Gayfeedee1:
I have been making my shakes by hand. Poor me i know. Using a pestal and mortar and some other stuff i hate how long it takes. What is the best brand of blender for making shakes im am from the uk.

Bigwideland:
What do other do to manage this development.
Ss per pic, the skin is tight at the folds when I flex the foot up.

Munchies:
I'm no doctor, but that looks like lymphedema. Do you feel any pain?

Bigwideland:
I do not get any pain or any discomfort as such.

Bigwideland:
What do other do to manage this development.
Ss per pic, the skin is tight at the folds when I flex the foot up.

EzP:
Ah, Thank you! I have most of that other than the brownie mix so that won't be too expensive at all.

Newenglander:
I'm drawn to fat women. It's very much sexual for me. Just being in one's presence can be a tease in and of itself.

One acquaintance has gained about 150 lbs during the past four years, putting her close to 400. She isn't thrilled about it but doesn't do much to change. I doubt she's fully aware of this community or even fat fetishes in general.

Occasionally, when our paths cross and we're free, we'll make time to chat with one another and catch up. There have been occasions when we've spent hours together, then when I propose leaving, often she'll say something to keep the conversation going. Sometimes she'll do this over and over. Neither of us are single. I'll admit, I enjoy her attention probably as much as she enjoys my company.

Were she to realize and exploit my fetish, trouble could ensue. This girl's obesity would make her difficult to resist.

DarkChocolateDFF:
I always had the assumption that FF or Feabie were supposed to be more of a dating platform than a bargain for money. It's as if the whole community even my feeder pals keep telling me they can't feed anyone and if I'm having any luck. We all live in NYC we have all been going to bars, cafes, buffets, events, concerts, trying to see if we will all ever have the chance of meeting other open-minded people like us & would wanna share the Feedism lifestyle together. But we are all having no luck at all we all just keep running into people asking for money or them telling us they don't have a more secure job. This is honestly crazy to us because the people we meet tell us they are financially stable and they make it sound as if life is great. But they still need a feeder to buy them food. This also brings me back to the point. It doesn't seem right that feeders have to pay for your food every day me my friends are ok with it but to me everyday living in NYC is crazy expensive. Then some people want feeding sessions they don't even do escorts if you research them I have never once seen some of the people on here's names. It's really just full of scams. My friends and I aren't going to stop trying but we are all planning on posting more about this topic.

Munchies:
Feeder here.

It's not hard to find a quality feedee. If you are struggling to find someone who matches your needs, you will need to change your approach.

Tell me what exactly you are looking for and how you've handled the situation. I can give you advice if you like.

DarkChocolateDFF:
I'm looking for a equal realtionship where we both are a 50/50 couple or are able to maintain a long term- relationship, we both pay the bills, were communicating with each never alone, we satisfy each others needs, and then pretty much somewhere down the line grow old together 💖

DarkChocolateDFF:
I always had the assumption that FF or Feabie were supposed to be more of a dating platform than a bargain for money. It's as if the whole community even my feeder pals keep telling me they can't feed anyone and if I'm having any luck. We all live in NYC we have all been going to bars, cafes, buffets, events, concerts, trying to see if we will all ever have the chance of meeting other open-minded people like us & would wanna share the Feedism lifestyle together. But we are all having no luck at all we all just keep running into people asking for money or them telling us they don't have a more secure job. This is honestly crazy to us because the people we meet tell us they are financially stable and they make it sound as if life is great. But they still need a feeder to buy them food. This also brings me back to the point. It doesn't seem right that feeders have to pay for your food every day me my friends are ok with it but to me everyday living in NYC is crazy expensive. Then some people want feeding sessions they don't even do escorts if you research them I have never once seen some of the people on here's names. It's really just full of scams. My friends and I aren't going to stop trying but we are all planning on posting more about this topic.

Lovelyxx:
Hey guys, I’m happy to report that my hubby has always been thin but since we got married a few months ago he has gained a few pounds.
He is not fat and he did not plan on gaining weight but it just happened. It’s so nice to see that happening, he’s getting comfortable ☺️
Has this happened to you too? Especially the ladies?


Ps. I have been cooking healthy meals so I suppose he has let loose a bit!

Curiousv:
As a FA, what is your favorite attitude in those who are gaining weight?

1. completely hating weight gain, trying desperately to become thin but failing, being miserable about it, comfort-eating, and inevitably getting fatter.

2. accepting that they will never become skinny, but trying to lose just a little bit of weight, not to become thin but just to be a little bit less obese. Occasional short and half-hearted diets here and there, which are not enough to stop the weight from continuing to pile up.

3. having accepted their fat bodies and being comfortable, just trying to maintain. Like, "OK, if I gain another few pounds I'll start a diet", but after it happens, pushing out the boundary again.

4. not wanting to gain per se, but loving food enough that they accept gaining as a consequence or as a price to be payed. They have no worries about it and they accept the weight gain, being confident with their bodies, but if they could eat more food while magically not gaining weight, they would choose so.

5. actually liking and enjoying the weight gain itself.

6. weight gain becoming the main drive, wanting to get as fat and as fast as possible.


What's it in fantasy, and what's it in reality?

For me, in reality I like 4 and 5 the most (if I had to order them from most to least favorite, it would be 5, 4, 3, 2, 6, 1), and in fantasy it's for someone to go through all the stages from 1 to 6.

Dan34:
Hey guys, I’ve previously been on here discussing my gfs weight gain and mobility issues, since then she has consistently been gaining a lot of weight! She then had a fall at work which saw he fracture her ankle very badly and essentially lose most remaining mobility, which in turn caused her to have to stay home, creating a lot more time to eat, and eat she did she basically constantly eats in between naps and doesn’t move around at all. Our house is on 2 floors and she no longer goes upstairs despite the fracture being healed. The doctor was extremely concerned about her weight and has said that if the ankle did need surgery he would not perform it at her weight. This only encouraged her to keep eating though!

Munchies:
Is this a "congrats" or an "oh no" situation for her?

Dan34:
She’s doesn’t seem to mind it, despite having to now exclusively work from home and only part time as she gets too exhausted from just sitting around and eating. It’s obviously very hot to watch but also concerning.