of hypochondria, all of this I could deal with, however I could not handle living with his insane parents and hateful sister. He refused to move out even though we could afford it, so I left. Worst part of it is we still work together so I get to hear about him all the time from co workers and see him about 2 or 3 times a week. smiley


I Wish someone could deal with my bipolar condition,before my medication made me more stable,I ruined the chance of a life with the most fantastic SSBBW you could ever imagine,both beautiful and caring,
But even I was too much to handle,in many ways,and she finished with me after 2 years,massive credit to her for trying,but I was too clingy,and easily upset ,and the manic part of the bipolar made me behave a bit strangely ,even though I wasn't aware.
Maybe one day there will be a BBW out there for me,but as it is now all hope has evaporated,and I wouldn't want to inflict myself on anybody.smiley
13 years

Bellies

Have dated women in the past with most belly types,from two handful sized rolls to a huge sexy belly with a 24 inch apron,that was really something,2 years of heaven smiley
13 years

Feeling alone at your size

shazzy wrote:
I do know some amazing people just sadly they are quite away, away and sadly cash always comes into not being able to see people.
My husband makes me very happy, but he isn't the same as hanging out with a group of friends and having a laugh.
I just find sometimes that I feel very alone, not because he isn't here or doesn't spend time with me, but more he doesn't understand and isn't near my size. But also we have complete different interests.
I guess it makes one of the reasons why I would like to be slightly slimmer just so life would be so much easier.


We all have to choose what route to take in life,sadly I chose the wrong one,taking that into account in addition to other issues I have has really ruined the last couple of years for me,I hope outside influences don't push you one way or another,you are a lovely young lady,and I wish you well
13 years

Where you stand in "reality"

shazzy wrote:
Like, if you have a significant other or sexual partners.. do they know?
My husband knows I love food and it is a big part of my life plus how can I hide my size in the "real" world

Do your friends know? How would you feel or how do you feel if people you are close to knew or know?
Most of my friends are very open and accepting people

Do you come here just to look, admire, or fanticize? Or are you actually looking for something more here on FF?
I come here to chat and discuss things that mean something to me, if I meet friends along the way so be it, but if not then ah well

I guess the thing with being a ssbbw and a big girl all my life, I have never been able to hide the fact I am fat. Obviously the reasons I am fat is because I love to eat more than my body burns in calories in a day!
It some times does annoy me that people who wish to be with a gainer,bbw or a feedee love the fat of the fat person in their life, but also wish to hide them. I think if you are willing to be with these people you should have the guts to shout it loud and proud, lets be honest this is one life and you may as well be happy, not hiding things. Plus if your friends and family love you they will want you happy, although they may worry about your health etc, it is always best to reassure them and keep your own heart healthy along your or your partners journey


I tried this ''Loud and proud route'' with a previous significant other,but it caused some friction,indeed it was the beginning of the end for ussmiley
13 years

What song reminds you of you?

''Vincent'' by Don Maclean,
As I feel I am a exceptionally loving ,talented person,but deeply flawed inside,so much that these flaws ruined the most wonderful love I ever experienced,and can now never go back theresmiley
I very much doubt that anyone can put up with me,so I have vowed to remain alone.
13 years

First kiss

My first kiss was with a young BBW called Donna, I was 19 and she was 17,Thought it was my best kiss ever until I had my first kiss with my last ex Girlfriend but one four years ago,That sparked a passion explosion !!!smiley
13 years

Whats turns you off

I think the biggest turn off is a mouth full of rotten,broken teeth,I mean no slur on those who have dental phobias,but those who just can't be bothered.

After that it must be BBWs/SSBBWs who wear passion killer underwear
I used to date a beautiful SSBBW who used to to make her own sexy undies,in the absence of said garments for 500lb plus ladies,and with great success too !!
13 years