Whether you are an FA, or a gainer, it is very hard to have those preferences if you are into peer pressure. You just have to say, I'm fat, or I like fat partners and let people know.

Hopefully people will not post negative comments. For one thing, if it is OK to post negative things about thin people, then that makies it OK for other people to post negative things about fat people. Also, many people on this site are thin, for one reason or another, or havee thin friends and relatives.

Everyone is different. And of the fat is inside of your muscles, it may become a huge beach ball and never get soft.

Feedism is back!

I rarely visit it now too, since there is only a message saying it is down. lol.

A lot of weight gain is caused by dieting. I have known people who have stopped dieting and acutally lost weight. Others have leveled off. But you could also gain too. I would not worry too far in the future. Do what is right for you now. You may not lose the weight you gain, but you might be able to stop gaining if you think you are getting too big.

Dr. Paul Ernsberger, a noted obesity researcher has estimated that more people died from WLS, than from the Viet Nam conflict. So, I think I would ask that stranger why he wants you dead.

Or you can say, you really look great. Did you change your hair style? Then maybe she will say, no, I gained 200 pounds. Lol

Also, not many people have 4 dozen donuts laying around. Sounds like something from the fiction department.

I can understand. Most of the women I dated, when I was single either were heavier before or after I dated them. I believe there is a lot more to a relationship than weight. But it's still nice to have been with someone at their heaviest.