Ahhdipose:
Hello everyone im looking for stuffing recommendations anything besides the standard chug heavy cream reply looking to get the most calories out of one meal

FatCat300:
Is anyone here into mutual gaining? In my opinion at least, I am surprised that it is not a more common kink. Not only could I imagine it to be extremely hot with both partners having a lot of fat to rub against each other for one, but would also be a lot more personal and intimate as both people, at least physically, would have something more in common.

Not to say there is anything wrong with feeder/feedee relationships where one partner is really fat (mostly women) and one is small or thin (mostly men), but I seems to me that is way more common than mutual gaining to the point where there is almost a bit of fatigue.

On sites like Deviantart, for example, there always seems to be a lot more representation for just larger women than for larger men and heterosexual mutual gaining as a whole. Whenever I do search’s for mutual gaining it always seems like I still see some of the same art prices that I have also seen months prior with only like one or two new things every once in awhile.

Again, I am not really saying there is anything inherently wrong with that, I am just saying that as my own personal observation. I wonder if it is something cultural or neurological where society in general finds larger women more appealing than larger men. I also know that mutual gaining would not be considered the most practical as one partner would most likely need to be more physically fit in order to help sustain their significant other’s more unhealthy, less active lifestyle.

Though I don’t know? I have heard about some people making mutual gaining relationships work out somehow. Maybe it just depends on their living and monetary situation. And plus, I have never lived a mutual gaining relationship so I am not going to act as if I know anything of how it all feels or works out in the long or short run. I would like to at least try it some day which is why I made this post.

FatCat300:
Has anyone ever had sex or felt like having it while still stuffed really full? Has you ever felt like still having sex even if you felt like you were near your bursting point? Have you done it while both you and your partner where really stuffed and regardless of if you where thin or fat? Was it through eating a ton of food or drinking a lot of liquids?

Just curious.

Malvineous:
This isn't going to work the way you think it will, or even the way the researchers are presenting it. Having a healthy microbiome could reduce a lot of chronic health problems people have. It might reduce the negative health risks that can come from being fat. It might maybe, possibly increase your metabolism somewhat. But it can't interrupt natural processes of your body like whether you store fat at all. It's not a magical super drug, we're talking about restoring natural bacteria that would be living in your intestines anyway, but probably got killed off through antibiotics or toxins. This would be like the probiotics that are being sold right now at GNC, just targeting a specific strain that looks like it reduces inflammation from visceral fat.

Ceepert:
Almost noone adds the country they are from in the title of posts in the Personal ads section, especially dating and meetups.
There already is the "current status" circle on everyone showing if they are "online" "afk" or "offline" in the bottom right of their profile picture.
Would it be possible to add the country flag of the user to the bottom left?
I assume this isnt a problem for people form the US as most users are from there, but especially for pretty much everyone else its quite anoying cause you have to open each post to see where the user is from.

Munchies:
I'm confused. Your country flag is next to your username whenever you make a post. Right now, I see the German flag next to your username.

Ceepert:
Yes in the post itself its visible next to the name. But not in the list of posts itself. There you can only see the activity status. And when you wanna know where the user is from who posted it to see if for example if the person is in your area you have to open the post first.
Which is very anoying when you wanna check out multiple potential posts

MottiF:
I’m with Munchies, I really don’t see what the problem is, every profile posting there is a Country Flag below the profile’s name, even if user posted on several places you can see the flag

Ceepert:
Here! This is what I mean, the post list. You cant see the country flag here, but it would be super usefull if you could so you can quickly check if anyone made a post on "Dating" or "Events" or similar in your area.

Almost noone ever adds the country they are looking for people in the posts title, so when you wanna check like once a week what has been posted you need to open like 15 tabs and look into each post individualy just to see that 90% of them are USA based.

Munchies:
This isn't so much about me lambasting you (because I'm not) as it is about giving you an example of what you could have if you play your cards right.

If I were lambasting you, I'd be much, much meaner.

And ebony is the porn term for black - not African American. Ebony is for all black people - not just the American ones.

JN_TumLover56:
Well I’m all for doing better for learning from my whoopsie daisies. However I also have heard that when it comes to hate comments some people would rather consider them as “critically truthful” comments. Not like that has anything to do with this conversation, but it’s an interesting thought.

Ahh I see. I always seem to get that confused when it comes the term of “Ebony”.

Munchies:
Speaking of skill issues ...

I watch Sunn M'Cheaux religiously. He's a Harvard professor who makes content that focuses on socio-linguistics and is a gremlin (not too unlike me).

This man just made a video in which he asks people on Clapper to tag him in spicy content—especially if it involves BBW Ebony. The comments—which include men and women—praise him for his good taste.

JN_TumLover56:
At this rate, maybe saying “confidence” wasn’t the right thing to say. Perhaps mental state or something along the lines of being slapped in the face for realizing that everything I thought that I believed in was a lie and delusion. Or something like that.

Either way you can’t keep beating the horse that’s already dead.

Oh by the way, did you mean “BBW Ebony” as in African American BBW? Or is it THE Ebony herself?

Munchies:
Mm, sounds like a skill issue on your part. I recommend therapy to unpack that.

I'm a muscular black woman dating a fat white man. When we are out and about, no one is paying us any atrention. And when they do, they think we are a cute couple.

No one cares about who you like. And the handful that do are easily ignored

JN_TumLover56:
A skill issue? Really?

You know this comment of mine comes from a good place and not necessarily from self-pity. Even if it sounds like it.

The reason why I say that is because I know that I am not the only person who thinks like this, within and outside of the community. I want to speak because I also want some people feel heard, that kind that fears of getting “munched” by you.

And if I am being honest with you, I have absolutely NO SHAME in liking what I like, I mean I wouldn’t even have this username if I did. Of all the people I have dated (none of whom have ever been equal nor smaller than me) I really don’t care what people think about whenever I am seen with someone bigger than me on a date IRL. However in the online world, people are VERY critical, and as a content creator this is something that I have to be well aware of.

But I have been wrong before, I do acknowledge that. And going back to the topic, I DO hope that I am wrong about all of this especially if it’s about fearing that my fearful delusions would come true. Who knows, maybe it won’t be as bad as I thought… but I suppose we shall wait and see.

RotundHyperbole:
I think a vaccine or treatment to allow people to consume what they want when they want without gaining weight is a good thing. It'll help in several ways to make this community better.
For example, fewer people becoming feedees just because it is the only way they can find people attracted to them. Fewer people spiraling into depression because they are huge and fat but don't want to be. Fewer surgeries for weight loss. Fewer deaths caused by severe morbid obesity by those who don't want it.

Also, think of the benefits. If you get to a weight or size you're happy with, but don't want to gain any more, or want to focus on your health while still eating like a person barreling down the path to enormity, then you can.

Have to think about the positives and not assume that you don't get to make a choice about these sorts of things. Additionally, a better understanding of what mechanisms impact human's weight gain can only be good for the community. Healthier happier feedees and feeders are great for all. Regardless of weight.

52Percent:
I wonder if this is like Ozempic 2.0 but not designed for weight loss but maintenance?? Hmmmm….